Speaking of kindness, we always associate kindness with tolerance. However, kindness does not mean tolerance, and some behaviors should not be forgiven.

There is a doctor on the Internet who was exhausted after performing two consecutive operations on a patient. He quickly picked up glucose and drank it in the operating room. The person who posted the video thought that people would lament the doctors' hard work, but they didn't expect that the hot comments were actually criticisms of the doctors.

Perhaps this comment will chill most doctors. An angel in white underwent surgery for several hours without eating or drinking to save his life, but netizens who did not know the truth slandered him because of a bottle of glucose. While the slanderous "keyboard warrior" may have just made a casual remark, some people went straight to physical harm.

Cao Cao's killing of Hua Tuo during the Three Kingdoms period may have been the earliest medical dispute, and the conflicts between doctors and patients have never stopped. In the eyes of some people, if a doctor can cure his disease, he will be "rejuvenated", but if he cannot cure his disease, he will be "death by a thousand cuts." As an excellent ophthalmologist, Tao Yong, the author of this book, has helped countless patients. He regained his sight, but suffered an unexpected disaster during a normal medical visit.

The patient who injured him was born with high myopia. His retina detached a year ago and he underwent three surgeries by other doctors at that time. When he came to Dr. Tao, his eyeballs were already atrophied. , the retina was completely detached and stiff. Dr. Tao also told him repeatedly that even if he tried his best to save his eyeballs, he could only save a small amount of his vision.

Those who live in darkness all year round may find it difficult to be bright in their hearts. When Dr. Tao was treating the patient, his back injury suddenly recurred and the pain was unbearable, but he still insisted on completing the operation. Unexpectedly, this patient thought that if he could not enjoy the sunshine of this world, he would drag the last doctor with him to hell. Unfortunately, Dr. Tao became the last doctor to treat him.

For Dr. Tao, such unexpected disasters are just a test on the boundary between life and death.

When most people are attacked or hurt by others, they will curse the perpetrator. Or falling into grievance and self-doubt, which will not help us get over the harm, but will cause us to suffer both psychological and physical torture, and in serious cases will hinder our normal life.

When Dr. Tao woke up, he was tortured by pain. He had no extra time to think about what happened. Three days later, he felt better. This incident also made Dr. Tao a hot topic. His wife's eyes were red, but she could not stay in the ICU for a long time. Without the company of her family, loneliness and pain wrapped around Dr. Tao like a vine. It was not until the sixth day that he could reluctantly Get out of bed.

After this incident, Dr. Tao also clearly realized one thing - there should be standards and bottom lines for "good" and "evil". Doctors can help the world and save people, but they cannot feed tigers with meat. Buddha. He would not allow himself to wallow in the resentment of his twisted patient, but he would avoid this insane patient if he were to do it again. Tragedy can be avoided, but good will eventually triumph over evil.

We must be kind in life, but when facing evil people, we must also know how to protect ourselves. If you blindly condone evil people, you will only harm others. This is not only something that doctors should understand, but also every one of us should keep in mind.

Little evils abound in life. For example, it is already late at night, and the residents upstairs are still moving furniture; another example is that the owner of the dog walking does not hold the dog leash but speaks harshly to passers-by; going to the market to buy vegetables Sometimes, the seller is short of money... When encountering these behaviors, we do not have to give in and tolerate them, but we must punish them in the right way. Only in this way can we eliminate the negative emotions in our hearts and let us regain love and hope. .

As the saying goes, "punishing evil and promoting good", in the TV series "The Punishment Officer of the Song Dynasty", although He Laoer, a villager in Maozhuwu, killed someone, Song Ci, as the punishment officer, not only sentenced him to no crime Instead, he was sentenced to meritorious service for killing the thief. Only by punishing evil behavior can we promote good. If we punish evil, how can we promote good?