A person often plays different roles in society, and different roles bear different pressures and responsibilities. According to different responsibilities, the difficulty is also proportional.
In modern society, women have many roles to play. She is not only a mother who raises children, but also a wife who takes care of her husband. She is also the daughter of her mother's father, and may be a strong woman in the company in society. It is not easy to play so many roles well. Perhaps the most difficult of many roles is the role of wife.
When you play chess, you face not only your husband, but also big events and small feelings from your husband's family. On how to be a good wife, the ancients left us a wise saying, "You will be a daughter-in-law, but you won't be a daughter-in-law, pass it on"?
Let's take this sentence literally first. Its literal meaning is simple. A really good wife will hide some things from each other in life. But an incompetent wife will not consider the impact and consequences when dealing with some things, and will say everything.
We only look at the literal meaning, but we can't deeply understand this sentence, including the sentence that the two sides mentioned in it are both sides. What can't you say? Let's analyze it carefully.
The two sides mentioned here are not simply one meaning, but he has two meanings here. What the first floor says is, between the bride's family and her husband's family?
As a daughter-in-law, when dealing with some things, you should keep it from your husband's family or family. For example, the daughter-in-law may be uncomfortable at her husband's house, or have some minor problems. In order to worry her parents, some things have to be hidden. Or parents' views on in-laws are not convenient to tell them. At this time, we must hide and consider the harmonious relationship between the two families.
The second layer is about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As the biological mother of her husband, the mother-in-law must love her son very much in life, and she will feel sorry for her child in some things and don't want him to do anything.
But sometimes, the truth may only be understood between you husband and wife. As a mother, a mother-in-law will only pity her children. At this time, as a daughter-in-law, you can't complain about your mother-in-law. Your husband may also agree with his mother's idea, but if you take the initiative to say it, it will cause her husband's dissatisfaction.
More importantly, many times, as a son's husband, he will definitely respect his mother's advice. Therefore, the daughter-in-law between two people, it is best not to complain too much about one side.
Life is not easy, and ancient society may be simpler. Women play less and less roles, but in today's society, women have more rights and responsibilities. Women not only have to work, but also have the most fundamental wife role.
At this time, it is very difficult to be a good wife. Today this sentence is teaching us how to be a good wife and daughter-in-law. If you have other opinions and suggestions, please leave a message to share.