"bullying the widowed without relying on power", don't rely on it, don't think about it, don't rely on it. Bullying, bullying and forcing.
This famous saying is that you can't bully or oppress these orphans and widows by force.
I think Mr. Zhu Bolu's original meaning is that you can't bully all people, especially those vulnerable groups. You lose your personality by bullying others. It won't end well.
there is a family in the village. The elder gave birth to ten sons. By the second generation, other brothers had many sons, but the third one had no children.
the third brother is different from other brothers in personality. I didn't take care of my nephew, so I asked around and finally paid for a son, named him Xi.
Dexi is really clever compared with his nephew. Honor the adoptive parents. Respect and love the elders in the family, care for the elder brother and care for the younger brother.
However, uncles, brothers and sisters are jealous and despise happiness. Dexi was bullied by his brothers and uncles all the time.
He is often harmed by trumped-up charges. These people also went to Dexi's adoptive parents to make up stories and complain. After a long time, and many people have spoken ill of him, and the number of times has increased, adoptive parents have been partial to listening and believing, and severely punished him.
? One of the brothers lived next door to him. Often take some bad means to bully. He gave in silently. My brother found that the gong was bullying the drum face to face, but he didn't buy it. Just kill a dog and secretly bury it in front of his house at night.
? What a coincidence. It's not long since I buried the dog. De Xi became interested and wanted to plant some trees in front of the door. So when I planted a tree in front of the door according to my own sex, I found the dead dog. Besides, I know that this dog belongs to my neighbor's brother. After understanding, I realized that it was the neighbor's brother who did the bad thing.
he feels that he is too wronged. Just want to die. However, he couldn't bear to give up his adoptive parents, so he had to take them with him and move his family to another place.
Later, when this people came to the fifth generation, others had no descendants. Only the adopted son is happy to have ten grandchildren.
These ten grandchildren are successful in their studies, and they all live a prosperous life.
? A young man in the neighborhood, when talking about the object, is the elder sister. As a result, the bride's headscarf was unveiled at the wedding ceremony, but it was not her sister but her sister. Under the tutelage of parents, I had to obey the so-called bride.
Later, the young man was unwilling to take his neighbor's wife. Daughter-in-law has taken over, and her husband has gone far away.
one night, the young man was on his way to his neighbor's house in a daze, and he walked down from the collapsed water cellar. When others found it, the body was moldy and maggots were born all over it.
When Wu Zetian chose her successor in the Tang Dynasty, she couldn't make up her mind for a long time, considering whether to pass the throne to the original Li family in the Tang Dynasty or to her family.
Wu Zetian's family has two nephews, one of whom is Wu Chengsi. This ambitious Wu Chengsi has always wanted to compete for the throne.
but he didn't understand that to be an emperor, you must have great blessings. Without virtue, there would be no such blessings.
This Wu Chengsi is a womanizer.
At that time, there was a commoner named Qiao Zhizhi. He had a beautiful handmaid named Yi Niang, who was good at singing and dancing, and was also very literary.
Wu Chengsi took a fancy to her, and Wu Chengsi took her as his concubine by taking advantage of her power.
Of course, Qiao Zhizhi was very resentful and wrote an article, which was sent to his mother in secret to express his feelings.
? My mother, she liked Qiao Zhizhi very much. She was forced and taken away by Wu Chengsi. After reading this article, she was angry and committed suicide.
As a result, Wu Chengsi was very angry when he learned about it, so he falsely accused Qiao Zhizhi of plotting to rebel and killed him.
Later, because of Wu Chengsi, he always wanted to compete for the throne, but the ministers in the DPRK, led by Li Zhaode and Di Renjie, kept persuading Wu Zetian to pass the throne on to the son of Wu Zetian, the Li family, but not to Wu Zetian's nephew.
Finally, Wu Zetian passed the throne back to the Li family and passed it on to her son. Wu Chengsi's dream of competing for the throne was shattered, and finally he died of grief.
At the beginning, he killed Qiao Zhizhi by means of anxiety, and he himself died of anxiety.
teacher Guo said: bullying others, you know, is only a temporary success. God forbid, there is no good end, how can people without virtue succeed?
The reason why a gentleman is different from a mortal is that he is kind-hearted, and he is pure in his love and respect for others. No matter who he is, he is a compatriot, ignorant and unworthy, so he can love everyone, that is, he loves the sages. Being able to understand the aspirations of all people and share the same aspiration with the public means sharing the same aspiration with saints, because sages also love and respect others. Therefore, we can love and respect others with the same ambition as saints.
Especially for those who are lonely and old, we should love them more.
Mr. Guo advocates the establishment of a paradise for the elderly, hoping that when people get old, they will have a sense of security and happiness in this paradise for the elderly and enjoy their old age.
Mr. Guo said that everyone will be old sometimes, and we can respect and love the old today. When we are old, someone will naturally love and respect us. If we "bully the widowed", we will also be bullied when we are old. Knowing this truth, why not help these lonely old people when you have the ability to plant future blessings?