Originally, I thought that love was composed of glistening money, private luxury cars, invincible mansions with river views, or romantic, crazy and unintelligent behaviors accompanied by rapid heartbeat, poor breathing, dizziness and vomiting. I didn't expect love to be these ancient quirks and chemical elements with shelf life. Science is gradually digitizing our love. I really don't know if the future marriage enlightenment will write like this: "I want Bamin, phenylethylamine and oxytocin from several units of Doyle (a man) to be my partner ..." But I think, fortunately, the shelf life of love and the shelf life should be different, and vegetables will go bad and rot after the shelf life and need to be discarded. The so-called making love a habit should be a transition from shelf life to shelf life. The shelf life of love is 18~30 months, and the shelf life should be different. Some people grow old together all their lives, while others like the new and hate the old, so they have to break up.
How long is the shelf life of two people's love? First, love is not a preservative, and it may not be recognized in a few days; Love is not a fresh fruit, and it may even be firm and unrepentant after vicissitudes. The shelf life of love is not determined by love, but by ourselves. Love is not fragile, just ourselves. Persist in love, and love will last forever. Your choice is the most important. It varies from person to person. See the degree of love that everyone can grasp. This is not a matter of time constancy. Some are lifelong, and some are short-lived. Third, some have experienced it, although they are separated, but the memory is beautiful and can be treasured for a lifetime; Some have experienced it, but only as a necessary process, they soon forget it, and then accept another story again. If the landlord wants to ask whether it lasts forever, I think the answer to this question should be in people's hearts: if you have the heart to run a relationship and cherish it, then yes, love can last forever; If we only think that love is the only way and that there is another shop after this village, then I think the word everlasting is just an extravagant hope for this. People always have to change, love before marriage is sweet, love after marriage is itchy for seven years, and responsibility will gradually surpass love. I think there is! No matter how the relationship changes, the feelings buried in my heart will not change! According to science, about three to six months. But I believe that as long as you work hard, it will last forever! ! ! Everyone hopes it will be forever! But people can change! So! The shelf life allows you to fight for it! There is no fixed period ~ I think so. If your favorite food is of high quality and the temperature, humidity and sunshine are ideal, the storage period will be long. On the contrary, it is short! No, it takes two people to win over a person who is usually 3-6 months old, depending on personality. Some personalities can have a deadline, while others don't. Of course, you have to ask yourself. When we first met, two people gave in to each other together. After marriage, the shortcomings of two people will gradually be exposed to each other. In other words, in the process of transforming love into affection, we must realize our own shortcomings and not be willful. Only by mutual tolerance, mutual accommodation and mutual trust can the shelf life of love be extended ... I think so. After a long time, love will be transformed into affection, which is the sublimation of love!
Does love have a shelf life? Some people say, "A love can last for a year or two months, and then it can't be regarded as a love, and it becomes an emotion." But the word emotion doesn't mean anything to me. After a relationship, I can't help asking myself, how long is the shelf life of love?
First love is the sweetest. You will feel that time flies and hope that time can stop. Every day he will snuggle up to you and talk about endless topics. Even if he walks a long way, he won't be tired. His sweet words will make you intoxicated and make you feel happy to have him around. Gradually, you get used to having him, even if you are separated for a few days, you will cry because you miss him. So you will leave such a view in your heart that the days with him are happy, and slowly you begin to fantasize about the future with him.
As time goes by, after a year or two, you begin to find that love turns from fresh to dim. Not only will he not stick to you all the time, but he will also get angry with you for trivial things. Although sometimes he will see you cry and take the initiative to coax you, every time you go to war, your heart will break. Occasionally you will say, "You don't love me as much as before." He would say, "You're sick! What are you thinking about? I love you as before! " Slowly, you begin to feel that whenever you walk with him, he seems impatient, and even the topic of chat seems to have been finished long ago and you feel helpless, as if you have lost the freshness of the past. At this time, you really don't know what to say. There is only sadness in my heart. Finally, after the constant quarrel, tears became the only sustenance in your heart, and now you can't find the sweetness of that day. Your heart is slowly broken like glass. When it can't be pieced together, you will have a big fight with him and tell him that you can't break up.
At this time, he will coax you as gently as before, and will tell you a lot of truth. What? I am tired. I will work hard to make money, so that I can give you a good life in the future! In fact, I love you very much, but in a different way! What can you say at this time? I wish you a gentle day, and then you will be safe as usual, alas, helpless.
Now I understand that love is only temporary. Compared with reality, reality is more important than love, but who doesn't want to have the sweet taste of love, who doesn't want to have eternal tenderness, and who doesn't want to dream of a world without war and pressure but love. I really want to have a plastic wrap to wrap my love and make its shelf life forever!
Ah! The shelf life of love.
The shelf life of love is one year, and the shelf life can be a lifetime. Love can produce a "halo effect". Psychology believes that when people are far away, it is easy to idealize each other and put a beautiful light ring on each other by virtue of their own imagination. This halo covers almost all the shortcomings of the other side. Once the distance between two people becomes smaller, the aura will soon disappear. On the contrary, each other's shortcomings will be magnified and the previous advantages will disappear out of thin air. At this time, some people choose not to break up to find new love, to find the original feeling and imaginary perfection, and to deceive themselves with another love game, but as long as they get closer, the aura will still disappear.
Managing love is a lifetime thing, but some people think that the story ends here, "the prince and princess live happily ever after", but is this really the case? In another fairy tale, Cinderella had psychological problems after marrying a prince. It can be seen that love needs maintenance. If you are not prepared to maintain love when you are ready to get along, you will be helpless when you encounter problems, and you can only choose to escape, which will lead to the expiration of love.
Try to accept each other's imperfections.
What does the shelf life of love mean? Please go to the large supermarket to find food preservation instructions.
How many months is the shelf life of love? On this issue, some people believe, some people don't believe, and some people think, "Hey? Why did it change again? Didn't XX come in? "
In fact, there are many sayings about the shelf life of love, and I have heard a few. First, three months (or 100 days as the savage girlfriend said), which is based on the hormonal cycle or something, saying that love in a real chemical reaction is only three months.
In fact, it is also a period of love, and I want to stick together every day and don't want to separate. Dating four or five times a week is not a problem, shopping and watching movies are also fresh, and you can laugh at anything you say.
After three months, the initial * * * began to retreat, the novelty gradually disappeared, and the date began to want to go somewhere. If we can still be together, it means that neither side takes this relationship seriously.
Then 18 months (that is, one and a half years), which is another hurdle after three months. Couples who have been in love for three months, if they can successfully turn their love into affection in this 13 month, it means that you have the potential to enter the marriage hall. However, when the time is getting closer and closer to 18 months, it will become more and more difficult, because not only the novelty is gone, but even the initial feelings are difficult to maintain. Now you don't know how long it's been since you received your anniversary blessing. I don't know how long it's been since we went to the cinema together. I don't know how long I haven't pressed the road together; I don't know how long I haven't kissed naturally when I feel strong; I don't know how long it took to say goodbye after the date. At this time, you suddenly realize that the shelf life of the legendary love is coming.
Three years later, * * * Yao is long gone, and the two of them are slowly hanging out in this family. According to a male colleague, it has reached the point where his girlfriend sits on her lap and feels nothing. This time period is estimated to be purely an old couple. Unless you are married and have children, you can spice up the trivial things in life. If you are not married, you will still be in trouble. You said that two people can only date if they don't live together, but there are only a few activities in the city, which are nothing more than watching movies, shopping and eating. I have seen a face many times, and it has no taste. If you like to play games, you can develop an internet cafe to play online games together, but after a long time, it is no different from friends.
At this time, if the boys don't manage with care, the girls who were originally careless will easily become inexplicably sentimental.
Finally, it is the seven-year itch. Colleagues and sisters who have been married for the tenth anniversary have taught us that "marriage needs to be managed, not only feelings can last." This is a wise saying, which is regarded as a standard. The so-called management, in addition to accommodating each other, I think it is necessary to create some freshness from time to time, so that each other can relive the feeling of love. Otherwise, it's a great idea to have a baby and let him do something new. As children grow up, there will be fresh topics and feelings from time to time.
Love is short-lived, but love is long-lasting. If you don't manage with your heart, you will soon lose your relationship. An old man, a new man. If you are not careful, the duck in the plate will fly into someone else's arms. After all, others are fresh and enthusiastic.
Moreover, now fast food culture has been deeply rooted in people's hearts. After divorce became less eccentric, even the so-called "marriage bondage" was gone. It's a big deal that one person has half the property. Since you want to enter a new relationship, it's always right to pay the price, right? !
As for me, I believe that love has a shelf life, so I will try to make it expire.
Everyone * * * encourages.
Does love have a shelf life? When I love you, I can go shopping with you. I dragged my injured leg for four or five hours without saying a word. When I love you, I suddenly don't know what to say after dialing the phone, and then I know that I just want to listen to that familiar voice. What I really want to dial is just a string in my heart. To love someone is to scold her loudly and put her favorite food in her bowl when she has no appetite and doesn't want to eat. Love is simple! ............................
How long is the shelf life of love? Hormone comes from Greek, which means hormone and means "activation". Later, scholars defined it as trace chemicals produced by endocrine organs, then released into blood circulation and transported to target organs or tissues to play a certain role. Each endocrine gland can produce one or more hormones. The chemical components of hormones can be roughly divided into five categories: protein, peptides, glycoproteins, steroids and amino acids. Different kinds of hormones have different components and different functions. The amount of endocrine hormones produced by human body is very small, such as growth hormone, which is less than 1 microgram in 100 ml of blood, but it has great influence on human body. If the human body lacks growth hormone, it will not grow tall, it will become dwarfism, and its height will be lower than 130 cm in adulthood.
Hormones, commonly known as "hormones", are the general names of hormones secreted by human endocrine system that can regulate physiological balance. Various hormones play a regulatory role in the internal environment of human metabolism, the coordination between organs, growth and reproduction. It not only affects the growth and emotional performance of a normal person, but also is an important factor to maintain the balance of various organ systems in the body. Once out of balance, the body will get sick. Hormones play an important role in whether a person can achieve physical and mental health.
When men and women yearn for each other for the first time, they will secrete testosterone and estrogen, the so-called sex hormones. When this desire lasts until they fall in love, they will secrete dopamine and serotonin, which are the most important chemicals in love between men and women, and will temporarily make a person lose his mind. If at the next stage, men and women yearn for more intimacy because of the continuous relationship, and then develop into * * * or marriage, then the brain will secrete oxytocin and pituitary hormones. Oxytocin appears not only when men and women are in love, but also when mothers are breastfeeding. Moreover, for women, maternal love and love are the same. Serotonin can make a person blind to each other's shortcomings, thus making love blind. The hormone mentioned above only lasts for about two years, and the longest is three or four years. -"I am St. Jin Shun" After 800 days of relationship between men and women, the secretion of hormones such as dopamine, serotonin and hormones in the body will gradually decrease. However, if the parties can trust and be loyal to each other, the pituitary gland will gradually secrete a hormone called serotonin, which will make men and women depend on each other and produce happiness and satisfaction. The secretion cycle of hydroxyurea is about 58-79 years. So, we must remember that trust is very important.
Dopamine ―― The Happy Source of Love
If the thalamus, the center of the brain, is the center of human love, it stores a lot of neurotransmitters, also known as love stimulants, including dopamine and adrenaline. What is dopamine? He can influence people's behavior, and he can also participate in the process of falling in love and stimulate people's feelings for the opposite sex. When a pair of men and women fall in love at first sight or get to know each other many times, neurotransmitters such as dopamine in the thalamus are constantly secreted and come out unstoppable. Then, we have the feeling of love.
Under the action of dopamine, we feel the happiness of love. The same mechanism works when people taste chocolate or addicts "walk in the clouds". Fortunately, our brains can distinguish each other. Dopamine, like a master key that can unlock many locks, produces different reactions in the body according to different situations. The smell and taste of chocolate tell the brain that we are eating; The body odor and fragrance of couples remind the brain that we are in love.
The "* * *" brought by dopamine will give people an illusion that love can be fanatical forever. Unfortunately, our bodies can't bear this ingredient all the time like cocaine, that is to say, a person can't be at the peak of tachycardia forever. So the brain had to cancel this idea and let those chemicals metabolize naturally under its own control. This process usually lasts for one and a half to three years. With the decrease and disappearance of dopamine, * * * also becomes calm.
Oxytocin-keep loyal love
About 20 years ago, neuroendocrinologist Hugh? Carter began to study prairie voles to find out why this small rodent living in the plains of the Midwest of the United States is the greatest romance in nature. The prairie vole remains monogamous for life after mating, and the female mouse and the male mouse * * *...> & gt
Why does love have a shelf life? Love mainly depends on how you treat it. I think that plain love is true.
When you love someone, don't care about the romance and many ways of love.
Everyone loves in different ways. Don't be insatiable, you will lose your rare true love.
Some people say that love will not last long, but I think this is wrong.
Love lasts because it doesn't protect true love.
It will lead to short-lived love and think that love will not last long.
Love a person: trust and understand each other.
Love a person: be more tolerant and love a person with a broad mind.
Love a person: respect each other's thoughts and opinions.
Love a person: support him or her behind his or her back, not stop him or her.
Love a person: when he or she can't accompany you, don't complain. Tell him (her) with a smiling face that I am fine and happy.
Love a person: hide your inner vulnerability and grievances, and don't let him or her know.
Love someone ~ ~ ~ too much, maybe it's hard not to do it.
In fact, the most important thing is that love should be selfless, clean and pure, without any impurities, and willing to do anything for him or her.
When falling in love, make him (her) happy. As long as he (she) is happy, it is the most important! ! !
How long is the shelf life of love? When many couples are in contact, only one of them is making unnecessary efforts, which will make the one who makes repeated efforts feel very tired. Love is a matter of two people, and it is impossible for one party to run it alone. Even if they can be together for a month, three months or five months, the result will definitely be the same.
The first month of communication
Boy: Wife. What are you doing? Did you miss me?
Girl: I don't know if you miss me, hee hee. .
Boy: Pig, I must be thinking about you.
Girl: Really. Take mine.
Boy: How can I lie to my wife? Hmm. How interesting
Girl: Well, I'll trust you once.
Boy: Yaoyao
Girl: Yao Yao.
The second month of the date
Boy: What are you doing? Have you eaten?
Girl: Yes, and you?
Boy: No, I missed you and forgot the time for dinner. Hmm. How interesting
Girl: Hee hee, you are the best talker. Go and eat quickly, and don't be hungry.
Boy: Yes, I see. I am on my way. Remember to miss me.
Girl: I see. advance
The third month of the date
Boy: What are you doing?
Girl: Chatting.
Boy: With whom?
Girl: Friends.
Boy: Which friend?
Girl: You don't know her.
Boy: Oh. Don't play too late, go to bed early and don't get tired.
Girl: Yes, I see. You too.
The fourth month of contact
Boy: What are you up to?
Girl: What do you say?
Boy: How should I know?
Girl: Oh, chatting.
Boy: I miss you.
Girl: Oh
Boy: Did you eat?
Girl: Yes.
Boy: You look busy. You are very busy. . .
Girl: OK, bye.
The fifth month of dating
Boy: Are you chatting?
Girl: Yes.
Boy: Oh
Girl: What's the matter? what can I do for you?
Boy: No, see if you have eaten. Don't forget to eat.
Girl: Oh, I see.
Boy: Well, goodbye then.
The sixth month of the date
Boy: Do you have time now?
Girl: What's the matter? what can I do for you?
Boy: Let's break up. . .
Girl: Why?
Boy: Don't you know?
Girl: What's wrong with me?
Boy: Don't you know?
Girl: I don't know
Boy: You'll know. You'll find something better.
Girl: Whoops. . . . All that's left is crying
Editor's note: If someone misses it, there will be no more. When couples are together, they should think more about each other. Don't always be self-centered, let the other person follow you. No matter how good your personality is, you can't stand it. . . Maybe one day when you look back, you missed more than one person, but the happiness of your life. . ...& gt& gt
Is the shelf life of love only three months? True love lasts forever. It mainly depends on how you treat it with your heart. Plain love is true. When you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love. Everyone loves in different ways. Don't be insatiable. If you are insatiable, you will lose your rare true love. Some people say that love will not last long, but I don't think so, because love will last long.