1, you can't just pay when you get along.

Honest people are basically single-minded. Many times, they think that liking a woman means being kind to her, so that women will be moved and willing to fall in love with themselves.

They have entered a very serious misunderstanding that it is enough to pay in love, but it is not. It is inevitable to pay in love, but there must be a responsive pay and a correct pay.

If a man always pays for the woman he likes, but the woman doesn't respond, it proves that this man is not the person that the woman likes, so no matter how much he pays, it is useless.

Also, when men pay the bill, they must first find out whether this way can be accepted by women. If women can't accept it, it's no use doing more.

2. I don't understand the subtext of girls.

Women's hearts, autumn clouds. Just because it's hard to understand doesn't mean we don't need to understand. "Simple, simple way of speaking!" Do you want to hum this song whenever a girl is angry? A woman's thinking is formed after a long time. Even if her reason tells her to speak simply, her mouth will not be right!

So, it's strange that you usually don't notice what girls want to express! What do you want!

Honest people are boring. Many times, they don't talk sweet words and make women happy. Over time, women will feel too bored to communicate and interact with such men.

For example, when a woman wears a new dress and asks an honest man if it looks good, the honest man will answer "Yes, it looks good".

But if this happens to "love rat", he will say, "Wow, honey is wearing a new dress today. It's so beautiful."

Of these two men, women will definitely choose the second one, because with the second man, they will become more and more confident.

3. If you don't know her preferences, women don't like you.

When men chase women, no matter what they do, they must understand that everything revolves around women's preferences. No matter how much you do, it's useless to a woman if she doesn't like it.

If you do a lot of things that women are not interested in, women will definitely think that you didn't do your homework in advance, and you didn't know her preferences in advance, which will definitely label you as not serious. That's my previous impression, so I won't pay attention to you in the future.