1, practical and generous.
General idea: frivolous and trouble-free is a person's greatest shortcoming; The best way to do things is to keep a bad attitude.
Feeling: resisting troubles reflects inner impetuousness, which is superficial; Endure troubles and work down to earth, which is practice. People are willing to suffer small losses, but they will not suffer big losses, because big losses are accumulated without eating small losses.
2. Selfishness is poison and patience is quality.
If you want to benefit yourself, you often hurt yourself. If you can treat others condescendingly without complaining, you will be able to live on others one day.
Feeling: always thinking about being good to yourself is selfish. Selfish people will never be popular, and the road will get narrower and narrower. Being tolerant of others means being patient and knowing how to wait for opportunities, which is a necessary quality for those who achieve great things.
Honesty is the first character, and diligence is the highest family background.
General idea: when dealing with people in society, we should take honest people as the object of imitation; What is passed on to future generations is the best as long as it can be thrifty.
Feeling: Make more loyal friends and get close to Zhu Zhechi, and you can be a loyal person yourself. Simplicity can save, efforts can open up sources, and families can naturally prosper for a long time.
4. Being a man is the most taboo to temper justice with mercy, and doing things is the most afraid of willfulness.
Only blame yourself, not others, this is the best way to stay away from resentment. Only believe in yourself and don't trust others, which is the main reason for failure in doing things.
Feeling: Blame yourself and don't blame others. Internally, you will improve your quality, but externally, it won't cause contradictions. You can grow up and others won't resent you. Believe in yourself, don't trust others. This is willfulness. What can we do if we don't fail?
Nothing is better than being honest with others.
General idea: People who haggle over everything and have nothing to lose think they are successful, but those who tarnish their ancestors' good reputation must be such people. People who are honest, frugal and kind to others, although they didn't see any special performance at first, must be such people, who can make their children and grandchildren have a pure and honest spirit that lasts forever.
Feeling: there is a problem with character and it is also a failure. Kindness and virtue will bring happiness to future generations.
6. Chigo can be of high quality and practical.
General idea: One's ambition should not be low. If his ambition is not high, he will be easily influenced by bad environment and can't achieve great things. One's ambition should not be too great. If he is too ambitious, he will give up practical things and pursue distant and unattainable goals, so it is difficult to achieve anything.
Feeling: Ambition is a kind of weather, a kind of vision, but if the mentality is not practical, it will become illusory.
7. Two things to do in life: respect others and rely on yourself.
To respect others is to respect yourself; It is better to rely on others than on yourself.
Feeling: Respect others, others will respect you, and you will benefit from it. Relying on others, everyone values themselves more, but after all, it is not reliable.
8. Avoid being lofty and upright.
General idea: treat people calmly, and don't deliberately violate the customs and pretend to be lofty; On weekdays, I am interested in fairness and decency, and I don't think I am smart, but I think I am smart.
Feeling: When in Rome, do as the Romans do and share the dust with others. This is good for others. A clever trick may fool others once or twice, and anyone can see it after a long time.
9, the way of a gentleman
General idea: Communicate with people with a peaceful attitude and handle things with an equal attitude. Place expectations on yourself with the noble mind of the ancients, and gather your talents to wait for available opportunities.
Feeling: The Book of Changes says that a gentleman hides the container in his body and waits for the opportunity to move. This "weapon" is not only talent and skill, but also measurement and scale.
10, leave some room for others and keep your conscience.
Main idea: Keep your conscience to restrain yourself, get along with others and leave more space for others.
Feeling: Conscience and room for manoeuvre are two things that can never be overdone.