The relationship with the original team members is relatively beneficial. Objectively, members of the same team are also potential competitors. Your withdrawal can resolve many potential conflicts, so as long as there is no Chen Feng, the relationship will be more beneficial, but it is also We should pay attention to gradually widening the distance, downplaying the relationship and reducing contacts. Unless there is a special relationship, it will be harmful rather than helpful. There is one thing that we should pay special attention to, that is, the courtesy and courtesy of everyone in the original unit cannot be avoided. Although you are no longer at your post, they usually don't think of you. When there is something big or small at home, they will definitely think of you. This Don't worry about reciprocity, just show up generously and show your love. Especially if our family has something to do and we have a debt of gratitude, you must be there when you know it and don't be absent for any reason. At the same time, we must remember that when something happens to our family, we must not call everyone one by one to say hello to the office department. It can only be Jiang Taigong fishing. Retired people, especially those who have been retired for many years, are the most looked down upon by posting "hero posts" everywhere. Secondly, deal with the relationship between good friends. "The key is to have friends." If you don't have friends, you are not friends. How many friends do beggars on the roadside have? It may not be because they have low emotional intelligence, but because they don't have them. There are some things you once had but now you don’t have them. It’s not surprising that the friends you made because of them leave you. "There are only eternal interests but no permanent friends." It must be acknowledged that many friendship relationships are based on mutual interests. As interest relationships change, interest groups divide and reorganize, the circle of friends and the degree of friendship will change. Retirement is the biggest turning point in life, and it is also the moment when social circles and friends circle change the most. It is a truth that the higher the rank and the bigger the official, the greater the change after retirement. The "top leaders" also change greatly. Some people have almost no social interaction or friends after retirement because they only use their power and have no intention of making friends when they are in office. So without power, there are no friends. This is very normal, don't make a fuss, just accept it as normal, it is human nature, only interests are eternal and friends are not permanent. Therefore, it is necessary to keep a low profile when facing society and conduct yourself in a low-key manner. As a casual aside, many of our friends have become estranged from us after getting promoted and getting rich. It’s not that they have changed their minds, but that their social circle has changed and they don’t have as much energy or time to take care of us as before. “It’s easy to get rich and to have a wife. Friend", don't have any thoughts about this. There is a kind of disdainful "fair-weather friend", which is not favored by people. People always think that eating and drinking is not the behavior of a gentleman. In fact, practice has proved that among all kinds of friends, fair-weather friends have the least interests and harms, but those who share similar odors account for the most. There are more people. After people lose their usable value, these people may be the ones left around you the most, because these people have the simplest purpose of interacting with you. Even if they are not fair-weather friends, they are gentlemen's acquaintances. When you retire, you will be with them. The medium through which you communicate the most is still fair-weather. With retirement in your workplace and position, the friends you make will gradually disappear over time. And fair-weather is something we can't live without for life, so fair-weather friends are lifelong. Believe it or not. . We should also keep pace with the times when it comes to making friends. Different periods should have different priorities. During adolescence, we should make friends with teachers and learn more knowledge to enrich ourselves and benefit from it throughout our lives. Before the age of forty-five, build good relationships with leaders and friends in the organization department, get an official position, and increase the value of life. After the age of forty-five, you need to establish a good relationship with people in white coats and make friends. The hospital is a very special place. No matter how rich you are or how old you are, everyone needs to have a doctor friend. No one can avoid it. When you retire, you can lose all other friends, but there is one friend you must have, and that is to make friends with time. Time is a very special friend. It will be good to whoever is good to it. As long as you cherish it, you will have it. It, without time as a friend you will lose everything, let us hug time as a friend tightly. Hope to adopt it, thank you!