Bing Xin was born in 1900 and died in 1999, so people affectionately call her "the old man of the century". Her original name is Xie Wanying, a native of Changle District, Fuzhou City, Fujian Province. Because I read Wang Changling's Parting with Xin Qiji at Furong Inn, I was moved by the sentence "There is a piece of Bing Xin in the jade pot", so I took the pen name "Bing Xin".
Because of the good family environment, Bing Xin received a good education from an early age. At the age of seven, she read Water Margin and Romance of the Three Kingdoms. At the age of eight, she read the works of Dickens, a famous British writer. At an early age, her thoughts are particularly mature. At the age of 65,438+08, she wrote a collection of poems, Stars and Springs, and at the age of 65,438+09, she published her first novel, Morning News.
At the age of 23, I studied in yenching university. After graduation, I studied English literature at Wellesley College in Boston, USA, and got a master's degree in literature. He has taught in yenching university, Beiping Women's College of Arts and Sciences and Chinese Department of Tsinghua University. What a glittering resume. When studying in a foreign country, Bing Xin also met the love of his life-Wu Wenzao.
Two young people are working hard for their studies and future in a foreign country. They usually have some difficulties to help each other. Soon, there was a spark of love between Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao. 1On June 5th, 929, they got married in Linhuxuan, yenching university. The combination of talented people and beautiful women caused quite a stir at that time.
"Success is Xiao He's failure, Xiao He's failure". These two excellent parents are destined to be very busy. 193 1 year, their son Wu Ping was born (formerly known as Wu Zongsheng). Because of work, they can only leave their son to their grandparents to take care of. Wu Ping became a "left-behind child". It can be said that from birth to 17, he hasn't seen his parents many times.
Like countless grandparents in China, the two old people are obedient to their eldest grandson. They were afraid of falling into their hands and melting in their mouths, so Wu Ping became a playboy, and Wu Ping was handsome and talented, and later graduated from Tsinghua University. It's amazing, there are countless "girlfriends".
17 years old, Bing Xin knew that his son was becoming more and more unreasonable, and quickly took him to his side to take care of him. But how can these "bad habits" be changed at once? Because he owed his son too much since childhood, Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao couldn't say anything to his son, so let him go on.
Needless to say, this frivolous behavior will definitely cause trouble, laying a hidden danger for Bing Xin's tombstone to be written in eight red letters in the future.
Wu Ping, who graduated from Tsinghua University, is more popular. In one job, he met Chen Lingxia, a female nurse 10 years younger than himself. In fact, Bing Xin had already found a suitable girl for her son at that time, even to the point of talking about marriage. As a result, Wu Ping, a playboy, changed his mind after seeing the beautiful young Chen Lingxia and launched a fierce pursuit for her.
In the face of Wu Ping, who was academically successful, handsome and handsome, and whose mother was Bing Xin, Chen Lingxia quickly fell, and the two quickly "flashed marriage". Why didn't Chen Lingxia think that she could abandon the man who talked about marriage at any time? Maybe one day she would abandon her, too.
Sure enough, shortly after marriage, Wu Ping's "old problem" recurred, but Chen Lingxia was pregnant. For the sake of children and not to stimulate the elderly at home, Chen Lingxia chose patience. She thinks her husband will change his mind after the baby is born. However, Chen Lingxia was busy taking care of his son Wu Shan every day after his birth, and Wu Ping took the opportunity to go out to play.
He went so far that all his sons knew that he had another woman outside. Wu Shan was so angry when he learned that he even hated his father. Looking at her sad mother, young Wu Shan had to accompany her. Later, Chen Lingxia finally couldn't stand it and wanted a divorce. Mother-in-law Bing Xin advised her not to do this, which was bad for everyone's reputation. For the sake of her mother-in-law Bing Xin's reputation, Chen Lingxia put up with it.
1On February 28th, 999, Bing Xin passed away, and Chen Lingxia finally lost her care, so she filed for divorce on February 28th, 999. This divorce lawsuit lasted for several years, and Wu Ping has been wasting her time and unwilling to divorce. Later, Chen Lingxia suddenly fell ill, and Wu Ping filed divorce proceedings with her in turn. Until 20 1 1, the court ruled that they divorced in the absence of Chen Lingxia, ending their marriage for more than 40 years, and Wu Ping married a young wife soon.
Although the divorce was successful, the long-term litigation exhausted Chen Lingxia's savings. She was too ill to afford a series of treatments. Sad and angry, Wu Shan rushed to his father Wu Pinggu and asked him for money. Unexpectedly, Wu Ping directly refused, thinking that he and Chen Lingxia were no longer husband and wife, and did not need to give her money for treatment.
On May 3 12 and 3 1 day, Wu Shan, the grandson of Bing Xin and the son of Wu Ping, angrily rushed into the memorial garden with red paint and a brush, and drew eight big characters on the monument of Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao with red paint: "It's a waste of time to teach children badly." Caused an uproar.
Wu Shan's venting behavior is definitely wrong, but it also makes people feel that Bing Xin and his wife failed to educate their son Wu Ping, which is the beginning of all misfortune. Later, Wu Shan also reflected on his behavior and bowed to his grandparents' tombstones to apologize. What do you think of Wu Shan's behavior?