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One of my favorite quotes is: Being angry is punishing yourself for the mistakes of others.

In today's impetuous society, many people live under pressure and are in a state of anxiety in their families, careers, and relationships. It is easy to have a bad temper, always quarreling over trivial things, and getting angry with others, no matter whether the other person is right or wrong. Once the quarrel starts, it will be endless, and then both parties will be very angry.

I know that when I am angry, I am punishing myself for the mistakes of others, hurting others and hurting myself, but I just can't control my temper.

Everyone has a temper, which can be big or small. Sometimes they will jump over the wall when they are forced to do so. Anger is unavoidable.

Because you are angry, there are endless ways to vent your anger.

Some people cry like crazy, and in the end they are tired from crying, their eyes are tired, and their hearts are tired as well. Although their emotions are relieved, their anger is strong, which damages the liver and body.

Some people go shopping crazily, eat too much, and squander money to digest their anger.

Some people use alcohol to numb themselves, "getting drunk will relieve a thousand worries."

In fact, human life is only a few decades. Why let anger occupy most of our life, and how much time is happy?

Anger is not good. It not only damages our body, but also damages our spirit and affects our life.

Nine times out of ten life will be unsatisfactory. No matter what happens, we must treat it with a peaceful heart and be less angry and less angry.

People are not afraid of poverty, but they are afraid of having no ambition. If a person lives in this world and has no ambition, he can do nothing.

But when I was a kid, I didn’t understand this. One year, I got sick, but my family was too poor and we spent a lot of money, so I had to borrow money. But when I got there, At a friend's house, the friend pretended he didn't say anything? He lent me the money right away, but later someone told me that the friend wanted to lend me more money, but he was just afraid that I wouldn't be able to repay it in the future. He also said that he didn't want the money he lent me, so he pawned it. . I was very angry when I heard that. Why did he say such a thing? Could it be that I didn't repay the money I borrowed from you because I was ill for a while. I originally wanted to pay him back immediately, but the money was spent. So I borrowed money to pay him back and couldn't borrow it. I had no choice but to wait until I recovered from my illness. I am going to pay him back, but at this time, I am no longer lying in bed, but exercising my body and thinking every day, trying my best to fight against the disease. Strive for a speedy recovery, and then earn money, and try to pay back his money first. The result is that hard work pays off, and maybe it is the grace given by God. It will be cured in less than half a year. I will hurry up after it is cured. I went out to make money, but I paid him back in half a year later, and from now on I no longer ask him for anything.

Although this is a small thing, it made me understand this truth. No matter what a person does, he must have ambition. Without ambition, you will not be able to do anything. If I hadn't had the ambition to repay his money as soon as possible and tried every means to fight the disease, I'm afraid I wouldn't have recovered so quickly, and I wouldn't have been able to repay his money as soon as possible.

If I burn, at least I am still a match. If I don't burn, then I am a waste.

This sentence comes from Huang Zihua, a famous stand-up comedy founder in the Cantonese-speaking area. This sentence was said in one of his stand-up comedy, which particularly touched me.

I often ask myself, why do I work so hard? What do you get in the end? Can we really get good results if we work hard like this? Whenever this happens, I will think of Huang Zihua’s words.

If I fight once, try once, and fail, at least I will still be a match that has been lit and shined. Even if it burns out in the end, if I don’t dare to try, I will burn and shine once if I don’t fight hard. If so, then I am a useless piece of wood that is worse than a match. Nothing will be accomplished.

So many times, when I lack the courage to fight and are too lazy to escape, I will think of this sentence. I want to ask myself, do you want to be a match that once burned, or a waste wood that can burn but gives up?

At this time, I felt that this sentence could give me a warning and let me try to work hard once. Even if the final result is failure, I have tried. At least I am willing to do it. What I am most afraid of is that I don’t have the courage to try, and I always think that if I try my best, I will succeed.

I am working so hard now, is my contribution useful? Is it worth it? Sometimes the light of the match is weak, but the shimmer can attract the shimmer. If I light it myself, I may attract a circle of people who have the same ideal goals as me to gather together. Maybe if we work together, I will be able to win. What is the desired result?

Whenever faced with a choice, I will ask myself, do you want to burn once? Do you want to be a match or a loser?

One of my favorite words was taught by my mother when we were very young. At that time, the four of us, brother and sister, must not have gone to school yet. When we were very young, we heard my mother often say similar words. I remember this sentence particularly clearly, that is: a good word will warm the winter, and a bad word will make the winter cold.

My mother is a high school student who accidentally missed out on being a teacher and has been a farmer all her life. However, my mother said that educating the four of us well is also the greatest achievement of this quilt. Now I know that the complete contrast of this sentence should be a good word, a warm winter, and a bad word, a hurtful June, but I still like my mother’s version. There are many famous quotes and poems. My mother wrote them with chalk on the kitchen wall. There are still some contents on the wall of the house where we slept. Unfortunately, the old house was renovated and the most precious part of the kitchen was not left. Fortunately, when I was a child, I wrote a diary and recorded everything on the wall. Content, this diary is still preserved.

When we were growing up, my mother not only taught us through words, but also taught us by example, letting us be upright people and useful people to society. This laid the foundation for our personality shaping and also made us We have not become such extreme people, and I will definitely educate the next generation well.

Nowadays, things have changed and people have changed. I hope my mother will be well in heaven. Your sons and daughters will listen to your teachings, be a person first, and do things later.

"The past is all false, and memories are a road with no return. All past springs cannot be restored. Even the most passionate and steadfast love is, in the final analysis, nothing more than a fleeting reality. "Only loneliness is eternal." After studying in college, I feel that my biggest gain is getting used to being alone. It's not that I am unsociable, and it's not that no one chases me, but my personality determines that I should be alone, eat alone, and be alone. I go to the library and miss him alone. I may not love him, but if I don’t love him, I won’t love others either! The four girls in the class are all close friends with me, but many times their living habits are different from mine. They don't like to go to the library to read, and like to study quietly in the dormitory. I get up very early in the morning, and they are not used to studying in the morning. I don't eat at night, and they eat to lose weight. The time just happened to make us miss each other perfectly, and everything now is my choice. I very much agree with my choice. Being alone does not mean sadness or loneliness. Fill those lonely days with books and challenge life with strength. Even if the sky is lonely, I will also be the most beautiful. Fireworks!

The sentence I admire most is a sentence my grandfather often said. It is not a wise saying, but it has always influenced me invisibly. When I heard this sentence when I was young, I only understood its meaning literally. It was only after I grew up that I understood the truth.

This sentence is "Stand in the wind when it is cold, and walk when you are hungry." When children hear this sentence, they will think, why, since it is already cold, why do you still have to stand in the cold wind? I'm already hungry, so why bother walking away with an empty stomach? It hurts to think about this sentence. My grandfather was born in 1910 and has experienced turbulent years, from the decline of the Qing Dynasty to the soldiers and bandits of the Republic of China, from the invasion of the Japanese to the eight-year victory of the Anti-Japanese War, from the three-year civil war to the expulsion of Chiang Kai-shek to Taiwan, to the founding of New China in 1949 .

Because we experienced the turmoil of soldiers and bandits, and the food output was very low at that time, it was common to suffer from hunger, so we came up with the phrase "Stand in the wind when it is cold, and walk when you are hungry" talk.

People born today or after the 1980s do not know what it means to be hungry. I was born in 1967 and I have never been hungry. It’s just that when I was a child, I had very little white flour and a lot of stick noodles. A meal of fried eggs with flatbread was a good meal. At that time, I was looking forward to the Chinese New Year. Only during the Chinese New Year could I eat meat. I usually ate very little meat. Now I eat whatever I want every day, including fish. It’s already a normal meal. Today we are no longer hungry. But this sentence still has meaning today.

Simple

Simple words contain simple truth.

The meaning of grandpa’s words today is that when encountering difficulties, one cannot bow to difficulties. My grandfather’s words, “Stand in the wind when it’s cold, walk in the wind when you’re hungry” became my weapon to overcome difficulties and gave me endless courage and strength.

The power of role models is infinite. Thanks to my grandfather’s motto, I never flinched when facing ups and downs.

One sentence can last a lifetime. It can also make people stand up and behave in this world, be upright and have no regrets for the rest of their lives!

I was in fifth grade that year. It was the late period of the turbulent era. The idea of ??using what I learned was deeply engraved in the hearts of students. After studying for several years, I could not find a job after graduation. It is better to have a good father than to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry well. It is also enviable to have a powerful father who can find a career that makes a lot of money for no effort.

The summer vacation is coming, our director Ban called me to the office and said meaningfully to me, knowledge can be used anywhere at any time. No matter what occupation, there are skills and techniques, and there is no knowledge at all. ! You are just a blind person, how can you survive until you are old? Eventually putting you in the dumpster! Live like a human being for the rest of your life!

I also know the painstaking efforts of teachers. People like me, who are too stubborn to be dragged up the wall, don’t pay attention to their studies, are number one in battles, cause trouble every day, and no one wants to care about me. I just mess around. A street gangster!

The teacher said that I had ten years left to study. Finally, the teacher gave me a notebook. It was very exquisite. The market price at that time was only eighty cents. I couldn’t put it down. I opened the first page and saw a few lines of words. In the eight eyes, "all the rivers return to the sea, how will they return to the west again?" If a young man does not work hard, the old man will be sad. I understood it then! This has been my motto for decades. It is also a guiding light for my future life!

If your heart is wandering, you will wander wherever you go.

This was my favorite sentence and still is. This is also the motto I once wrote to myself. I remember when I was in high school, every day was like a reciprocating machine. Apart from studying, I never thought about what I really wanted, what kind of major to study, or even in the future. What kind of person I want to be, I feel that those are far away from me. Until later, when the college entrance examination results came out, even though I did pretty well, I felt inexplicably confused. I didn't know what major to choose and what would suit me. I was anxious and worried. So from then on, I began to truly understand the meaning of the word "at a loss", so I wrote the sentence "If your heart is wandering, you will be wandering wherever you go" to remind myself that no matter when and where Land, you have to have a direction.

The most unforgettable thing in the world is that Zhuyancijinghuacitree

I am a person who is not very good at remembering things, but when I heard this poem for the first time , it passes through my soul like a beam of light and is imprinted in my heart. It turns out that the regrets and partings in this world can be said to be so silent, so beautiful, and so calm that I can accept those helplessness and regrets.

A lot of the time, I am busy. Busy commuting to and from get off work, busy doing laundry and cooking, busy reading and taking exams, busy pocketing the scenery on the road, busy giving an answer to the lost one...

I don’t know that I am just one person Why are you so busy? I want to stand on the roof on a light and warm night, watching the stars in the sky and listening to their joy. I want to caress the blooming flowers on the branches and smell their fragrance. I want to protect only one person I like in my life! I like everything that I like.

But along the way, as the years passed quietly, I realized that things in this world never stay a little longer because of someone's liking, nor do they stop moving forward because of someone's attachment. The scenery in your eyes changes quietly when you don't pay attention. The stars in my eyes disappeared before I had time to take a look at them. The flowers on the branches had already fallen over the small bridges and flowing water before I had time to brush them.

Qianqian looked back at the prime minister, and saw that the bustling streets were still full of people coming and going, gathering and dispersing as they pleased. And if you have smelled the fragrance of flowers, don't blame spring for being too hasty and never staying. If you have glanced at the stars, don't complain that the summer night is too short and you never stopped. Time flies by, and life is only a few autumns. Even if you can't keep it in the world, you should slow down, pick up a piece of starry sky, hide a secret fragrance, and live up to everything.

There are many, and there is a favorite sentence in each period.

Do it yourself and have enough food and clothing.

——Mao Zedong

No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step; no matter how short the road is, you can't reach it without taking both feet.

——Wang Guozhen

Don’t abandon, don’t give up.

People can be destroyed, but they cannot be defeated!

——Hemingway

It is better to give up than to give up the choice.

A mature person often finds that there are fewer and fewer people to blame, and everyone has his or her own difficulties. ——Yishu

The crowd looked for him thousands of times, but when he suddenly looked back, he found that man in a dimly lit place.

There are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun and the other is the human heart

- Keigo Higashino

Laziness is a very strange thing, it makes you You think it is comfort, rest, and blessing; but in fact, what it gives you is boredom, fatigue, and depression; it deprives you of hope for the future, cuts off the friendship between you and others, and makes you increasingly narrow-minded. , and become more and more doubtful about life.

——Romain Rolland

Don’t be confused in your heart, don’t be trapped in your emotions. Don't be afraid of the future and don't dwell on the past.

Many people cannot understand through thinking what makes things have inner life and breath. Instead, they spend their whole life discussing people and things. People seem to be mechanical, and things It's as if there is no soul, and then they talk nonsense based on subjective inspiration. If the pace of life was not so fast, if we could have more time to think, think about the meaning of life, think about the relationship between man and nature, and think about the differences in values, life would be more interesting. Gradually, I discovered that many people around me don’t think. They just keep repeating other people’s opinions to show their inner independence.

——Marie Barbary's "The Elegance of the Hedgehog"

When I look back, it turns out that all my efforts in life were just for the sake of the people around me. I am just satisfied. In order to win the praise and smiles of others, I carefully put myself into all the patterns and shackles. Only on the way did I realize that all I had left was a vague face and a road of no return.

——"Alone"