Know how to appreciate
One afternoon, when I walked into the study, I was surprised to find several big insects standing on my desk. They were motionless, but they looked like the strange dogs in the "Star Wars" movie with their teeth and claws. Upon closer inspection, they turned out to be the dried shells shed by cicadas.
"Who put these dirty things on my table?" I thought to myself. I was about to protest, but when I thought about it, it couldn't be my mother, because she didn't have such free time, and of course it couldn't be my little sister, because she didn't have the courage. So I took back what I said and changed my words: "Wow! Great! What a complete cicada shell!"
Just as I was talking, I saw my grandma walking over with a smile: "Yes. ! I saw one in your box before and knew you collected it, so when I saw it, I picked it up and gave it to you! "The old man in his sixties smiled as innocently as a child. How did she know that although this was unusual in the city, as long as it was high on the tree trunks, it was possible to find more than a dozen at once.
You may want to ask me why I didn’t explain it clearly, but have you ever thought about how much love there is from the elderly in those ordinary cicada shells? How happy she was when she heard my admiration and admiration!
Maybe you will laugh at me for being fake. But what is true and what is false? In this world, whether there are elderly people in their 80s or 90s, or children who have just learned to walk, there is a lot of love. They will be excited because the love they have given is appreciated, and they will also feel hurt because of the cold response. I think it’s not false at all to learn to appreciate. Everyone has different ways of showing their love. Then their goal is just to be appreciated, let us learn to appreciate and appreciate others from different angles, and appreciation will always get equal feedback!
Appreciation
In the life I have experienced, there is such a thing that moved me so much that it is still unforgettable to this day.
In the summer when I was ten years old. The sun was scorching like fire. As soon as the sun came up, the sky became crazy hot, and the ground seemed to be on fire. There was no wind at all, which made people feel stuffy. The willow trees outside the window drooped, the road was scorching hot from the sun, and people's clothes were almost scorched by the sun. On this scorching summer day, when I was blowing the air conditioner, playing on the computer, and eating snacks at home, my good friend Wang Kun invited me to play tennis. I couldn't refuse, so I had to agree to him. .
We came to the tennis court. After more than an hour of fighting, I defeated Wang Kun with difficulty through the "tiebreak". By this time, we were sweating profusely and our mouths were dry. Suddenly, I heard a big sister selling popsicles not far from the tennis court shouting: "We are selling popsicles! Who wants popsicles!" We were overjoyed when we heard someone selling popsicles - after all, there were no shops around the tennis court, but when I After touching my pocket, I became discouraged - I actually forgot to bring any money. "Hey! Why did you forget to bring money at this time?" I couldn't help but complain. "That's right, it's such a wonderful thing to be able to eat a popsicle in this hot summer weather!" Wang Kun said beautifully, but there was still a tone of frustration behind it. At this time, I accidentally found a one-yuan note next to a pile of garbage, but when I looked closer, it turned out to be a half-cut one-yuan note. But how could we think about this at that time? So we ignored everything and went straight to the big sister selling popsicles.
When we got there, we were out of breath. I gave the one-yuan banknotes I had folded in advance to the elder sister and said, "Sister, here are two popsicles." "Okay!" the elder sister said enthusiastically. But at this moment, my mood was ups and downs like waves, like a torrent of water, extremely unstable. I was afraid that my elder sister would find out that the one dollar was half, and then scold me, scold me bloody, and let me... Everyone loses face. Fortunately, the eldest sister put the money in her pocket as soon as she took it, then gave us two popsicles, and we ran away quickly. Eating the popsicles I got through deception, I felt really bad. It was like knocking over a five-flavor bottle. Sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, and salty came all at once. Looking at Wang Kun again, he was eating with gusto. He also said: "This popsicle tastes really good."
After eating the popsicle, I wanted to check the time, but found that my watch was missing. oops! Oh my god! What to do? This watch was brought back to me by my uncle from Beijing. It was worth several hundred yuan. I was so anxious that I couldn't help crying and shed tears of sadness. At this time, I heard a familiar footsteps slowly walking towards me behind me. When I looked back, yo, isn't this the big sister selling popsicles? She still had my watch in her hand. "Little brother, is this watch yours?" "It's mine." I said with shame and joy. "Okay, give it back to you." After she said that, she returned the watch to me. "Sister, thank you so much. In fact, that...that one dollar is...is..." "Okay, don't say it. In fact, I already knew it. . Isn't it just one dollar? Why should I hurt your self-esteem for that one dollar? But you are still a good boy if you dare to admit your mistake." She said and left. At this time, it was already evening, and I stood blankly, watching her back fade away from my field of vision.
I seem to see a beautiful lily blooming in the deserted wilderness. It is so fraternal and perfect.
At that moment, I was moved.
Appreciation is also a kind of power
Some people say that appreciation is a kind of feeling, a kind of cultivation, and a kind of broad mind. I think appreciation is also a kind of power. Over the years, because of appreciation, there have been batches of ambitious students; because of appreciation, there have been batches of knowledgeable professors; because of appreciation, there have been batches of successful entrepreneurs...
My first teacher is a person who is good at appreciating things.
When I was in primary school, I was very poor at writing compositions. I often felt sad trying to write a good composition. Later, I even completely lost confidence and thought that I was indeed "a rotten wood that cannot be carved." In a composition class, in order to deal with the teacher, I copied an article from the composition book and handed it in. After school that day, the teacher kept me here. She looked into my eyes affectionately, smiled and said, "Your composition is really good. I hope you can keep up your efforts." I listened and my face turned red. The teacher didn't say anything more, but my heart was sinking heavily because of this... From then on, I worked hard and determined to live up to the teacher's expectations. After that, my composition level continued to improve. Every time I write an essay, the teacher still supports me and encourages me as always... Hard work pays off, and after countless efforts, one of my essays was finally published in the school newspaper. Teachers and parents celebrated this for a long time... A few years later, I graduated from elementary school. When I told the teacher uneasily that the essay I wrote before was copied, the teacher smiled and said, "Actually, I knew it a long time ago." "But, why didn't you criticize me?" I said. "If I had criticized you, would you have lost your confidence in writing a composition because of it?" The teacher said, "Actually, I admire you very much." Only then did I realize that it was the teacher's appreciation of me that gave me the motivation to move forward. , helped me regain my confidence.
Appreciating a flower can reveal the whole world, appreciating a blade of grass can reveal great spirit. The power of appreciation is endless.