1 career
The importance of career to our life is self-evident. Through career, we can gain wealth and realize self-worth, which is an important pillar of our success in life.
2. Family and friends
Many people admit the importance of family and claim to give more time and attention, but in actual scenes, we always show duplicity and run counter to our words and deeds.
We expect the people closest to us to accept the fact that we don't have much time to spend with them, because our schedule is too full and we take our actions for granted. In fact, the relationship with family and friends is the most important source of a happy life.
3. Maintain integrity
Honesty is the most important cornerstone of our life. Once it is destroyed, our life will collapse. Many people have worked hard all their lives and accumulated success and wealth, but they all lost it because of a moral or even legal mistake. Such examples abound in life.
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Enlightenment to us
How to choose a passionate job; How to have a long and happy family relationship and friendship; How to stick to integrity and not make fatal mistakes? If you can do these three things well, you can have a successful life.
Mencius has a saying: "If you are in a low position and don't get ahead, the people can't be ruled." If you don't trust your friends, you will be on your way. Trust your friends. You will be happy when you are close to them. Trust your friends. There are ways to please relatives, but they are insincere and unhappy with relatives. I really have a way, but I don't know if it's good. "
The core idea of this passage is the Confucian life concept of "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world", which is also about these three fields, but logically they are internally related. Start with self-cultivation and be a moral person, then take good care of your family and friends, and then run the country and make achievements.
Successful lives are similar, and both the West and the East have similar ideas about life strategies.