1. Examples of famous people who made mistakes because they were afraid of making mistakes
When Lenin was eight years old, his mother took him to Aunt Aniya’s house as a guest.
The lively little Lenin accidentally broke a vase in the girl's house. But no one saw it.
Later, the aunt asked the children: "Who broke the vase?" The other children said: "It wasn't me." But little Lenin was afraid of being in a stranger's house and was afraid of what would happen if he told the truth. He was scolded by his unfamiliar aunt, so he followed everyone and answered loudly: "No - it's me!" However, looking at his expression, his mother had already guessed that the vase was broken by the naughty little Lenin.
Because this child is very naughty, similar things often happen at home. However, young Lenin always took the initiative to admit his mistakes and never lied.
So, little Lenin’s mother thought: How should she deal with her child lying? Of course, the easiest way is to directly expose this matter and punish him. But Lenin's mother didn't do this.
She believes that it is important to educate her son to have the courage to admit mistakes after making mistakes and to be an honest and good child instead of blaming him. So she pretended to believe her son, and did not mention it for three months. Instead, she told her son various stories about the virtues of honesty and trustworthiness, waiting for the deep conscience of her son to sprout feelings about her behavior. Feeling of shame.
Since then, Lenin’s mother clearly felt that her son was not as lively as before, and it seemed that his conscience was torturing him. One day, before little Lenin went to bed, his mother stroked his head and told him stories as usual.
Unexpectedly, little Lenin suddenly burst into tears and told his mother in pain: "I deceived Aunt Aniya. I said it was not me who broke the vase, but it was actually ***." I heard that the child Ashamed and uncomfortable, his mother comforted him patiently and said: "Write a letter to Aunt Aniya and admit your mistake to her, and your aunt will definitely forgive you."
So, little Lenin got up immediately, With the help of my mother, I wrote a letter to my aunt admitting my mistake.
2. The story of mistakes due to habit
When Barreni was disabled due to illness when she was a child, her mother’s heart felt like a knife being twisted, but she still held back her grief. .
She thought that what the child needs most now is encouragement and help, not the mother's tears. The mother came to Barreni's hospital bed, held his hand and said: "Son, mother believes that you are an ambitious person, and I hope you can use your own legs to walk bravely on the road of life! Good job!" Reni, can you promise mom?" His mother's words hit Barreni's heart like a hammer. He cried "Wow" and threw himself into his mother's arms.
From then on, whenever her mother had free time, she would practice walking and gymnastics for Barreni, and she was often so exhausted that she was sweating profusely. One time, my mother caught a bad cold. She thought that mothers should not only teach through words, but also teach by example.
Despite having a high fever, she got out of bed and helped Barreni practice walking as planned. Bean-like sweat dripped down her mother's face. She wiped it with a dry towel, gritted her teeth, and helped Barreni complete the day's exercise plan.
Physical exercise makes up for the inconvenience caused by Barreni's disability. The role of his mother's example deeply educated Barreni, and he finally withstood the harsh blow given to him by fate.
He studies hard and his academic performance has always been among the best in the class. Finally, he was admitted to the Medical College of the University of Vienna with excellent results.
After graduating from university, Barreni devoted all his energy to the research of otological neurology. Finally, he finally got on the podium of the Nobel Prize in Physiology and Medicine.
3. Specific examples of admitting mistakes when you make them
1. "The Story of an Iron Pestle Grinded into a Needle" written by Li Bai when he was a child. Extremely naughty, he would dig out bird eggs and fight with the neighbor's chickens... When he saw this, he understood this and became angry and strong.
Detailed story: Li Bai, the famous poet of the Tang Dynasty, did not like to study, so he often skipped school and wandered on the street... One day, Li Bai did not go to school again, and wandered around on the street, looking here and there. Unexpectedly, we arrived outside the city. The warm sunshine, cheerful birds, and flowers and plants swaying in the wind made Li Bai sigh, "With such good weather, how boring would it be to read in the house all day?" As he walked, he came across a man sitting at the door of a broken thatched hut. The old woman with white hair was grinding an iron pestle as thick as a stick.
Li Bai walked over and asked, "Old woman, what are you doing?" "I'm going to grind this iron pestle into an embroidery needle." The old woman raised her head, smiled at Li Bai, and then lowered her head to continue. Grinding.
"Embroidery needle?" Li Bai asked again: "Is it an embroidery needle used for sewing clothes?" "Of course!" "But the iron pestle is so thick, when can it be ground into a thin embroidery needle? "The old woman asked Li Bai: "A drop of water can penetrate a stone, and a foolish old man can move a mountain. Why can't an iron pestle be ground into an embroidery needle?" "But you are so old?" "As long as I work harder than others, Nothing is impossible." The old woman's words made Li Bai feel ashamed. From then on, he understood this truth and worked hard to become stronger.
So after I returned, I never skipped school again. I also studied very hard every day, and finally became a poet who will be famous throughout the ages.
2. "Washington cut down the cherry tree" Washington cut down his father's cherry tree, which is rare in the United States, and later took the initiative to admit his mistake to his father. Detailed story: Washington, the founding father of the United States, was very brave when he was a child.
One day, his father gave him a small ax. The small ax head is brand new, small and sharp.
Little George is so happy! He thought that his father's big ax could chop down big trees, but could my small ax chop down small trees? I'm going to give it a try. He saw a cherry tree on the edge of the garden. The breeze swayed it, as if waving to him: "Come on, little George, try your little ax on me!" Little George happily said He ran over and raised his ax to chop down the cherry tree. One blow, two blows... The cherry tree fell to the ground.
He used a small ax to cut off the branches and leaves of the small tree, clamped the small tree stick between his legs, held the small ax in one hand, and held the small tree stick in the other, and started playing in the garden. Horseback riding game. When his father came home, he saw the chopped tree and was very angry because the cherry tree cost a lot of money to buy. It was Washington's father's favorite tree.
Washington was very angry when he saw his father. Although he was very afraid of being punished, he still mustered up the courage to say to his father: "Dad, I cut down the cherry tree! I just want to try what you gave me. Is the ax very sharp? His father saw that Washington had the courage to admit his mistakes. Instead of punishing him, he praised him greatly: Good boy, your honesty makes me very happy, because even ten thousand cherry trees can't bear it. Not as good as an honest child! 3. Shen Congwen is a famous modern writer in my country. He was born in a peasant family in Fenghuang County, Hunan Province. When he was a child, Shen Congwen was fascinated by puppet shows and often delayed his studies.
One morning, Shen Congwen slipped out of class and ran to the village to watch a play. The puppet show that day was "The Monkey King Crosses the Flame Mountain". Shen Congwen was very excited and laughed.
He reluctantly returned until the sun set.
The next day, as soon as Shen Congwen entered the school, he severely asked him why he was absent from class. . He blushed with shame and hesitated to answer.
The teacher was so angry that he made him kneel under the tree and scolded loudly: "Look, this nanmu tree is growing up every day. But you just don't want to make progress and are willing to be a worthless dwarf. "The next day, the teacher called him again and said to him: "Everyone is studying hard, but you sneaked away to watch the theater.
Although I humiliated you yesterday, it was also for your own good. A person can only get respect if he respects him. "
The teacher's words made Shen Congwen shed tears. He secretly vowed to remember this lesson and be a respected person.
After that, Shen Congwen He has always been strict with himself and became a famous writer when he grew up. 4. Once, Confucius and his disciples Zi Lu, Zigong and Yan Yuan visited Haizhou.
Confucius heard a rumbling sound and was surprised. Zilu said: "It's thundering and raining on the other side of the mountain, why are we still rushing there? Zilu said, "This is not the sound of thunder and rain, but the sound of waves crashing on the shore." "Confucius had never seen the sea and wanted to go to the seaside to see the sea, so Confucius and his entourage took a car to the foot of Quyang Mountain on the seaside.
Confucius and his disciples climbed to the top of the mountain and saw that the water and the sky were connected. The sea was vast and they were all very excited. At this time, Confucius felt hot and thirsty. He asked Yan Yuan to go down the mountain to scoop out sea water to drink.
Yan Yuan took the container and was about to go down the mountain when he suddenly heard someone behind him. Everyone thought it was strange that he was laughing. When they looked back, they saw that it was a fisherman's child, so they asked him why he was laughing. The child said: "The sea water is salty and astringent, so you can't drink it." "
After saying that, he handed the bamboo tube filled with fresh water to Confucius. Confucius drank the water and quenched his thirst. He was very grateful to the child and was about to say thank you when suddenly the sea breeze blew a gust of rain. Zilu became anxious when he saw it, and shouted: "Oops, where can we hide from the rain now? The fisherman boy said to everyone: "Don't worry, please come with me!" "After that, the child led the children into a cave, which was where he usually hid fish.
Confucius stood at the entrance of the cave to hide from the rain, while he was philosophizing about the seascape in the rain. He couldn't help but feel inspired by poetry. Two lines of poetry were recited: "The wind blows thousands of waves in the sea, and the rain makes thousands of holes on the beach. Confucius's three disciples all praised Confucius for his well-written poems, but the child was opposed to it. He said to Confucius: "Have you ever counted thousands of waves and ten thousand pits?" " Confucius heartily agreed with the child's rebuttal.
After the rain stopped, the child went fishing on the sea again. Confucius recalled the things that had just happened, and he apologized and blamed himself. Three disciples: "I have said before that only superior wisdom and inferior foolishness cannot change. It seems that this is not appropriate. We should still advocate 'learning to know' and 'knowing is knowing, and not knowing is not knowing'." ”
Confucius was already a world-famous sage at that time, but in front of a child, he realized his shortcomings and mistakes.
4. A short story about making mistakes< /p>
An Honest Child
When Lenin was eight years old, one day, he and his father visited his aunt's house.
The cousins ??were very happy to see Lenin and took him to play together. They were playing hide and seek in the room. Lenin accidentally touched the table, and a vase on the table fell and broke. The children were playing so enthusiastically that no one noticed, they were still chasing each other. My aunt heard the sound and ran in to see that the vase was broken, so she asked: "Who broke it?" The cousins ??all said, "It wasn't me!" Lenin also whispered: "It wasn't me." The aunt smiled. Said: "The vase must have broken by itself." Everyone laughed, except Lenin.
Back home, Lenin lay on the bed and said nothing. His mother asked him why he was unhappy, and Lenin told his mother about breaking the vase. His mother asked him to write a letter to his aunt and admit that he had lied.
A few days later, the postman delivered a reply letter from my aunt. The aunt said in the letter: "You can admit your mistakes when you do something wrong. You are an honest child."
5. The story of making mistakes because of inattention
Cat Fishing I think everyone has heard the story. The reason why it failed to catch fish was because the kitten was not attentive enough.
Many students cannot achieve good results for this reason. Only by focusing on things and working wholeheartedly can we achieve good results. As the saying goes: You can't do two things at once.
Everyone’s energy is limited at the same time. The more things you do at the same time, the quality of everything you do will inevitably decrease. Celebrities at home and abroad all understand this truth.
The poet Jia Dao of the Tang Dynasty "refined" his poems and bumped into Yin Hanyu's sedan chair in Beijing; the great German poet Goethe wrote Faust and devoted himself to it for 60 years; Hua Luogeng concentrated on thinking about mathematical problems. His little daughter yelled and cried without paying attention. These celebrity stories that we are familiar with all reveal one truth: Only by focusing on things can you achieve good results and succeed.
Concentrate on what you do and throw away other distracting thoughts, and you will find that you will be integrated into what you are doing unconsciously, and nothing around you will be able to disturb you. Just imagine, how could the study and work efficiency not be high at this time? If you concentrate for a long time, how can you fail to achieve excellent results and succeed? Under the irradiation of sunlight, the concave lens can only ignite the paper by focusing it on a point on the paper.
Each of us is like a concave lens, bathed in the sun at the same time. The reason why some people succeed and others fail depends on whether our focus is focused on one point. A young man said to the entomologist Fabre distressedly: "I have spent all my energy tirelessly on the career I love, but the results have been very little."
Fabre asked this question What kind of work does the young man do? This young man said: "I love science, but I also love literature. I am interested in music and art." There is no doubt that this young man's tireless work will definitely increase the possibility of his success, but He unintentionally only increased the thickness of his concave lens, but did not focus it on one point, and this ultimately led to his failure.
According to legend, Yang Jing, a national chess player in the Han Dynasty, once played chess with a divine monkey. At first the situation was not favorable for him.
Later, he ate a lot of fresh peaches in front of the monkey, which made the monkey drool, and he was not interested in playing chess, and finally defeated the monkey three times. The failure of both the young man and the monkey was due to lack of concentration.
In the same way, each of us needs to focus our energy on one thing, otherwise, we will end up like them. There is no difference in the way of the sage.
One is not consistent, the other two are not the way. Each of us should learn to concentrate on doing things. Only by concentrating on doing things can we achieve good results and succeed.
6. Asking for stories about celebrities who made mistakes when they were young. I want the kind of celebrities who made mistakes, but with the forgiveness of their parents
Don’t neglect good deeds because they are too small, and don’t neglect evil because they are too small. This sentence is what Liu Bei told his son Liu Chan when he was dying during the Three Kingdoms period. It was intended to educate Liu Chan not to despise small things, not to not do good things because they have little impact, and not to do bad things just because they have little impact. This sentence is still of guiding significance to our self-cultivation. Don’t neglect doing good deeds because they are small. A mistake often starts from a small thing that has no starting point. As the saying goes, “Steal a needle when you are young, steal gold when you are big” and “Thousands of miles away” This is what the saying goes. Although bad things are small, they can corrode a person's soul. Over time, they will lead to qualitative changes from quantitative changes, and finally they will jump into the pit of crime and become a shameful sinner. Some students usually do not pay attention to their moral cultivation, and over time develop bad habits: being late, absent from class, hanging out in Internet cafes, whistling, beating and scolding each other, sarcasm, and even making friends with some social gangsters to blackmail their classmates for money; some even Go and commit petty theft; others gather a group of people to fight because of some conflicts with their classmates. Students should not think that this is a trivial matter. If we hear about it, we will not realize the seriousness of the problem and we may try to correct it. , if you still go your own way, the consequences will be unimaginable, and you will develop into illegal behaviors and eventually be punished by the law. Some students' current behaviors have reached the point of being illegal, such as carrying out knives to commit robberies, stealing air-conditioning copper pipes in family areas, etc. It's just because you are still young and have not been investigated criminally. Once you continue, you will be severely punished and your future will be ruined. It will be too late to regret it by then. Don't let it be a small kindness and neglect it. A drop of water can reflect the brilliance of the sun. , a good thing can reveal a person's noble and pure soul. Small things are the basis of big things, and big things are the accumulation of small things. If you despise ordinary good things, you will not do great things. If you despise a drop of water, you will not do great things. There will be vast oceans. If you despise a tree, there will be no dense forests. If you despise bricks and tiles, you will not be able to build high-rise buildings. For thousands of years, the ancients have many famous sayings emphasizing the importance of "doing small things" Aphorism: Gather armpits to form fur, gather sand to form a tower, build up soil to form a mountain, accept rivers to form a sea, accumulate good deeds to form a virtue. We must start from small things, start from bits and pieces. It is not difficult for a person to do a good deed, but it is difficult to do good deeds all his life. If a person insists on doing good things and not doing bad things, then he will definitely get the respect of the society and the praise of the people. Turning off the lights, saying a kind word, giving up his seat, and smiling are all contributions to the interests of the public. Xiao Small acts of kindness, a little effort, do not require us to pay a lot, but they can exchange for understanding, harmony, and friendship. Do something for the society, do something for others, do something for yourself, and a beautiful life lies in everyone's every moment. Creation extends through perseverance. Students: Please pay attention to your actions, because actions can become habits. Please pay attention to your habits, because habits can become character. Please pay attention to your character, because character can determine your destiny. Small and big are relative, but good and evil are absolute. No matter how small the good is, it is good, and no matter how small the evil is, it is evil. Good is a cycle, and evil is also a cycle. Let us always remember "Don't Do not do good deeds if they are small, and do not do evil if it is small."
7. Allusions in history about mistakes due to carelessness
Guan Yu lost Jingzhou due to carelessness
Losing Jingzhou due to carelessness, that is, during the Three Kingdoms period, the famous general Guan Yu lost three counties in Jingzhou ( Nanjun, Wuling, Lingling) allusions. The summary of the story is: After the Battle of Chibi, the seven counties of Jingzhou were divided among the three families of Liu Bei, Cao Cao, and Sun Quan. Liu Bei entered Shu (Sichuan), leaving Guan Yu to guard and occupy the five counties of Jingzhou (Nanjun, Changsha, Lingling, Guiyang, and Wuling). , among which Nanjun was borrowed by Liu Bei from Soochow. After Liu Bei obtained Shuchuan, he returned Changsha and Guiyang counties to Sun Quan (equivalent to returning Nan County). Later, Guan Yu sent troops to attack Cao Cao's Xiangfan area. Sun Quan sent Lu Meng to take advantage of the opportunity to attack the three counties of Jingzhou (Nanjun, Wuling, and Lingling) and fell, causing the three counties of Jingzhou to fall. Being careless and losing Jingzhou is now a metaphor for failure or loss due to carelessness. It means carelessness, pride and underestimation of the enemy.
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8. Examples of (celebrities) who know how to take responsibility for making mistakes
1. Frank, after hard work, saved a sum of money to start a business A small bank. But a bank robbery led to his extraordinary experience. He went bankrupt and savers lost their savings. When he started from scratch with his wife and four children, he decided to repay the astronomical sum of money. Everyone advised him: "Why are you doing this? You are not responsible for this." But he replied: "Yes, maybe legally I am not, but morally, I have a responsibility. I The money should be repaid."
The price of repayment was 39 years of hard life. When he sent the last "debt", he sighed: "I am finally lighter." He spent his life's hard work and hard work. He fulfilled his responsibilities with blood and sweat and left a real wealth to the world.
2. The story of Washington cutting down the cherry tree
3. The story of Lenin wanting to apologize to his aunt
4. An 11-year-old American boy was playing football. He accidentally broke the glass of his neighbor's house. The neighbor was very angry and sued him for US$12. This $12.5 was an astronomical figure at the time, enough to buy 125 egg-laying hens. The boy told his father what had caused the trouble and repented.
Seeing his son's embarrassment, the father took out 12 US dollars and said, "I lent you this money. You must pay it back to me exactly after one year." After the boy lost the money, he began to work hard. . Finally, after half a year of hard work, he returned this "astronomical figure" to his father exactly. This boy was later US President Ronald Reagan. He also recalled: "I understand what responsibility means by taking responsibility through my own labor."
5. There is a 6-story building built in 1917 on Poyang Street in Wuhan City. The designer is an architectural design firm in the UK. At the end of the 20th century, one day after the building called "Jingming Building" had spent 80 years, its designer, thousands of miles away, sent a letter to the owner of the building. The letter informs: The Jingming Building was designed by our firm in 1917, with a design life of 80 years. It has expired. Please note that the owners are advised.
For a building built 80 years ago, not to mention the designer, not even the people who built it are still alive, right? However, there are still people who are worried about its safety! The one who cared about this was actually its original designer, a foreign architectural design firm!
6. Han Huimin, who was named the Touching China Person of the Year in 2008, and his wife have taken care of his first girlfriend for more than 20 years.
7. Hong Zhanhui took care of his sister, took her to college, and tried his best to create better living conditions for his sister
8 Those characters who touched China are basically of this type People
9. The story about "Celebrities treat mistakes"
Once, his mother took Lenin to his aunt's house as a guest.
Little Lenin broke a vase at his aunt's house. So the aunt asked the children: "Who broke the vase?" Little Lenin was afraid of being criticized by his aunt, so he followed the other children and said, "It wasn't me!" However, the mother guessed that the vase was broken by the naughty little Lenin. , because this child is very naughty and similar things often happen at home.
However, Lenin always took the initiative to admit his mistakes and never lied. She pretended to believe her son and never mentioned the matter. Instead, she told her son stories about the virtues of honesty and trustworthiness, waiting for him to admit it on his own initiative.
One day, young Lenin suddenly burst into tears while his mother was telling a story, and painfully told his mother: "I deceived my aunt. I said it was not me who broke the vase, but it was actually ***. "After hearing the child's shameful and uncomfortable statement, his mother patiently comforted him and told him that as long as he wrote to his aunt to admit his mistakes, her aunt would forgive him.
So young Lenin got up immediately, and with the help of his mother, wrote a letter to his aunt admitting his mistake. From then on, Lenin never lied again. When he grew up, he also gained the support of the people through the valuable quality of honesty.
From then on, Lenin never lied again. When he grew up, he also gained the support of the people through the valuable quality of honesty.