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With a big heart, you can tolerate things in the world; with an empty heart, you can accept the goodness of the world; with a calm heart, you can discuss things in the world; with a deep heart, you can observe the things in the world. Reason; fix your mind and respond to the changes in the world. From the Tang Dynasty's "True Notes of the Immortals Meeting in Xishan"
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For great and difficult things, it depends on responsibility; in adversity and good times, it depends on one's tolerance; in times of happiness and anger, it depends on self-cultivation; in group behavior, group behavior depends on knowledge. . Come out for yourself
Wang Yongbin's "Night Talk Around the Fireplace"
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If you are small-minded, small things will be big; if you are big-hearted, big things will be small. ; Look down on the vicissitudes of the world and be at peace in your heart.
From Feng Zikai’s Life of Being Unfavoured