As the saying goes, "You can't make friends without faults", what does it mean? But since the ancients took it as the standard of making friends, it shows that this statement is not groundless. So, times have changed, is the ancient standard of making friends still valid today? How to correctly understand this sentence? Everyone has his own joys and sorrows, and those who have no hobbies in social activities either do things in a watertight way and refuse to show others their true colors. Either life is muddle-headed, and these two kinds of people are not worth our effort to get along with. A deep analysis of these two kinds of people can understand the reasons. First, people who refuse to show others their true colors can't be friends.

If a person shows no hobbies, he will converge his joy and package up an appearance that is stable, unrepentant and blameless, then what kind of psychology will he have?

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One is cowardice. I am afraid that my hobbies will make me look out of place. I am afraid that my hobbies will provoke discordant voices. All kinds of people choose not to tell others about their hobbies. This kind of person lacks blood, tends to be subservient to Nuo Nuo, is not sincere enough, puts self first, and even has some blx. Therefore, it will be quite difficult to associate with it, lacking the frankness that friends should have, so they say "no".

the second possibility is that this person has a deep mind and carries a deep talent when dealing with others. He never reveals his background to others, so that he can disguise himself in real time according to actual needs. This kind of people focus on interests, so they are more hypocritical in interpersonal communication. When you associate with it, it is easy to be wrongly paid, so you need to be cautious.

fig. 2. People who lead a muddled life can't live

. They need to live with temperature and enthusiasm, always have a forward look, and live a brisk life. However, no matter what things are faced with, people who have lost interest in their own lives have long lost their enthusiasm for life. In the eyes of such people, everything is so boring, and they live like a pool of stagnant water and do nothing. A dull life is followed by a large number of negative emotions: depression, anger, resentment ... it is hard to be at peace.

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Being so indifferent to everything in life, it is even more difficult to entrust people with their sincerity. This kind of person's life has no forward momentum, and there are few heartfelt pleasures. It is difficult to have feelings with others, but it is easy to output a lot of negative energy to others. Being in contact with such a boring person, not only can't share one's pain and happiness, but also can be easily brought into the negative energy circle, adding a few dark tones to one's life for no reason, which is called asking for it. Therefore, it is "inseparable".