However, how should we do a good job in educating poetry books and children? Some people, in order not to let their children lose at the starting line, let their children study arithmetic from an early age; Some primary school students, after completing the courses prescribed by the school, have to attend 3 or 4 talent classes on weekends; Students in key middle schools can't stand the pressure and choose to commit suicide; Students who have entered colleges and universities for ten years cannot take care of themselves. All this is what parents don't want to see, and it is not the original intention of our education.
How to educate children to achieve the purpose of poetry and calligraphy? Education is teaching and educating people, and educating people is more important than teaching. Disciples also mentioned that filial piety is the first step, honesty is the second step, and learning to write is redundant. First of all, we should be filial to our elders, brothers, friends and brothers. Secondly, we should be cautious, trustworthy and responsible. Ignorance of filial piety and loyalty, like treading on thin ice to catch fish, are feudal dross, which need not be mentioned, but keeping promises and taking responsibility are eternal truths at all times and at all times, and are the foundation for a person to settle down and start a business.
Therefore, the first priority in educating children is to cultivate morality. Let the children know etiquette, honesty, honesty, responsibility and doing something. To be an indomitable person, you don't have to be called a vassal, rich and powerful, but you must have a clear conscience.
The second priority is to cultivate the mind. In today's society, competition is becoming more and more fierce. From childhood study to adult employment and entrepreneurship, competition is everywhere. Where there is competition, there must be success and failure. Life is not an idol drama, only success and glory. Life is more of a tragedy. As the saying goes, nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory. Therefore, it is particularly important to cultivate and cultivate the mind. Children should be educated to study hard, be proactive, study hard and participate actively. After hard work, don't pay attention to the results, and try your best to let the results go naturally. Let children know that success is accidental and frustration is the norm. Children should be able to withstand beating and tempering.
The third priority is education. That is, school education in the traditional sense, actively cooperate with schools, cooperate with teachers, and do a good job in learning. The key point is to pay attention to the guidance of learning methods, such as the legend of the condor heroes, and the seven chivalrous men in the south of the Yangtze River taught Guo Jing martial arts, but they didn't learn it after eight years. Guo Jing's martial arts has greatly improved in just over half a year with the proper teaching method of Quanzhen Taoist Ma Yu. I've done everything I can. If children's studies really don't improve in the end, we must accept this fact. After all, individual differences are different. Perhaps, the child has not understood. Perhaps, children's thinking is a short board.
The fourth priority is to raise children. Parenting, that is, cultivating children's specialties, should be good at observing and discovering children's interests, and encourage children to actively explore and practice their interests. Many famous people in ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, are just engaged in their favorite and interesting work. Interest can determine your achievements, and then determine the height and happiness of your life. Therefore, it is particularly important to discover and cultivate children's hobbies, hoping that children can engage in industries that interest them. However, we must not blindly follow the impetuous society, give children various talent classes and super-long classes, and let them fall into the mud of super-long classes.
In my opinion, the above is the focus and focus of our parenting, and it is the foundation for us to inherit poetry and books in today's society.
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