My friend, I'm sorry for your loss. The old man is alive and doesn't want to see you live a sad life every day.
How can I get out of my sad world? How can ability walk out of sadness? The more you care about what you like, the more fragile you are. You are the same, but there is a difference between wisdom and no wisdom, and the result is different. People live for themselves, and themselves are the most important. If they lose their wisdom and bring unnecessary sadness and pain, why bother? The answer is actually very simple, with heart and wisdom. "What you know is happiness, and happiness is not why." "Don't understand is trouble, sadness and pain. Why? Why "? Little sister has no ability to answer your questions from different angles. What you're asking is how fruit can walk out of sadness. After helping you solve it, it won't help you much, and it will happen again in the future. I'll give you the "cause of destruction" so that you won't get lost and make the same mistake if you have a direction. We must find the direction of this question before we can answer it correctly. Just like us psychologists and old Chinese medicine practitioners, we can't know the patient's condition or write prescriptions. First of all, I want to know whether "irony is what you want" or "truth" is hard to hear. If the following reply does not satisfy you, or if it is offensive, please read more and understand. Forgive me, I don't want to ask about grades and success or failure, but I just want to take this opportunity to let you know more about other things, which may be helpful to you and may find a way to shorten your pain. Ignorance will harm you for life, so teaching and scolding are two sides of an organic whole. Please understand your painstaking efforts, and please be prepared! There is an old saying that it is happy to love a very painful person and be loved at the same time. I will choose the person who loves me first. At the very least, there will be no "lovelorn" and no "heartache". Being loved will be happier and sweeter. Tell him to run east, but he dare not run west. Even if you do something wrong and lose your temper, he will tolerate you. Any vigorous love must be based on facts and reality, so as not to deteriorate. Without the support of facts and reality, love is just a spring dream. There is a famous saying since ancient times: "Love and hate since ancient times." Butterfly lovers, a legendary story, failed to match the reality of Ma Wencai in the end, and breaking up a couple became an eternal regret. The so-called "couples who have no money are always sad". Nowadays, in fact, in life, "money is not everything, and you can't do anything without money." Without love, everything is empty talk, which will only increase the pain. Love cannot be all water. Sometimes it's not enough to talk in your sleep with your mouth. You will have this question, which shows that you are very unhappy in some way, and you have not given me a direction to answer you, so I can only guess and give examples. There was a man who loved a woman deeply. He betrayed his parents, career and life. It doesn't matter if he doesn't want to. After three years together, the woman abandoned the man. Men are suddenly unacceptable, heartbroken, helpless, miserable and want to die. Later, he met a female doctor friend, and his new friend told him: Your girlfriend will wait for you, your career will collapse, and you will spend all your money. So your girlfriend still loves you, leaving you some opportunities to regret it. The man changed his mind and talked with his new girlfriend for a long time. Now they are a loving couple. Smart, virtuous, gentle and considerate, hundreds of times more than the previous girlfriend, the previous sadness and heartbreak have become redundant. Now everyone says thank you to his girlfriend who broke his heart, so that he can have a better choice in the future. Childishness and ignorance account for only a small part of the growth process of life. It is not so easy for others to hurt us, and it is unforgivable to hurt ourselves. Calm down and think from another angle. In fact, you are smarter than me and wiser than me. There is a saying that a wise man should not only use his own wisdom, but also use the wisdom of others. Find it yourself. You can simply post a few words online, and then you cut off half my head and write a few more words. Then you have all the experience of my little head! Finally, your "deep still water" is too harmful! But don't tell me that I fainted! People are aware of what they have learned, as soon as you say it. If you follow the previous method and use wisdom and initiative, are you still afraid that you will not live the life you want or others want? . Still unhappy? What pain and worry are there? . . What is there to worry about? . Conclusion: Be careful that your biggest enemy is yourself. Don't be hurt by laziness in your head, laziness will kill your hands and feet and make you tired all your life. This is not an article, this is experience, I did it, it's up to you, come on, come on. Both failure and success are in your mind. Destiny and opportunity should be in our own hands. Don't go the wrong way. Remember: act. Oh, no, all talk and no action. Come on, come on. 2008 is a year of hope, and everyone encourages each other. Someone asked me online, old Chinese doctor, are you a psychiatrist? Hee hee ~ ~ ~ as a physical object.
How to help the elderly out of sadness 1 let parents persuade them?
2, buy some delicious filial piety to the elderly, ease the atmosphere.
3. If you are free again, pay for the old man to go out and relax.
4. Let the old people do what they like, such as singing Beijing Opera and chatting with neighbors.
How to overcome the impatient psychological state? Do something to exercise patience, such as practicing calligraphy, reading books, and doing housework to calm your mind. To do small things well, all big things are made up of small things. As the saying goes, "no big deal, no small thing", take your time.
I, menstruation, died of a long illness, very sad. How to write poems to express my sad feelings? Write it yourself, how to write your own thoughts and talk about your feelings casually. If you want someone else to write it for you, it's meaningless. After all, it is you who died during menstruation, not others. It doesn't make any sense for me to say this. LZ and other respondents don't mind.
How to deal with the inheritance of real estate after the death of the elderly at home; Inherit the materials needed for real estate transfer. . .
The police station where the deceased's household registration is located needs to cancel the household registration and apply for a death certificate.
It is necessary to notarize the right of inheritance (there are two kinds of real estate inheritance: one is testamentary inheritance and the other is legal inheritance)
Death certificate (cremation certificate) of the deceased.
Need to go to the original property certificate of the person.
Household register or other documents that can prove the kinship between the decedent and the legal heir.
The transfer of real estate license requires the heir's ID card:
How should I clean up my sad mood after my grandmother died? I don't want my grandmother to be so sad when she is alive. She's gone and gone. She has always lived in our hearts.
It is also a comfort to think about it from time to time. People will die. Maybe there will be another world after death, and then I can see her again.
Look ahead.
It is a natural law and inevitable for everyone to persuade relatives to come out of sad sketches as soon as possible. Although everyone knows this rule, when it comes to the real separation of life and death, it is still unacceptable to accept the fact that Yin and Yang are separated.
The pain of losing a loved one is heartbreaking, but the deceased is gone. I only hope that the living can get out of their sadness as soon as possible and greet every day with a positive attitude and a good mood.
1, the deceased has passed away. Please be sorry for your loss.
I feel sorry for your loss. People who leave don't want you to be unhappy.
I feel sorry for your loss. By the way, don't be too sad. Take care of yourself.
4, birth and death are natural phenomena, you must feel sorry for your loss! Take care of yourself.
My family will have a good time there. I don't want to see everyone too sad.
6. Birth, old age, illness and death are natural laws. Death is her ultimate accommodation, so don't be too sad.
7, life and death, the law of nature! No, it's too sad. He will feel your filial piety!
8. Reward the elderly with practical actions. Only by working hard can we live up to his spirit in heaven.
Dear, no matter what, when you are tired, when you are lonely, I will accompany you.
10, birth and death, everything is a natural phenomenon; No one has died since ancient times, as long as they live in my heart.
1 1. Don't let them miss you any more, and don't be sad. After all, people can't come back from the dead. Come on!
12, just don't let them miss it, and you're not sad. After all, people can't come back from the dead. Come on!
13, relatives can go by yellow crane, and people can go to the music store. But comforting kindness with a smile is never the most endless.
14, relatives will watch you from the sky. Stay with you. Relatives are always by your side. You just can't see him.
15, dear, maybe you will regret the past and feel sad because of the loss, but please learn to be strong when you are most sad.
16, the happiness of the living is the best comfort for the deceased relatives. For the hope of the elderly, we must try our best to make ourselves happy!
17 All good things must come to an end. Although grandpa left him, he left a lot of things and lived in his heart forever.
18, I'm sorry for your loss. Let's deal with the sincere wishes of the deceased at this moment. I wish his old man a pleasant journey and rest in Jiuquan!
19, her old man was liberated and went to enjoy herself. People can't be resurrected after death. Grandma certainly doesn't want her children and grandchildren to be so sad in the spirit of heaven.
20. Birth, old age, illness and death are the most common things. People can't be resurrected when they are dead. Everyone who is alive should live well, otherwise the old man will not rest in peace.
2 1, the dead rest in peace, the living should have the courage to face life again, I will be with you and support you! I feel sorry for your loss.
22. It's so sad. His old man is watching us. Only when we are happy can he feel at ease. This is his old man's greatest wish, isn't it?
Life has to go through this moment. I'm sorry for your mother's death. As a friend, I wish your mother eternal life and happiness in heaven.
24. Birth, old age, illness and death are all right. Everyone will experience death, so don't be too sad. He/she doesn't want to see you like this.
He has gone to other places to finish the task, so we should bless him. Because he is in close contact with nature. Just be happy every day. (end literature. )
26. Don't be too sad when the person you love dies. In heaven, he won't be as depressed as you are. Cheer up and work hard for the person you love.
27. God is fair to everyone. When you lose something, you gain something valuable. Everyone should have a grateful heart.
28. Everyone has to go. Life and death are not for you to decide. His old man's life in another place is more enjoyable than on earth. I'm sorry for your loss.
29. Everyone has this time. Actually, everyone will take care of it. Perhaps leaving is the beginning of another life for the elderly, and they will stay in our hearts.
When the reality cannot be changed, we can only learn to be strong, blossom and fall, and everything in the world has a beginning and an end. This is a natural law. Please don't be sad, life goes on.
3 1, people cannot be resurrected after death. Don't be so sad. Just comfort him with your performance. Although he is gone, we who are alive still have to live well.
32. Birth and death, natural and man-made disasters, etc. Who can escape? Life is like this, still need to continue, my friend, cry happily if you want to, and release your anguish.
It is human nature that everyone can't feel the pain of losing their loved ones. We can only silently pray for the dead in our hearts, hoping that they will live well in another heaven!
Don't be sad, everyone. Life is doomed to death. As long as we live well, he will feel better in the spirit of heaven. Sorrow can't solve the problem. I think it should be ok! I feel sorry for your loss.
35. The more you want to lose, the stronger you must be. Let bygones be bygones. The past is irreversible. Let's be strong. Losing one person, at least others, won't make us feel lonely!
36. The deceased is gone, but he certainly doesn't want us living people to suffer. He must hope that after expressing moderate sadness, we should still live well. He will bless us in another world.
37. People cannot be resurrected after death. The strength of the living is the best comfort to the dead. We have grown up, and it is impossible for our relatives to accompany us all our lives. We have to face this day eventually. I'm sorry this happened, too. I hope you are strong.
38. Life, illness, death and illness are all planned by nature. People will leave us one day when they are young and old. Maybe your grandfather loves you very much, so you will be very sad, but more importantly, your grandfather doesn't want you to be so sad. Cheer up.
39. I understand your feelings now, but the old man has gone, and the dead can't be regenerated! In the future, I will be your closest relative in this world. Believe me-I will take responsibility, make you happy and let you feel the warmth of home.
40. Your relatives just went to places you can't see, but they can see you. They don't want you to have a bad life because of them. Let them know that you are a strong person and won't let them down. People who leave don't want you to be unhappy.
4 1, we are all old, and we are slowly facing such a parting. You can't stop this from happening. All you can do is accept it. What you can do is to handle the feelings with your loved ones in a time that you can grasp. Please feel sorry for your loss. Sorrow will not bring back lost love.
42. We are getting old, and we have to deal with such parting. You can't stop this from happening. All you can do is understand. What you can do is to handle the feelings with your loved ones in a time that you can grasp. Please feel sorry for your loss. Sorrow can't recover lost love.
43. The weather is unpredictable. Who would think about these things? Losing the person who used to live happily together every day, how can this not make people sad, but what can we do? I think he will be sad to see you in heaven without eating.
44. People cannot be resurrected after death. I know you are sad, but life will go on as usual. Real life doesn't stop just because you lose someone. You can cry if you want. I'll lend you a shoulder to lean on. Please be strong and live a good life after crying. Don't let him go.
45. We live in a cultural situation, and the ideas we follow dominate us. What do you think people will think of you when buying a house? It is measured by conservative values. Your implicit refusal to have sex is also a conservative and familiar problem. You are living in someone else's way, looking back on the past.
Baby, this may be a big blow to you, but we still have to cheer up, because dad will always be in our hearts. We should cheer up even more. We can't let this incident down. I'm sure dad in heaven doesn't want you to do this either. Let's cheer together.
47. Life is like this. Wanting to have it but not getting it may make people give up on themselves. If you really lose it, you must be stronger. Let bygones be bygones. The past is irreversible. Let's be strong. Losing one person, at least others, won't make us feel lonely.
48. The dead are gone, but the living regret their loss. Please remember that his teachings and love will always be with you, and the kindness of his smile will always appear in your mind; In order to care for your relatives and friends, please live more actively and happily, let him smile proudly in heaven and squint at your kind eyes.
49. Dear, you cried for the death of your loved one, and my heart cried with you. I want to comfort you with many words, but I can't always express my meaning, and I don't know where to start with a thousand words in my heart. I only hope that my love will put your head on my shoulder and let me soothe your crying heart. Let go, because I'm with you. My love, bless you!
50. Don't be too sad. The most important thing I should do next is to cheer up. Nothing can be undone. We will continue to live. I don't know if it's for ourselves or for your brother. Live well! Especially you, what you should do now is to take good care of your parents for your brother. With you like this, what motivation do your parents have to live? You must not be so weak, you have a lot of responsibilities to bear.
I hate rainy days. Rainy days are not tight, which brings inconvenience to life. More importantly, rainy days give people a dull feeling. I am in a bad mood today. I don't even want to go to self-study in the morning. I don't know where I got the courage. I just don't think people will do anything to me if I skip class. At most, I was driven home by the old class to give a star before coming to class. I didn't even dare to look at the test paper yesterday. Since that incident, my enthusiasm for learning has almost disappeared, but I am a little interested in one or two subjects with good grades. As a result, my grades suddenly declined, but I didn't try to change the situation. I thought I had plenty of time. It's a big deal for me to repeat one year and get better grades. I also imagine myself as those who work miracles after great failure. Now it seems that I am simply a whimsical * * *, and no miracle creator has earned it by his own diligence and strength. Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is that you don't have the courage to face failure. Time is infinite, but human energy is limited. We should devote all our limited energy to study and work, so as to create an infinite life.
I used to step on the tail of the bell again and again and rushed to the crowded tribe in the classroom with lightning speed, and then chatted with my classmates. Chatting is also eternal: what's the new program on Mango Taiwan recently, which singer has recently released a new album and caught a cold recently ... In our colorful conversation, the ringing of the nerve has been echoing in my ears, helpless! We slowly dispersed one by one. Even in class, when the teacher turns to face the blackboard, we will call from the distant mountains (of course, we can't just learn the soft language of Wunong like shouting Shaanxi opera). I finished primary school in this unchanging campus life. Inadvertently, I have a vague feeling of losing myself, vaguely feeling that this is not my pleasure, but I still think I should do what my classmates do. I can't isolate myself and make people think that I am a lonely child. I have no idea that I was wrong.
Finally, one day, when I was watching Lecture Room, Mr. Bi Shumin cleared the fog in my mind for me. That class was her exposition of "happiness". Her words, like a sword, gradually poked at the most confused place in my heart, which seems to be my fatal point. She told us that it is illusory to follow the trend just to get rid of loneliness. This is not real happiness, so it's better to find something meaningful that I really like to do.
I am not to get rid of loneliness? Teacher Bi's words awakened me, awakened my desire and pursuit of true happiness. I don't want to follow other people's trajectory, but I should have my own trajectory. From then on, I took my motto "strive to break through" as the driving force and tried to break free from the shackles to show my resistance to vulgarity. I no longer care about those illusory things, those things that people chase in the fog, but spend my spare time on my favorite handicrafts and gadgets. I no longer pay attention to the dynamics of stars, but go to the handicraft shop. I stopped listening to pop songs and looked for creative materials. I don't have enough money to buy accessories. I will decorate my room with existing materials into colorful fairy tales and look at the simple and lifeless room like a butterfly.
Let illusion and confusion become the past, and stride towards your real paradise.