Mrs. Wang, a character in the recent hit drama "Do You Know", has never been favored by her husband because she is too strong, while Mrs. Lin, an aunt, has been favored by Master Sheng because she can coquetry and show weakness. It is because she can't communicate that she thinks she should be her first wife, and she will never give in when she has a dispute with Master Sheng. Finally, it is because of the embarrassment of others.
It is foolish to play hardball. We should learn to combine rigidity with softness, so as to retreat for progress. In marriage, a woman just wants her husband's single-mindedness and love, and your competitiveness will only push her further. Learn to be a smart woman, don't be too independent, and express your dissatisfaction with gentle words. "Weakness" is not real weakness, nor is it compromise and humiliation. Only by mastering the degree of different situations and learning to give tolerance and respect to each other can we maintain good feelings.
Men's "weakness" is not as weak as women's, but learning to speak. Proper self-mockery will make your interpersonal relationship better. The famous movie star Bo Huang can be regarded as a very talkative actor. He was once asked by a reporter: "Who do you think is funny, you or Shen Teng?" Bo Huang replied: "Our first cooperation was full of tacit understanding, so" regardless of you and me "diverted the reporter's questions and skillfully resolved the embarrassment.
Just because Bo Huang's "talking" has won many fans, weakness doesn't mean that everything he says is flattering. For example, a reporter once asked Bo Huang, "Do you think you can replace Ge You?" Bo Huang didn't say how he couldn't compare with him, but replied: "This era won't stop you from shining, but you can't hide anyone's brilliance, because people used to be groundbreaking, and filmmakers created the era like China movies. We are just some younger generations who continue to move forward and dare not make mistakes for this. " This answer is supercilious, expressing the affirmation of Ge You and his own strength.
"weakness" is also a kind of wisdom. It gives respect to each other in the language of consultation and shows its sincere attitude at the same time. Proper weakness is a way of life. Wise people will always lower their posture when necessary, show weakness in time, choose forbearance and rational choice.