Text/Wang Man

In life, why are some people more successful than others, living better than others, and having a high-quality life.

They can make more money, have good jobs, good relationships, good health, and be happy all day long.

But many people are busy and working hard, but they can only make ends meet and remain depressed all day long.

It turns out that the secret is people's "mentality". A philosopher said: "Your mentality is your real master." A great man said: "Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey."

In fact, there is only a small gap between people, but this small gap creates a big gap.

This small gap is whether the attitude is positive or negative; this big gap is success or failure.

One morning, a group of students walked into the science laboratory and found a bottle of milk on the teacher's desk. At that time, they really didn't know what was going on.

They all looked at the bottle of milk, wondering what it had to do with the physiological hygiene class he taught.

Suddenly, the teacher knocked over the bottle of milk in the sink with one hand and shouted: "Don't cry over the spilled milk!"

Then, he called the students Go to the sink and say: "Take a good look and always remember this lesson. You see, all the milk has leaked.

No matter how anxious you are or how you complain, you can't save a drop. Of course, As long as you use your brain and take precautions before it overturns, you can save the bottle of milk.

But now it's too late - all we can do is forget about it and go. Think of the next thing. "

This performance was unforgettable for the students present. It taught people more in real life than they could have learned anywhere else.

It is something that people will never forget: whenever possible, don’t spill the milk. If the milk spills and leaks, forget about it completely.

Once, in an internal training class, a student smiled and asked the teacher: "There is a famous saying, 'If you are happy at work, life is heaven; if work is painful, life is hell.' How can we How can we gain happiness at work, and how can we avoid pain?"

The teacher smiled and told him: "The question you asked is very good and representative."

Then, the teacher took out a piece of white paper with a black dot on it, shone it, quickly covered it up, and then asked everyone: "What did you see?"

The students did not think twice. They all replied: "A black dot."

"Really?" The teacher was surprised, "Didn't any of you see this white paper? Your eyes focused on the black dots, the black dots It will get bigger and bigger, you can't do this at work!"

The training class was completely silent.

The teacher took out another piece of black paper with a white dot in the middle. After lighting it up, he asked everyone: "What did you see again?"

The students answered in unison: "A white spot."

The teacher smiled happily: "Great, infinite happiness will accompany you."

Many of us will make such mistakes: when When we cry because of the pain of a certain point in our life, we don't notice that there are more happy angels surrounding us. In fact, we should be happier.