1. Many things in life are often not changed according to people’s wishes. I used to think that those misfortunes were just the pain in other people’s lives, and all misfortunes would always be far away from the relatives around me. But in fact, we cannot predict what the road ahead will be like, and the pain of life is also wandering around us inadvertently, and it is not easy to be diverted by our will.
2. If you are in a bad mood, listen to less sad songs. When you are hungry, find food by yourself. If you are afraid of the dark, turn on the light. If you want, just make money and buy it. Even if life gives you all kinds of obstacles, you can still do it. There is no need to use pretense to magnify your own difficulties. The reality is so cruel. How can you pretend to be innocent? Don't pay too much attention to things that you can't change. Try to learn to give up if you can't keep people. Try your best to heal yourself if your heart is hurt. Except for life and death, it's all trivial. Don't embarrass yourself.
3. Life is not easy. There is no need to crave for the understanding and recognition of others in everything, and live your own life quietly. If the heart does not move, the wind will not do anything. If you are not injured, the years will be fine.
4. Life is not easy, don’t laugh at others. Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite, and everyone has songs that are difficult to sing. No matter how beautiful a person is, there is still bitterness behind him; no matter how happy a person is, there is helplessness and difficulty in his heart. No one’s life is easy. Smiling at others means laughing at yourself. Respecting others means respecting yourself. The poorest people are just begging for food, and those who don't die will always come forward. Whose life is perfect, whose life is not miserable, who can guarantee that they will always be happy in life.
5. The old saying goes: "Easy has three trainings. The first training is simple, the second training is easy, and the third training is not easy." We live in common sense, "spring is warm and flowers are blooming" and "autumn is refreshing". We use them without thinking because of simplicity; the same thing has different manifestations at different times and has endless changes, which is because of change; common sense comes from life and is long-lasting and applicable. It’s not easy. Therefore, Zhuangzi said: "The way lies in defecation." Because of common sense, we are calm in life.
6. In the vast sea of ????people, if you can find someone you like and love each other, it is not easy, but it is also such a great honor. Maybe everything is not what you think, not so perfect, maybe without you As good as your imagination is, it shouldn't be that bad. Life is not that beautiful. All happiness should be appreciated and cherished. Say more words of care and less words of blame. People need to understand each other. The same goes for lovers.
7. People must live authentically. This is a challenge. Although it is not easy to embrace that truth. Smiling may not mean you are happy; nodding your head may not mean you are satisfied. We are willing to sacrifice honesty to create a perceived ease. We cannot transcend the worldly past; we cannot bear to slow down the heavy material burdens. We will use arrogance to cover up the humbleness of our hearts, and use brutality to cover up the fragility of our will. Unknowingly, actions are judged as true meaning. Whether casually or intentionally. Therefore, there is a sense of defeat in our lives, probably due to the troubled soul. In fact, it's just because we don't live life as it is, and we don't live it in a real way.