The excerpts and appreciation of good passages in "Fu Lei's Family Letter" are as follows:

1. Only fools will turn around when they hit a nail; smart people will learn to behave when they see others suffer.

Appreciation: The difference between fools and smart people is that smart people can learn to summarize from other people's experiences and stories, so that they can avoid detours and make wrong decisions, while fools do not have such understanding.

2. Try to ignore success or failure as much as possible, just try to do your best and feel no regrets.

Appreciation: As the saying goes, people make plans and God makes things happen. This means that as long as we work hard and do our best to realize our dreams, no matter what the result is, we should not care too much and feel no regrets. That’s it.

3. People who have not experienced acute pain will not have deep and broad sympathy.

Appreciation: Fu Lei and his wife told Fu Cong that people's mind is often related to experience. For example, sympathy is not deeply felt in the hearts of ordinary people, but for people who have experienced profound pain, You will feel the same and have more compassion.

4. Not getting carried away by victory is the best evidence of strength.

Appreciation: This sentence can be called a wise saying. After winning a victory, many people often relax their vigilance and make major mistakes, leading to irreparable results. The more victorious the moment, The more we need to be vigilant and introspective.

5. The greatness of motherhood lies not in reason, but in that kind of intuitive emotion.

Appreciation: We often praise the greatness of maternal love, so why is maternal love so great? I believe that many people will say the word selfless. Although it is true, the really great thing is that maternal love is an intuition, not out of rational thinking, but out of an instinctive reaction.