Zeng Guofan was the first of the four famous ministers in the late Qing Dynasty, also known as "the first perfect man in the ages". He has pondered the wisdom of dealing with people. Take 16 as an example, every word contains great wisdom.
Accept what has happened calmly.
When things come, we should face them bravely, not hesitate and be at a loss. Neither evasion nor procrastination is the best solution.
As the old saying goes, "Speed means opportunity, while slowness means change". This sentence means that if the speed is fast, you can seize the opportunity to solve the problem quickly. The longer you delay, the greater the possibility of change.
Don't think too much about the future
The meaning of this sentence is that a gentleman just tries to live the present and doesn't have to worry about what will happen in the future, because what you do well now often determines what the future will look like.
It wasn't miscellaneous at that time.
Zeng Guofan said: "When a mortal does something, he must concentrate on it, persevere from beginning to end, and never change his mind. If he does this and thinks that, he will sit on this mountain and look at that mountain. People are not constant, and nothing can be achieved in life. "
When you do something, you need to concentrate and never be distracted. If you "fish for three days and dry the net for two days", you will be thinking about another thing at the same time, then you can't do both things well.
Never fall in love.
Don't dwell on the past. People can't always live in memories. No matter how good the memory is, it is just a cloud in the past, which is of no benefit to you.