When children have this kind of behavior, many parents always blame or even beat and scold. These simple and rude ways not only have little effect, but also make children rebellious. So how should parents reasonably guide their children? The following suggestions may effectively help children get rid of the habit of procrastination.
First, encourage children to get up "quickly"
Parents should change the evaluation angle of their children and actively guide them. If parents often say that children are "slow", children will subconsciously form negative thoughts of "I am slow" and "I can't get up fast", and naturally there will be episodes such as being in a daze and playing with an eraser. Therefore, when guiding children, you can consciously praise them, such as "Today you are ten minutes faster than yesterday" and "You can do it", and encourage children to make a little progress through positive affirmation.
Second, help children realize the value of time.
Many children procrastinate because they lack the concept of time and don't know the value of time, so this is very important for children who procrastinate. Parents can post some famous sayings or small notes in their children's bedrooms to remind them, or tell their children stories about celebrities cherishing time to improve their understanding of time.
Third, make a supervision plan.
Work out a life schedule with your child, record the time when your child dresses and eats every morning, and record it for a week to see if your child has made progress. In this process, parents can teach their children time-saving skills such as dressing, washing and packing toys, and cultivate their time concept.
Fourth, don't give children extra homework.
In the context of "reducing the burden" of education, many parents worry that "reducing the burden" will affect their children's learning effect. Therefore, some parents add more weight to their children in order to let them learn more, and often assign them some extra tasks, such as drawing and doing exercises, after their children finish their homework. At this time, many children will have a rebellious attitude and feel that no matter how fast or slow the homework is done, they can't go out to play. It is better to break up the time for doing homework and do it slowly, at least they can have more time to play.