1. Famous quotes and examples about not doubting and employing people

A gentleman’s heart can be big or small; a husband’s ambition can be bent or stretched.

(Proverb) If a gentleman takes something far away, he must wait for it; if what he takes is big, he must be patient. (Su Shi) A gentleman does not use words to promote others, nor does he use people to waste words.

(The Analects of Confucius) A gentleman does not lose his dignity, his elegance, and his speech. (Book of Rites) A ??gentleman does not blame others for what they cannot do, and does not force others to do what they cannot.

("Wen Zhongzi") A gentleman has three warnings: when he is young, his blood energy is not yet stable, and the warning lies in his appearance; when he is strong, his blood energy is strong, and his warning lies in fighting; when he is old, his blood energy has declined. , the warning lies in gaining. (The Analects of Confucius) A gentleman is prepared and nothing happens.

("Shuo Yuan") The beauty of a gentleman is not the evil of a man. (Confucius) A gentleman chooses first and then makes friends; a villain first makes friends and then chooses.

(Wang Tong) A gentleman can endure what others cannot. (Shao Yong) A gentleman is known as righteousness, while a villain is known as benefit.

(Confucius) Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. (Mencius) All the mediocre people in the world, ancient and modern, are defeated by the word "lazy".

All the talented people in the world, both ancient and modern, were defeated by the word "arrogance". (Zeng Guofan) If you don’t seek widely, you will get it; if you don’t study miscellaneously, you will understand.

(Wang Tong) If you don’t do it, you can’t achieve it. If you don’t ask, you can’t get it. ("Guanzi") Don't use small evil to cover up great good, don't use the shortcomings of many to abandon the strong.

(Zhu Xi) If you don’t follow the rules, you can’t make a circle. (Mencius) If you don’t eat the bitterness of the bitterness, how can you get the sweetness of the sweetness?

(Proverb) If you don’t see it, you will understand it. It is not self-righteous, so it is obvious.

If you don’t cut yourself down, you will have merit. Don't be proud of yourself, so you will grow.

(Lao Tzu) It is difficult to become a master without suffering. ("Journey to the West") Don't accept lies, don't listen to tricks, don't use fancy names, and don't engage in hypocrisy.

(Xun Yue) Don’t pretend to be wrong in order to be first, and don’t flatter yourself in order to make progress. ("Yan Zi Chun Qiu") We are not afraid of poverty, but we are afraid of shortcomings.

(Proverb) Don’t be afraid of incompetence, be afraid of inconstancy. (Proverb) Smart and eager to learn, not ashamed to ask questions.

(Confucius) It is better to take the direct answer than to seek it from the song. (Proverb) Success depends on reason, not force, and convincing people with sincerity, not words.

(Su Shi) Haste makes waste. (Confucius) If people are virtuous to me, I must not forget them; if I am virtuous to others, I must not forget them.

("Warring States Policy") Think twice before taking action. (Chen Shou) Greed and laziness are actually the root of all evil.

(Li Dazhao) Diligence is the first in all actions, and laziness is the first in all evils. (Liang Qichao) Being rich is not benevolent, and being benevolent is not rich.

(Mencius) Be poor without flattery, be rich without arrogance. (Confucius) Wealth and honor cannot be corrupted, poverty and lowliness cannot be moved, and power cannot be subjugated.

(Mencius) To make mistakes without correcting them is to make mistakes. (Confucius) No one has any faults. If he can correct his faults, there is no greater virtue.

("Zuo Zhuan") Sufferings arise from excessive desires, and harms arise from unpreparedness. ("Huainanzi") You must not have the intention of harming others, and you must not have the intention of guarding against others.

(Proverb) There is no permanence in man, and he will accomplish nothing in his life. (Zeng Guofan) Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you.

(The Analects of Confucius) Keep your ambition strong, work hard, and work hard. No matter how big or small you are, you will definitely achieve something. (Zeng Guofan) If you see small gains, big things will not happen.

(Confucius) If you see something good, move on; if you see something wrong, change it. (Confucius’ family saying) Don’t be arrogant when you win, and don’t be discouraged when you lose.

(Proverb) When making friends, keep your word. (Confucius) When a man receives advice, he becomes holy; when wood receives rope, he becomes straight; when metal receives tempering, he becomes beneficial.

("Famous Sayings of Confucius") One forbearance can control a hundred brave things, and one moment of silence can control a hundred actions. (Su Xun) There is no greater disaster than dissatisfaction, and no greater fault than desire.

(Lao Tzu) Don’t be arrogant when you are in a high position, and don’t worry when you are in a low position. ("Book of Changes") Be prepared for danger in times of peace and be prepared.

("Zuo Zhuan") A gentleman has no worries or fears. (The Analects of Confucius) Diseases enter through the mouth, and disasters come out of the mouth.

(Fu Xuan) What tastes bitter is good medicine, but what is harsh to the ear is good advice. ("Tan Sutra") If you love others with generosity, you will win many people.

If you are pleased to make people happy, then you will be attached. ("Baopuzi") There is no extreme joy, and extreme happiness brings sorrow.

If you don’t indulge your desires, you will cause disaster. ("Zhenguan Politicians") Courtesy should be reciprocated.

It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go. ("Book of Rites") Do not look at anything that is not ritual, do not hear anything that is not ritual, do not speak anything that is not ritual, do not move anything that is not ritual.

("The Analects of Confucius") Loyal words are unpleasant to the ear and beneficial to action; good medicine is bitter to the mouth and beneficial to disease. ("Historical Records") It is better to blame oneself than to blame others, and it is better to seek others than to seek oneself.

("Huainanzi") I advise you not to cherish your gold-threaded clothes, and I advise you to imbibe your youth. If there are flowers, you must break them immediately. Don't wait until there are no flowers.

("Complete Poems of the Tang Dynasty") Anyone who can abuse me is my teacher. (Zhu Xi) When the water is extremely clear, there are no fish; when people observe it carefully, there are no disciples.

(Ban Gu) A small impatience will mess up a big plan. ("The Analects of Confucius") Those who have gained the Tao will have many help, but those who have lost the Tao will have little help.

(Mencius) The opportunity cannot be missed, and the time will never come again. ("Book of Jin") Think before you act.

(The Analects of Confucius) There are mountains beyond the mountains, heaven beyond the sky, and people beyond the human beings. (Proverb) I am born with talents that will be useful.

(Li Bai) Every man is responsible for the rise and fall of the world. (Gu Yanwu) A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

(Lao Tzu) Be prepared and you will never be defeated. ("Zuo Zhuan") Where there is a will, there is a way.

("Book of the Later Han Dynasty") 1. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, accept what cannot be changed 2. Smart people cherish everything they have, mediocre people think The most beautiful thing is what you can't get. 3. If the enemy makes you angry, it means you are not sure of defeating him. 4. Maybe some people are hateful and some people are despicable. But when I put myself in his imagination, I realized : He is more pitiful than me. 5. Life is only a few decades, so don’t leave any regrets for yourself. Laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, and love when you should love. 6. Regret is a kind of energy-consuming thing. Emotions, regret is a bigger loss than a loss, a bigger mistake than a mistake, so don’t regret it. 7. When the sun rises in the East China Sea and sets in the West Mountain, there will be a day of sorrow and a day of joy. If you don’t get into trouble, you will feel comfortable and your heart will feel comfortable. 8. The credit belongs to the boss, the title is temporary, only the body belongs to you. Don't sell the essence of your life's hard work to the company, but leave your family with junk. 9. Focus on health, be more unrestrained, and be a little confused. 10. Go your own way and let others tell you. 2. Verses that are not trusted

Verses that are not trusted are:

1. There is a swing inside the wall but a way outside the wall. Pedestrians outside the wall, beautiful women smiling inside the wall. The laughter gradually disappeared and became quieter. Passionate but annoyed by ruthlessness.

From "Butterfly Love Flower·Spring Scenery", this is a fresh and graceful poem describing the spring scenery. It expresses the poet's sigh at the passing of spring and the trouble of unknown emotions.

2. If life is just like the first time we met, why should the autumn wind draw a fan sadly? It is easy to change people's hearts, but they say that people's hearts are easy to change.

From "Mulan Ci·Naigu Juejue Ci Cambodian Friends", getting along with the person you like should always be as sweet, so warm, so affectionate and happy as when you just met. But you and I should have loved each other, but why have we become separated from each other today? Now it is easy to change your heart, but you say that it is easy for lovers to change their hearts.

3. It’s so dangerous! The road to Shu is as difficult as climbing to the sky! Silkworms and yufu, how confused the founding of the country is!

From "The Road to Shu is Difficult", this poem adopts the old title of Yuefu, uses romanticism to develop rich imagination, and artistically reproduces the wonders and thrills of the road to Shu, such as the steepness, abruptness, strength and ruggedness. And the majestic momentum that cannot be surpassed is used to sing the magnificence of the mountains and rivers of Shu, showing the majesty and magnificence of the mountains and rivers of the motherland, and fully demonstrating the poet's romantic temperament and love for nature.

4. Sincerity is both courageous and martial, and ultimately strong and invincible. When the body is dead, the spirit becomes the spirit, and the soul becomes the ghost hero.

From "Nine Songs·National Sorrow", this is an elegy in memory of the soldiers who died in the Chu Kingdom. This poem is divided into two sections. The first section describes the heroic scene of Chu soldiers fighting to the death in a hand-to-hand battle; the second section eulogizes the noble spirit of Chu soldiers who sacrificed their lives for the country and praises their sacrifices. Heroism and patriotism.

5. The spirit of resentment is so powerful that it never pays attention to the hearts of the people. 7. If you believe but are doubted, if you are loyal but are slandered, how can you not complain?

From "Li Sao", the first half of the poem repeatedly expresses the poet's concern for the fate of Chu State and people's lives, expresses his desire for political reform, and his insistence on ideals and never compromises with evil forces despite disasters. Will; the second half of the chapter reflects the poet's thoughts and feelings of loving the country and the people through his wanderings in the heavens, pursuing the realization of his ideals, and his desire to die after failure. 3. Sentences that are not afraid of being doubted by others include:

You question me and laugh at me. You think my ideas are naive and my actions cannot be successful.

I understand you. I don’t feel wronged or disappointed. On the contrary, I feel extremely excited, because this proves: I am different from you! Yes, I just want to be different from you! Because this represents my progress, because this represents the progress of this era, and this represents the hope of this world! New things will always be questioned and despised by people, it doesn't matter, it will always break out of the ground, absorb the sunshine and rain, and grow little by little. What is wind and rain? What is failure? I tell you, as long as it has faith, one day it will grow into a towering tree, and you will forget your doubts and ridicules, come to enjoy the shade under this big tree one after another, and praise it sincerely: Ah , what a great tree. 4. Poems describing being wronged

1. "Li Sao" Pre-Qin Dynasty: Qu Yuan

Original text:

The spirit of resentment is so powerful that it never understands the hearts of the people.

All the girls were jealous of me, and rumors spread that I was good at lewdness.

Translation: I just blame the King of Chu for being so confused. He never understands the mood of others. Those women were jealous of my beauty and spread rumors that I was coquettish and lascivious.

2. "The Biography of Qu Yuan" in the Two Han Dynasties: Sima Qian

Original text:

If you are trustworthy but you are doubtful, if you are loyal but you are slandered, how can you not complain?

Qu Ping’s work "Li Sao" reflects self-pity.

Translation: Honesty is doubted, loyalty is slandered, how can one be without resentment? The reason why Qu Yuan wrote "Li Sao" was probably caused by resentment.

3. "Prison Proverbs" Tang Dynasty: Zhang Shuo

Original text:

A married woman has a grudge, and her yang will be strong for three years, and a married man will be angry in June. Feishuang.

Translation: The woman died out of resentment, so there was a severe drought for three years. The man died out of anger, and it started to snow in June.

4. "The End of Qin - Pity for the Wrongful People" Tang Dynasty: Bai Juyi

Original text:

Don't you see the injustice and suffering of chickens and swallows. I heard that Phoenix, Lord of Birds, did not say a word before Phoenix, but used noisy words.

Translation: I didn’t see the chickens and swallows complaining about injustice. I heard that the phoenix is ??the master of birds, but you don’t go to address the phoenix, so don’t make any noise here.

5. "Injustice in the Hetao" Qing Dynasty: You Dong

Original text:

How can it be said that the general's body is lying dead, and the prime minister's head is not wronged?

Don’t cry, for if you don’t see the gold medal, you will be summoned to the post-war prison.

Translation: What did the general say when his body was lying on the battlefield? How did the prime minister know that there was no injustice? Don't cry, you didn't see a prison incident after the gold medal summons. 5. Classic sentences to express distrust

1. I will never cry in front of someone I don’t trust. I know that her attempts to comfort me are all fake.

2. Hate the feeling of not being trusted. It's not just the weather that's cold, it's also cold.

3. Sit quietly and think about the past. I still don't understand a lot of things, and not being trusted really makes me feel unhappy. If you can't cope with all the chaos, it's hard to be dignified.

4. When others don’t trust you, don’t blame them for not trusting you enough, but blame yourself for not being able to make them trust you.

5. Some things you think are in the past, but they are still lingering in your mind, popping up from time to time. Lost trust is also difficult to regain.

6. Because I am young, my abilities are often not trusted. He speaks cautiously, and even if he tries to make serious suggestions, he is always ignored. This makes me feel really negative at work sometimes.

7. Public trust cannot be entrusted to people casually, unless the person first proves that he is competent and suitable for the job.

8. Not being trusted, having his character doubted, It feels really chilling. Escape from this environment through your own efforts.

9. We are still too young. Understanding the world comes with blind trust or blind distrust.

10. Trust is the most important thing to me. Once lost, there is no room for it. Don't think about things that you can't figure out. Don't worry about it. It's disgusting things for people.

11. When a woman no longer shares her worries and troubles with you, she no longer trusts you.

12. You give trust to the people you love, but the people who are truly worthy of your trust are those who can still get through difficulties with you when you don't love them enough.

13. If you don’t care, you will feel frustrated if you are not trusted. Not cared about, not trusted, flowing into the chasm. I'm fine, my heart is clean. So sleepy, good night, love yourself.

14. You cannot forgive deception and have zero tolerance for lies. If you are deceived once, you will lose trust completely and forever. However, human nature cannot stand the test. It is really sad to live too transparently.

15. Trust and distrust are just a matter of a thought. If you cheat, my trust in you will be completely destroyed!

16. I have always been suspicious, please forgive me for my distrust, because I am too afraid of being deceived and betrayed.

17. Love has trust and commitment. When trust is there, the promise cannot be made, but when the promise is made, the trust is gone!

18. If you trust me, you don’t need me to say anything, and you don’t need to bother seeking verification. Because your heart will tell you that I don’t bother to do this kind of thing.

19. Our mediocrity seems to be due to the fact that we never dare to face ourselves nakedly and lack lasting care and trust for our inner world.

20. The feeling of not being trusted is that you are trying to do something for him, but he feels that you are doing something sorry for him behind his back.

21. To be a fighter, you must trust yourself when others do not trust others.

22. When others don’t trust you, don’t blame them for not trusting you enough, but blame yourself for not being able to make them trust you.

23. It is said that trust is like a piece of paper. It's wrinkled, and even if it's smoothed out again, there are still traces that can't be erased.

24. There is a kind of beauty called trust, which beautifies people’s hearts, every inconspicuous corner, and the world!

25. I have tried the feeling of being wronged. He does not trust you, so he is always wronged.

26. You have always doubted me, so I will ask you why you have never trusted me. Is there anything wrong?

27. The biggest failure between husband and wife is not being trusted and being doubted! When you feel cold, there is no need to explain too much, as long as you have a clear conscience!

28. We have been together for almost a month, and he has never given me the so-called sense of security. He also said that I don't trust him. Who knows.

29. It is not until we are covered with scars that we realize that our greatest sorrow is mutual distrust.

30. Trust another person unless you can prove that person is not worthy of your trust; you are also entitled to be trusted by another person unless you have been proven not worthy of that person's trust.

31. It’s not that you don’t trust, but that you don’t dare to trust anymore, because all the trust in this life has been spent on you

32. Trust is like a cup of good tea, light but not Astringent, fragrant but not overpowering, drifting slowly and flowing slowly.

33. With a little more trusting eyes and a foot in the pure land of integrity, you can water the most beautiful flowers in life and build an indestructible iron wall in life.

35. The feeling of not being trusted is really terrible, or my family... It’s so bad, I thought I was out of those days, but it turns out that I am still spinning in circles.

36. The biggest reason for a person's failure is that he never fully trusts his own ability, and even thinks that he will definitely fail.

37. You may not be understood or even expected, but you must never doubt yourself.

38. If you really love you, you will be jealous. If you really think about it, you will shed tears. I doubt you, not that I don’t trust you, fool.

39. Trust is so damn important. Once two people don’t trust each other, they can’t live happily ever after.