Respect

Respect is a sincere smile on the face; respect is listening when others express different opinions; respect is applauding others for their efforts. Respect seems to be just giving to those around you.

We have all been taught the lesson of "Kong Rong gives up pears" since we were young, and we all know that we should give up our seats to the elderly on the bus, and we should not ridicule or ridicule the disabled. This theory sometimes seems unreasonable at first glance. Why do we need to eat small pears when we are young? Why do I have to give up my seat if I am already tired? Why can't you just say everything that's on your mind?

In fact, the real truth is here: respecting others is respecting yourself.

There is a saying that "give me peaches and give me Qiong Yao", which means that when others give me peaches, I will give Qiong Yao in return. The so-called courtesy reciprocity, in human society, you will get a point in return for every point you give, no more, no less, and it will definitely come true one day. This is the rule. Rules are equal to most people most of the time, so your respect and courtesy towards others will leave a good impression on others, and they will then treat you the same way you did.

There are no such counterexamples. Have you ever seen a cynical, arrogant and crazy boy win the heartfelt respect of others? At most, they just use their "rebellion" and "distinctiveness" to attract the curious attention of the public.

Respect is a kind of great wisdom. Because you understand, you are compassionate. It is not difficult to respect the similarities between others and oneself. The excitement of meeting a close friend is enough to cover up the plain light of "respect". The hard part is respecting the differences between others and ourselves. You think smoking is harmful to health and pollutes the environment, but he regards it as a kind of adjustment. He says that life should be proactive, lively and vigorous, but you just want to be plain, peaceful, peaceful and comfortable for the rest of your life. Everyone is different, and there are more than thousands of differences. Respect means adhering to one's own life creed and looking at each other with appreciation from an objective perspective. It does not demand the same, but faces up to the differences.

Therefore, those who know how to respect others have understood the great wisdom of life. Therefore, your posture is elegant and your behavior is calm, because you have enough confidence to support yourself and enough tolerance to look at others. Therefore, they will be respected by others, because the noble and peaceful atmosphere exuding from their bodies is really desirable and attractive to others.

Respect will make people feel happy and breathe smoothly. Respect can change strange or sharp relationships. If there is enough respect for each other, war is not inevitable.

The ancients said that those who love others will always be loved by others, and those who value others will always be valued.

Respect is not just for others to see.