1, the biggest difference between winners and losers is that winners will try to benefit from failure and try other methods.
China has always had few failed heroes, few tenacious resistance, few soldiers who dare to fight alone and few followers who dare to shout traitors. Seeing signs of victory, they gathered, and seeing signs of failure, they fled.
Have you ever seen an unhappy horse? Or a sad bird? They have no worries, because they don't have to show off in front of their peers.
If you can bravely admit your mistakes, you will certainly benefit from them. Because admitting mistakes can not only win the respect of others, but also increase your self-esteem.
As long as you are sure that what you are doing is right, don't let anything hold you back. All the great achievements in the world are the result of the struggle against the impossible. Whatever the difficulties, it is important to finish the work.
Long-distance love requires that you can tolerate loneliness. This kind of love requires a kind of happy hope, even if it is vague. This is the spiritual pillar that supports your belief in this relationship.
We often have many opportunities, but we seldom find them because we are not prepared. Pay attention to the opportunities around you.
6. calmly analyze the past mistakes, try to benefit from them, and then forget it. This is the only way to make the past constructive.
7. Most of us are either worried about yesterday or tomorrow, but refuse to make good use of today!
A flower can't bloom forever, a grass can't be green forever, and a person's life can't be smooth sailing forever. However, I know that flowers will wither and buds will open; Spring is coming, the grass is yellow, and new buds will sprout; Life's setbacks will soon prop up the sails of progress. Friends, don't let tears linger on your face forever, don't let sadness occupy your heart, and don't let despair stop our progress. Let's look at the world from another angle when we are in pain, and you will feel that the world is so colorful!
8. It's easy to make the world happier. Why? Just say a few words of sincere thanks to lonely and discouraged people. Although you may forget what you said today tomorrow, the receiver may cherish his life.
9. Don't hold a grudge. Don't be afraid to give in when you are in trouble. Villains always insist on their own opinions to safeguard their dignity. People who are willing to take the initiative to reach out and talk to others, admit their mistakes and propose to start over are all open-minded people.
10, as long as you "pretend" to be interested in work, it may arouse your real interest and reduce your burnout, tension and anxiety.
Loving someone is when you suddenly don't know what to say when you dial the phone. So you just want to hear that familiar voice. What you really want to dial is just a string in your heart.
1 1. Don't be unwilling to try your best because you think things are trivial. Accomplishing anything can make people stronger. If you can do the little things well, there will be no problem with the big things.
12, today is life-the only life you really have. Make the most of today! Arouse interest in sth! Cheer up! Cultivate a hobby. Let real passion sweep you. Make today interesting!
13. If we have accepted the worst, there is nothing to lose.
14, a cheerful businessman should have two advantages besides cautious habits: agility and nonconformity.
15, walking towards a certain goal is "ambition", and never stop "gas" in your vigorous efforts. Together, the two are "ambitions." This is the success or failure of all undertakings.
16. If you want to make friends, you must first do something for others-things that require time, energy, consideration and dedication.
17, private property, the law of wealth accumulation and the law of competition are all the highest achievements of human experience, and they are also the soil that has produced the best fruits in society so far.
18, respect other people's opinions. Never say, "You are wrong."
19, to make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, look natural and smile, so that others will have a good impression on you.
20. A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never succeed in big things.
What I do is to set up a cooperative enterprise, and I will manage the business and put our funds together. I promise to give you a 5% return, and then I will take 50% of all the profits!
Carnegie's classic motto
The greatest enemy in life is yourself. That's all that matters. People will always meet some enemies in their life, such as hooligans, rogues and villains. These devil wears Prada is extremely hateful, but what they see through is just a pile of rubbish. Every man is his own worst enemy. If a person can beat himself, he is invincible. I am afraid that I am sick, I am at a loss, I am hesitant, or I overestimate myself, so I am arrogant; Or worship others too much and feel inferior. Once you beat yourself, you will have a leap in your mind and turn over a new page in your life.
1. A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never achieve great things.
If you aim the camera at a person, record all his words and deeds, and then edit them according to your own wishes, anyone may become a good person or a bad person.
If we want to make friends, we should do something for others first-things that need time, effort and dedication.
There is a saying in the world that "time is money", so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it like taboo diseases.
4. Sporadic time can be a complete time if it can be used in time. The so-called "mountains are all piled up" is true. It is easy to lose a day, and there is no way to recover it.
Life is like a stage. If you just tell one thing, you can't move people's hearts.
6. If you can be modest on the road of life, you can be broad-minded, overcome all difficulties and get rid of all entanglements.
7. You may understand the essence of human life-people who do wrong will only blame others and never blame themselves.
Nothing is difficult if you set your mind to it. The right attitude can make your life more calm and comfortable. Of course, the mentality is self-adjusted, and you can give yourself a correct mentality if you want.
8. When a person changes from himself, he is no longer an ordinary person.
9. Besides work, find a sideline that you like as a psychological and spiritual remedy.
10. Use your spare time to find a sideline that you like outside your own industry, and if possible, you must find more. The more sideline businesses, the bigger the circle of friends and the more spiritual pleasure.
1 1. Grasp the present, don't lament the past, and don't worry about the future.
12. The first secret of successful interpersonal communication is: ask the other person for help; The second secret: praise others sincerely; The third secret: try to meet the needs of others.
Make up your mind, overcome all difficulties, work hard and forge ahead. Success must belong to you! Dare to struggle and strive for progress with unremitting efforts; Self-improvement, watering ideals with sweat;
13. If we have accepted the worst, there is nothing to lose.
14. A cheerful businessman should have two advantages besides cautious habits: agility and not following the crowd.
15. If you want to make friends, you must first do something for others-things that require time, effort and dedication.
16. Private property, the law of wealth accumulation and the law of competition are all the highest achievements of human experience and the soil that has produced the best fruits in society so far.
17. The principle of caring for others, like other interpersonal relationships, must be based on sincerity. Not only those who care should do this, but also those who accept care should do the same.
18. Actions speak louder than words. Smiling at people means showing people: "I like you, you make me happy, and I like to see you."
19. Everyone in the world is looking for happiness, but there is only one effective way, and that is to control their own thoughts. Happiness does not depend on external conditions, but on internal conditions.
20. actions seem to follow your feelings, but they are not. Action and emotion are parallel. We can make actions that are directly controlled by the will regular, or indirectly make actions that are not directly controlled by the will regular.
2 1. A simple, obvious and most important way to get a good impression is to remember other people's names and make them feel important.
22. Most people can't remember other people's names just because they don't have the necessary effort and energy to remember them. They make excuses for themselves: they are too busy.
23. People who are always critical, even the fiercest critics, will soften and give in before a patient and compassionate audience.
24. If you want to be a good talker, you must first be a person who pays tribute and listens.
25. The secret of communicating with others is to talk about the happiest things of others.
26. If you want others to like you, if you want others to be interested in you, you should pay attention to one thing: talk about things that others are interested in.
27. In real life, some people have communication barriers because they don't understand and forget an important principle: making others feel important.
28. Today is too precious to be eroded by painful worries and regrets. Lift your chin and let your mind shine, like a mountain spring jumping in the spring. Seize today, and it will never come back.
29. You are young when you have faith, and you are old when you are confused; Self-confidence is young, fear is ancient; Hope is young, despair is ancient; Years may wrinkle your skin, but to give up enthusiasm will hurt your soul.
30. To make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, look natural and smile, so that others will feel like you.
3 1. My motto is: first, honesty; Second, diligence; Third, specialization.
A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never achieve great things.
33. Try to work in a comfortable environment. Remember, physical stress can cause shoulder pain and mental fatigue.
You can overcome any fear as long as you make up your mind. Remember, fear only exists in people's hearts.
35. The deepest driving force in human nature is the importance of hope. Treat others as you want them to treat you.
The road of life depends on walking step by step. What can really protect you is your own choice. What really hurts you is also your choice. It is not fate that determines life, but every choice you make.
36. When the opportunity is presented to us, if we can firmly grasp it, nine times out of ten we will succeed, and those who look for opportunities for themselves will win 100%.
37. Real reading awakens the sleepy and chooses the right target for the hesitant. Appropriate books guide people to the right path and prevent them from going astray.
If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that require time, effort and dedication.
39. As long as you forget yourself, you can be natural, and you don't have to worry about giving others any impression!
For an experienced principal, the center of his concern and concern is the class. Experience has proved that attending lectures and analyzing classes are extremely important tasks for principals. (Advice to Teachers, p. 427)
To make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, look natural and smile, so that others will feel like you. Carnegie
40.take a risk! Life is an adventure, and the most successful people are those who dare to try. AXA can't sail offshore.
Carnegie's inspiring motto
1. If you want to succeed, you must meet the following conditions: enhance your enthusiasm with desire, smooth the mountain with perseverance, and believe that you will succeed.
Don't forget that happiness doesn't depend on who you are or what you have, it comes entirely from your thoughts. Your future depends largely on what you think today. So, fill your heart with hope, confidence, true love and successful thoughts.
3, secular time is money, so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it as a taboo disease.
The best way to forgive the enemy and leave it behind is to turn to thinking beyond us. When we are obsessed with the pursuit of ideals, all other humiliations are nothing.
A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never succeed in big things.
6. Secular time is money, so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it as a taboo disease.
7. You can understand the essence of human life. People who do wrong will only blame others and never blame themselves.
8. Private property, the law of wealth accumulation and the law of competition are all the highest achievements of human experience, and they are also the soil that has produced the best fruits in society so far.
9. Don't hold a grudge. Don't be afraid to give in when you are in trouble. Villains always insist on their own opinions to safeguard their dignity. People who are willing to take the initiative to reach out and talk to others, admit their mistakes and propose to start over are all open-minded people.
10, my motto is: first, honesty, second, diligence, and third, concentration on work.
1 1. It's easy to make the world happier. Why? Just say a few words of sincere thanks to lonely and discouraged people. Although you may forget what you said today tomorrow, the receiver may cherish his life.
12, today is too precious to be eroded by bitter worries and bitter regrets. Lift your chin and let your mind shine, like a mountain spring jumping in the spring. Seize today, and it will never come back.
13, we often have many opportunities, but because we are not prepared, we seldom find these opportunities. Pay attention to the opportunities around you.
14, nothing consumes more energy than hatred, and even pain, illness and legitimate troubles are far behind. Therefore, once hatred sneaks into our hearts, we should immediately replace it with joyful thoughts, and save the precious energy that God has given us and use it for valuable things.
15, young when you have faith, old when you are confused; Self-confidence is young, fear is ancient; Hope is young, despair is ancient; Years may wrinkle your skin, but to give up enthusiasm will hurt your soul.
16, judgment plus ambition, vitality as seasoning, this is a successful and exquisite recipe.
17. As long as you are really interested in people, you will make many friends in two months, definitely more than you want to attract others' attention in two years. In other words, another way to make friends is to make friends with others first.
18. Most people can't remember other people's names just because they don't have the necessary effort and energy to remember them. They make excuses for themselves: they are too busy.
19, have you ever seen an unhappy horse? Or a sad bird? They have no worries, because they don't have to show off in front of their peers.
20. Do you know what is the most important characteristic of human beings? Not executive ability, great mind, kindness, courage or sense of humor, although these are all important.
2 1, most of us are either worried about yesterday or worried about tomorrow, but refuse to grasp today!
22. Nothing can bring you peace except yourself.
23. Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% must be tolerant of interpersonal relationships and external skills. Soft and hard are relative. Professional skills are hard skills, and communicative skills that are good at dealing with interpersonal relationships are soft skills.
24. A person who works hard on the road of struggle, if he doesn't divide the steps clearly, is equivalent to traveling to a place, without specifying his sleep and itinerary first. It is important to distinguish the steps.
25. People who are willing to take responsibility are more likely to stand out than others, no matter where they are. Open your arms and meet your responsibilities! Responsible for small things, responsible for big things, success must belong to you.
26. A cheerful businessman should have two advantages besides cautious habits: agility and not following the crowd.
27. Life is like a stage. If you just describe one thing, you can't move people's hearts.
As long as you are sure that what you are doing is right, don't let anything hold you back. The great achievements in the world are the result of confrontation. Whatever the difficulties, it is important to finish the work.
29. Everyone in the world is looking for happiness, but there is only one really effective way, and that is to control their own thoughts. Happiness does not depend on external conditions, but depends on internal conditions.
As long as you don't think it is impossible, you won't be defeated.
3 1. People who are always critical, even the fiercest critics, will soften and give in before a patient and compassionate audience.
32, can make a person laugh, you have paved the way for friendship with him. People who laugh with you like you more or less.
Grasp the present, don't mourn the past, and don't worry about the future.
34, in the face of seemingly huge blow, don't escape. You will be surprised to find that fear is disappearing.
If you can bravely admit your mistake, you will certainly benefit from it. Because admitting mistakes can not only win the respect of others, but also increase your self-esteem.
Respect the opinions of others. Never say: you are wrong.
Analyze the past mistakes calmly, try to benefit from them, and then forget about them. This is the only way to make the past constructive.
If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others that requires time, energy, care and dedication.
39. When a person changes from himself, he is no longer an ordinary person.
40. My motto is: first of all, honesty; Second, diligence; Third, specialization.
4 1, as long as you make up your mind, you will be able to overcome any fear. Remember, fear only exists in people's hearts.
42. If you want to improve yourself, you must make special efforts and pay extra. At that time, it may not be a pleasant thing, or even an arduous job, but in the long run, it is bound to gain something.
43. If you want to make friends, remember them first! If you remember my name, it is equivalent to giving me a compliment, indicating that I have left an impression in your heart. You remember my name, which makes me feel important.
44. Try to work in a comfortable environment. Remember, physical stress can cause shoulder pain and mental fatigue.
45. Try to understand others instead of scolding them; Try to put yourself in their shoes and think about why they did it. This is much more beneficial and interesting than criticism, which makes people feel sympathy, patience and kindness.
46. Use your spare time to find a favorite sideline outside your own industry, and find more if possible. The more sideline businesses, the bigger the circle of friends and the more spiritual pleasure.
47. Today is too precious to be eroded by painful worries and regrets. Lift your chin and let your mind shine, like a mountain spring jumping in the spring. Seize today, and it will never come back.
48. If you can be modest on the road of life, you can be broad-minded, overcome all difficulties and get rid of all entanglements.
49. Besides work, find a sideline that you like as a psychological and spiritual remedy.
50. Real reading awakens the sleepy and chooses the right target for the hesitant. Appropriate books guide people to the right path and prevent them from going astray.
5 1, the secret of communicating with others is to talk about the happiest things of others.
52. Today is so precious that it is not worth wasting for painful troubles and regrets. Keep your chin up and keep an open mind, just like the sparkling water in spring. Seize today, because it is gone forever.
53. It is ambition to move towards a certain goal and never stop breathing halfway. Together, the two are ambitions. This is the success or failure of all undertakings.
54. To make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, look natural and smile, so that others will feel like you.
55. Personally, I think it is important to make friends. In the final analysis, it is actually the ability to appreciate the advantages of others.
56. Are you worried? Walking is the best medicine. Take a walk with your troubles, they will probably fly away!
57. The deepest driving force in human nature is the importance of hope. Treat others as you want them to treat you.
58. One of the most effective ways to win friendship and influence others is to take others' ideas seriously and make them feel important.
59. You want to cultivate courage and do more things you are afraid of until you have accumulated a lot of successful experience. This is the fastest and most effective way to overcome fear at present.
60. Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and external skills. Soft and hard are relative. Professional skills are hard skills and interpersonal skills are soft skills.
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