1, true charity is to let go of troubles, troubles, differences, persistence and everything. 2. Changing yourself means saving yourself, influencing others and saving others. 3. People's mind is narrow if they want more, and wide if they want less. 4. Only those who respect themselves are more brave in shrinking themselves. 5, saints seek the heart, not the Buddha; Fools have no intention of seeking Buddha. 6. don't do all kinds of evil, pursue all kinds of good, don't take good as small, and don't take evil as small. 7. Being jealous and hating others is equivalent to giving your life to others. 8. It is a saint to reduce desire to the lowest point and sublimate reason to the highest point. 9. It is better to talk more than to talk less, and it is better to talk less than to talk more. 10, I have fun in my dream, but I feel empty after I feel it. 1 1, right and wrong happen every day. If you don't listen, just let nature take its course. 12, a person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. 13. Respect parents, be kind to children, be generous to relatives and friends, and be polite to the public. Treat feelings with understanding; Treat friendship with a persistent heart! 14, insist on saying nice things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that these nice things won't reach the ears of the parties. Don't listen, don't spread, don't believe gossip. Make a rule not to talk about others behind their backs unless you say something nice. 15, behavior, every move should be self-respecting; Speak with self-respect in every word and deed; In life, everything should be self-respecting; Be a man and respect yourself for a while! 16, people gave me comfort, and I returned his enthusiasm; People treat me well and I respect him; People give me tolerance, and I return his sincerity; People give me self-esteem, and I am very happy with him! 17, handsome but not frivolous, usually not domineering, talkative and not entangled, few words, cautious but not timid, brave but not rude, meticulous but not stingy, smart and indifferent, not self-disturbing, lovelorn and unyielding! 18, be a man with five things: a strong body; Have a legitimate occupation; Have superb skills; Have rich knowledge; Have the passion of a fair lover! 19, firm but not stubborn, lively but not frivolous, brave but not reckless, calm but not indecisive, alert but not suspicious, bold but not rude, honest but not ignorant, patient but not cowardly, cautious but not timid, confident but not conceited, modest but not inferior, self-love but not arrogant. 20. Don't panic when things are complicated, don't be idle when you are idle, keep your word, be firm when you don't want it, and be harmonious if it is spring breeze and autumn frost.

2 1, don't let others see your innocence, run if you don't understand; Don't judge others' looks, because they don't live on you; Don't judge the virtue of others, because you are not nobler than him; Don't judge other people's families, because it has nothing to do with you; Don't judge other people's knowledge, because knowledge is the most important thing in the world. 22. In the vast sea of people, if you don't want to be isolated, you must learn how to get along with others. When the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds. You are not required to like all people, but at the same time there are no best people in the world. Harmony is the most important thing, we should leave steps for each other and give each other face. 23. If you don't make a name for yourself, sarcasm will disappear; Do more practical things, and honor will come unexpectedly. Be free, independent, self-reliant, not conceited, not conceited, not conceited! 24, gentle but not timid, quiet but not artificial, beautiful but not enchanting, seeking differences but not seeking blame, virtuous but not timid, affectionate but not frivolous, self-love but not narcissism, alert but not suspicious! 25. Be a man: First, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. Second, be modest and beautiful, and let more people fight less. Third, be kind to others and guard against arrogance and rashness. Fourth, we should help the poor. Fifth, treat people with sincerity and stay away from right and wrong. 26. If you are frustrated, don't lose heart and don't get carried away; Frustration is not discouraged, failure is not discouraged; Brave but not reckless, self-improvement without self-deception; Criticism does not slander, praise does not flatter; Self-confidence is not pride, but overcorrection! 27. Being a valuable person is better than being a valuable person; It is better to be a busy person than to be an efficient person. People should not only live in the past, but also live happily in the future. 28. Do you live by yourself? The second ceremony? Rule the world? Three laws? Ding Jiangshan. So-called? The second ceremony? Yes: polite and reasonable; So-called? Three laws? Yes: ideas, opinions and practices. 29. Allowing others to help others is a good way to get along with others. Gratitude is the virtue pursued by personality; Generosity and honesty are the basis of doing things. 30. Be a man and tell right and wrong, but don't care too much about interests; Be interested in doing things, but don't be too afraid of right and wrong. For people, look on the bright side and see the advantages; Think from a distance and look at the overall situation.