People always envy the advantages of others and see their own shortcomings. This will make you lose self-confidence and blindly fall into the pain of inferiority. We should amplify our advantages.
I am a vivid example. I always hunch over when I walk. When everyone saw me, I said, "What's wrong with you? You are depressed. " Although my deskmate is not tall enough, she always walks with her head held high. Everyone who saw her said, "Look, that girl is so temperamental!" " "
A person who can't enlarge his own advantages is like a flower that withers before it opens. He always appreciates the beauty of peony, praises the fragrance of jasmine, marvels at the charm of roses and laments his own ordinary. Without it, how can you see its blooming beauty?
We should expand our advantages. You can find our advantages in others, and you will find that I am rich. We don't have to suffer, we should learn to look at problems with a positive eye. Then you will see a different world.
Of course, magnifying one's own advantages is not blindly magnifying, if so, it will become an excuse to brag about oneself. Laozi once said, "He who knows others knows clearly, and he who knows himself wins." People must look at themselves correctly. For example, just because you have better analytical skills, it is arrogant to say that you can be the president.
In a word, people should learn to enlarge their own advantages, or they will live in a miserable life of comparing themselves forever. Only when we see our own advantages and enlarge them can we give full play to our own advantages.