Disciple Rules was originally named Xun Mengwen, and the original author Li Yuxiu (A.D. 1662- 1722) was a scholar in the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty. The Analects of Confucius says that a disciple is filial and a younger brother is a younger brother. They are sincere and trustworthy, they love all the people, and they are kind and spare, and they take learning as the center. It is divided into five parts, specifically stating the rules and regulations that disciples should abide by when they are at home, going out, treating others, receiving things and studying. Later, Jia Cunren revised and adapted Xun Meng Wen in the Qing Dynasty, and renamed it Disciples' Rules, which is the best reading for enlightening self-cultivation, educating children to guard against evil and keep upright, and cultivating loyal family style. Although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifice must be sincere. Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must read classics. Abandoning morality and morality is the fundamental reason for public security corruption. The reason why people are greedy, lazy and degenerate is that if they want to bring peace to the world, they must start from the roots. The only way to reverse the crime trend is to teach filial piety. Mistakenly think that the root is the branch end, and the recognized branch end is the root. In order to solve problems, create problems. A gentleman has only one career, and this career is self-improvement. As the saying goes, "godson is a beginner, goddaughter is a beginner". Before the child's nature is defiled, good words are easy to come in; Prejudice, long-term and not easy to change; The kindness and self-confidence of old friends must be cultivated from an early age; It is necessary to teach parents to read classics when children are young and cultivate their fundamental wisdom and determination; More sense of karma, Dunlun did his best; If you don't teach when you are young, you can't help it when you grow up! The three-character scripture says: "it is the father's fault not to teach;" What is a teacher? A strict missionary. 」; "The way of teaching lies in design. ",not rich but miscellaneous; Therefore, a classic should be read a hundred times and recited a thousand times. Su Dongpo said: "You can never get tired of reading old books. You should be familiar with them and think deeply about yourself. "At present, the bad place in teaching lies in richness and complexity, and it doesn't pay attention to causal morality and the cultivation of students' reading ability and determination, which leads to today's bitter fruit. Look forward to wise parents and teachers, and deeply understand the purpose; This is the lifeblood of Chinese culture, and whether Chinese descendants can enjoy peace for a long time is the key. People of insight should see this. For hundreds of years, our Chinese ancestors have always believed in a simple truth: when children are young (0 ~ 13 years old), they have a good memory. We should remember the life experiences and wisdom of our predecessors, remember them firmly and keep them in mind. Although he still doesn't understand its profound meaning at this time, remember first, just like cows eat grass first and ruminate when they have time, children's understanding ability also grows with age. When they reach a certain age, they will naturally brew and ferment, which will inevitably lead to deeper understanding and comprehension. If you don't give your child some classic things to store in your mind when your child has a strong memory, how can you have "sparse hair" instead of "thick hair"? How can we achieve mastery through a comprehensive study? The book Disciples Rules has a great influence and a large amount of reading, second only to Saint Amethyst. " Disciples refer to the disciples of all sages, and rules refer to the opinions of men. Therefore, everyone, everyone who studies the classics of sages and imitates sages, should learn. If Disciples' Rules are not fulfilled, it will be difficult to gain real wisdom by studying other classics. Disciple Rules contains 360 sentences (1080 words), with an overview and introduction, aiming at early enlightenment education for children with concise language and instilling the essence of Confucian culture.
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Abstract: Disciple Rules, originally named Xun, was written by scholars during the reign of Kangxi in Qing Dynasty. Its content adopts Article 6 of the Analects of Confucius: "Disciples are filial, younger brothers are younger, sincere and trustworthy, love others and be kind, and spare no effort to learn." The meaning of the poem is composed of three words, one sentence, two sentences and one rhyme, and is described in five parts; It specifically lists the etiquette and norms that children should have when they are at home, going out, treating others and studying, with special emphasis on family education and life education. Later, it was revised and adapted by Jia Cunren in Qing Dynasty and renamed Disciples Rules. It is the best reading for enlightening and cultivating honesty, educating children to do their best to prevent evil and keep upright, and cultivating loyal family style. Disciple's Discipline on Sages' Filial Piety: I sincerely believe and love all people, but if I have spare capacity, I can study it easily: Disciple's Discipline is a life rule compiled according to the teachings of Confucius, the most holy teacher. First of all, in our daily life, we should be filial to our parents and love our brothers and sisters. Secondly, we should be cautious about all daily speech acts and keep our promises. It is very important to get along with the public, be equal and friendly, be kind to the people and learn from others. If you still have extra time and energy after doing it, then study the six arts and other useful knowledge. Be filial to your parents when you enter. Don't delay your parents' orders. Don't be lazy. Parents should respect your parents' responsibilities and be easy to understand. Parents should answer the phone in time, not too long. Parents should leave immediately if they have something to explain, and don't delay or refuse to be lazy. Parents teach us the truth of being a man and doing things for our own good, and we should listen respectfully. When parents blame and admonish themselves for doing something wrong, they should accept it with an open mind and not argue irrationally to make their parents angry and sad. A gentleman smells joy, but a villain smells anger. ) It's warm in winter and warm in summer. If you get sleepy in the morning, you will definitely sue and live together. There is no simple solution: you should serve your parents tenderly. In order to let his father sleep peacefully, Huang Xiang (nine years old), 24, will help his father quilt before going to bed in summer and warm his bed in winter, which is really worth learning. After getting up in the morning, you should visit your parents first and say hello to them. After returning home in the afternoon, you should tell your parents what happened outside today, and report your safety to your parents to reassure the elderly. When you leave home, you must tell your parents where you are going. When you get home, you must report to your parents in person to reassure them. At ordinary times, we should keep the normal routine and do things regularly. Don't change it at will so as not to worry your parents. Although things are small, don't be overjoyed. If it's small, don't hide it. Even small things, don't be willful and make a decision without telling your parents. If you are willful and easy to make mistakes, it will be detrimental to your duties as a child, so it is unfilial to worry your parents. Although the public property is small, it can't be privately taken for yourself. If you hide it, your character will be lacking, and your parents will be very sad to know. Dear, why is it difficult to be filial and hate my filial piety? Fang Xian's relatives made suggestions one after another, which made me happier. My voice is soft, my voice is soft. It is easy to cry and complain: parents should try their best to prepare what they like, and parents should carefully remove what they hate (including their bad habits). Take good care of your health, don't let yourself get hurt easily and worry your parents. (Ceng Zi said that "parents with physical problems dare not harm them"). Pay attention to your moral cultivation and don't do anything immoral to humiliate your parents. When parents love us, filial piety is easy; When our parents don't like us, or the discipline is too strict, we are just as filial, and we can also reflect on our own behavior, understand our parents' wishes, try to mend our ways and do better. This kind of filial piety is the most commendable. When parents are at fault, be careful to persuade them to be good. Be sincere when persuading, and your voice must be soft and pleasant. Confucius said, "Color is difficult." If parents don't listen to persuasion, wait patiently until there is a suitable opportunity, such as when parents are in a good mood or happy, and then continue to persuade; If parents still don't accept it, or even get angry, at this time, although we are so sad that we cry, we also ask our parents to make up for it. Even if you are beaten, you have no regrets, so as not to trap your parents in grievances and let them make mistakes again and again, making a big mistake. If you are sick, try medicine first and stay in bed for three years. You often mourn, change your residence into a land of wine and meat, and do your best to sacrifice to the dead. If your parents are ill, your children should take care of them wholeheartedly. Once they are seriously ill, they have to wait on them day and night, and they can't just leave. After the death of parents, during the period of filial piety (three years of ancient ceremony), we should always remember and feel the kindness of parents' upbringing. One's daily life must be adjusted and changed, one should not covet enjoyment, and abstain from alcohol and meat (please refer to Tibetan scriptures and how dutiful sons bless the dead). Dealing with parents' funeral should conform to etiquette, not sloppy, not extravagant for face, which is true filial piety. (The Analects of Confucius: Live with courtesy, do with courtesy, die with courtesy, be buried with courtesy, and sacrifice with courtesy. Be sincere when you worship, and be as respectful to your deceased parents as before. (The Analects of Confucius: Sacrifice is like being present, and sacrifice to God is like being present. When you are away from home, you should be respectful and filial to your brother. When you are in the middle, you should pay little attention to your property. The thing that makes you angry is easy to understand: when you are brothers and sisters, you should be kind to your brothers and sisters. When you are brothers and sisters, you should know how to respect your brothers and sisters. Brothers and sisters can live in harmony, and the family is happy. Parents are naturally happy, and filial piety is among them. If you don't haggle over property when you get along with others, resentment can't be generated. Words can be tolerant, say more good things, don't say bad things, hold back angry words, and unnecessary contradictions and resentment will naturally disappear. Words are the door to good or bad. Confucius has four subjects: morality, speech, politics and literature. This shows the importance of words. ) or eating or sitting far away from the old and young, then calling people for a long time is asking people to go. This is easy to understand: good life education should be cultivated from an early age; Whether you are sitting or walking, you should be courteous, and the elders should follow the order, so that the elderly are the first and the young are the last. When elders call people, they should call them. If that person is not here, ask what it is, help if you can, and tell him if you can't. ("Life is to serve, not to take." The Youth Code clearly points out that helping others is the foundation of happiness. Don't call your elders by their first names. Don't be polite to your elders. Don't show off your talents in front of them. When you meet your elders on the road, you should greet them. When they have nothing to do, you should stand back respectfully and wait for them to leave. Gu Li: Whether riding a horse or riding a car, you should get off the horse or get off the bus to greet your elders on the way. You can't leave until your elders go a little further, about a hundred paces. (Respect the old and respect the virtuous) Elders should not sit when they are young, but they should sit in front of them. They should lower their voices before they sit down, but they shouldn't listen. When they sit down, they must step back. Don't touch your father when they ask questions. When you are with your elders, stand with them, but don't sit alone. When they sit down, they should be told to sit down first, then they can sit down. When talking to elders, the voice should be soft and moderate, and the volume of the answer is too small to hear clearly, which is also inappropriate. If you have something in front of your elders, you should step forward quickly and respond slowly, which is in line with etiquette. Listen attentively when the elders ask questions, and don't look around. Treat uncles, uncles and other elders with the same filial piety and respect as your own father, and treat brothers (cousins) of the same race with the same love and respect as your own brothers. It's easy to get up early and go to bed late. It's easy to gargle and urinate in the morning. Washing hands is simple: get up early in the morning and don't go to bed early at night. Because time is precious and fleeting, we should cherish it and work hard. A young man who doesn't work hard is pathetic. After getting up in the morning, be sure to wash your face, brush your teeth and rinse your mouth to refresh your mind and get off to a good start. Be sure to wash your hands after urinating, develop good hygiene habits and ensure your health. To prevent enterovirus, you should learn to wash your hands and carefully rub your palms, backs of your hands and fingers. It's time for people to encourage themselves when they reach middle age. Time goes by and waits for no one. ) the crown must be straight, the socks must be tied tightly with the shoes, and the crown should be positioned well and not dirty. Clothes are expensive and clean, but they are not picky about food, which is easy to solve. Pay attention to the neatness and cleanliness of the clothes, put on the hat properly, button the clothes, put on the socks smoothly and tie the shoelaces, otherwise it will be easy to trip. Everything you wear should be steady and dignified. After returning home, clothes, hats, shoes and socks should be positioned to avoid clutter, and it will take half a day to find them when necessary. Focus on the overall situation, focus on small things, and develop good living habits, and you will be half successful. Dressing needs to be neat, not expensive, famous and gorgeous. Dressing and dressing should consider one's own identity and occasion, and also measure the economic situation of the family. This is the way to manage the family. Don't save face, and don't let vanity decide. Unnecessary spending is a waste. ) Pay attention to balanced nutrition in daily diet, eat more fruits and vegetables, eat less meat, not picky eaters, not partial eclipse. Always eat eight points full, avoid excessive consumption, so as not to increase the burden on the body and endanger the health. Don't drink when you are young. Getting drunk is the ugliest step. Stand up calmly and make a deep bow. No respect, no limp, no back, no shaking. It's easy to understand: drinking is harmful to health, so you should obey the law. Teenagers can't drink alcohol under age. Adults should not drink too much. Let's see how much right and wrong this drunkard has caused by talking crazy and exposing his dirty laundry. ("The Analects of Confucius": "Good food is not tired of essence, and details are not tired." Master warned us not to be too particular about food and not to be too meticulous about cooking. Laozi said: saints don't aim at the stomach. Diet is to fill the stomach, not to satisfy the mouth. When walking, the pace should be calm and steady, unhurried, unhurried and unhurried; Stand up straight, stand up straight, hold your head high, be full of energy, and don't stoop and become dejected and despondent. Stand like a pine and cypress, walk like the wind, sit like a bell and lie like a bow. Greeting others, whether bowing or handing, should be sincere and respectful, not perfunctory. Don't step on the threshold when entering the door, don't stand askew, don't stretch your legs when sitting, and don't shake your legs. These are frivolous and arrogant actions, and they are not gentlemanly. Open the curtain slowly, don't make any noise, turn away, don't touch the edge, and hold the virtual device, such as holding the surplus into the virtual room. If someone is busy, don't be afraid of difficulties and don't solve them easily: when you enter the room, open the door with curtains, and move gently and slowly to avoid making noise. When walking or turning indoors, you should be careful not to touch the edges and corners of objects to avoid injury. Be careful when you take things. Even if you take empty utensils, be as careful as if they are full of things to prevent them from falling or breaking. When you enter an empty room, you should act like someone is there, not casually. Don't be in a hurry, because you are prone to make mistakes when you are busy, don't hesitate to retreat because of difficulties, and don't be hasty and handle things casually. Never go near evil things in noisy places. Never ask who's going to get started and who's going to class. People will ask who doesn't know me and me. It's easy to understand: anyone who is prone to quarrels and fights, such as gambling and pornography, should dare to refuse and stay away from it to avoid being adversely affected. Some evil, obscene, absurd things should also be declined, don't listen, don't look, don't ask questions curiously, so as not to pollute the kind heart. Before you start, you should ask, "Is anyone there?" Don't rush in. Before entering the living room, you should raise your voice to let people in the room know that someone is coming. If people in the room ask, "Who is it?" Answer the name, not "me, me!" "People can't tell who I am. If you don't ask, it is not difficult to borrow characters in time. It is not difficult to borrow it in time.