The following eight points can successfully create a "disabled person":

I often see such people in my life.

When I encounter something or a little setback, I always sigh that it is not easy to spit out life.

But over time, you will find that in fact, these people have no objective obstacles, but only subjectively do not accept them.

Lovelorn, unemployed, gaffes .....

But their life is very good now, and their work is very smooth.

In fact, this is pessimistic rumination.

You can't live in pessimism forever, but in fact, if you change your mind, there will be a different world, but he is always addicted to it.

I often see such friends, see others make money, get rich and succeed, and then suddenly plan the road to wealth creation like chicken blood.

However, such chicken blood generally won't last long, and it won't move for three days at most.

At other times, I am mostly lamenting the efforts and success of others, and then continue to waste my time.

This is the power to fight chicken blood, which is "explosive" but not lasting enough. Sometimes I don't think I can last a day.

Therefore, there is no easy success, and some support the spirit of continuous efforts and repeated defeats.

Do you often hear such grandiloquence:

"I think so ..."

"We can do this ..."

"Do this ... do that ..."

Then what? Then it disappeared, and then ...

This is the way most people do things and work. They always stay in thinking and talking, but never go out and do it.

So most ordinary people are giants in spirit and language, but dwarfs in action.

But life will not change because of imagination. Only by turning ideas into actions can they be truly realized.

If people don't want to be abolished, they must take action first.

Self-discipline is the most popular word at present.

Whether a person succeeds or not has a lot to do with his personal self-discipline.

You know, the more self-disciplined, the first to realize the freedom of wealth.

People who don't know self-discipline are overdrawing themselves, and one day they will be indulged and bite themselves.

Self-disciplined people look at the future, and novices only look at the present.

The "waste" personality in life is often a fool who doesn't know self-discipline and only knows the present indulgence.

There is a kind of people in this world who are very annoying-people with little knowledge.

The half-full Jingle Bells is probably what I said.

Sitting in a well and looking at the sky, I thought I knew the whole world, but I didn't know there was someone outside and there was a day behind.

If you learn a little knowledge, you refuse to learn, to grow and to make progress. It is also difficult for such people to succeed.

What is negative energy?

Just complaining, not making progress, and always having a negative attitude.

Why stay away from people with negative energy?

Because negative energy is contagious.

If you have such friends in your life, it is recommended to keep a distance from them.

Why do you say that?

Please think about it. What role does a negative energy friend play in daily work, life and study?

When you plan your goals and try to achieve them, a friend with negative energy will say, "Why bother?"

When you are actively solving problems and setbacks in your life, friends with negative energy will say, "Forget it, this is not something that ordinary people can solve. Give up!" " "

When your life is depressed and you finally want to get back on your feet, a friend with negative energy will say, "I told you not to do that." You're not listening to me. Look, it's over now! "

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Friends with negative energy never consider solving problems. On the contrary, they always say "If I knew …" "I told you …" and "Alas …" after the problem happens.

If you have such friends, I suggest you stay away from them.

After all, the closer you get to such a negative energy person, the greater your chances of becoming a "waste".

Desire exceeds income.

There are two ways for a person to earn enough money: one is to control his desire, and the other is to increase his income.

The first one is simpler: regardless of the expensive house and luxury bag, it is enough to have money naturally.

The second one is difficult, but it is difficult to achieve. If you have great desires and ambitions, you can only make money desperately, which is no problem.

Therefore, when a person's desire is great and his income can't keep up, he can only go the wrong way: either spend other people's money or overdraw his future consumption.

In any case, this is a vicious circle.

The last law of the disabled is called: every day is exactly the same, and every day is according to the rules.

Cang Kejia has a famous saying:

"Some people are dead and he is still alive; Some people are alive and he is dead. "

If people just live by the rules every day, without dreams, goals and efforts, what is the difference between them and the dead?

Remember, Excellence can form a habit, so can decadence.