Have you ever thought about these questions, have you ever been unwilling, have you ever thought about why you can't live that life, why others can see through the essence of things at once, why others seem to be able to do it so easily, and why you can't?
Do you know the answer? Has anyone ever told you that the gap between people lies above the neck, and your way of thinking determines your life development? Perhaps you have read many famous sayings and aphorisms, and perhaps you have also read the sentence "Action determines habit, habit determines character, and character determines fate". Then have you ever wondered why people are so different and why they do that? Everyone encounters the same thing and does it in different ways? Ah! Actually, it's thinking
The things and environment we have been in contact with since childhood have led to different thinking, which has led to different life paths. Imagine that there is such a job in front of you. The salary is high, everything is fine, but the boss's flattery has no real skill, and it is difficult to get ahead. What should you do? What should you do if you have such a boyfriend who is having an affair with your little sister everywhere? When you need to take action in the face of what happens in your life, your thoughts directly lead to the following results. Is this a fact? In the first case, if you feel unhappy and choose to leave your job, but you can't find a good job later, one day you will know that the boss finally made a big mistake and was left behind. Will you regret it? In the second case, you resolutely decide to let go, thinking that someone will always be your good boyfriend and husband, and will treat you wholeheartedly and never have to suffer from such torture again. Did you make the right decision? People ~ don't regret, don't be sad, accept your choice frankly, and it may be wrong to accept it, because we have thousands of choices to get to this point today, and we will have you today. If the original choice is different, you will be different today, there is no chance to start again, and there is no need to regret it. Now think about it. If I had understood this truth earlier, would I have taken a lot of detours? Actually, it won't, because it is an inevitable growth process. We will regret it, because our thinking and cognition are different from those at the beginning. Your regret is equivalent to regretting your original cognition, but it is an unchangeable fact. People's thinking can't be changed instantly, nor can it be predicted in advance.
I think the only thing we can do is to realize the importance of thinking and get rid of our own brains. Changing your thinking is equivalent to changing your destiny. To learn from excellent people is not to do the same thing with them, but to learn their thinking. You will find that you can really change a lot.