Love is all memories

Pain will disappear,

Only true love will stay in your heart forever.

When my father talks to me, he always starts by saying: "Have I told you today how much I love you?" From this sentence, I can deeply appreciate it. I feel my father's love for me. As the years go by, my father has entered old age and his physical strength is not as good as before.

However, the relationship between our father and daughter is getting deeper day by day.

At the age of 82, he was mentally prepared to let go, and I also wanted him to get rid of the pain as soon as possible. We

clasped each other's hands and said goodbye to each other with a smile, but our eyes could not help but be filled with tears. I said: "Dad, after you leave, I hope to receive a message from you to report that you are safe." He laughed and said that my idea was ridiculous, because Dad does not believe in reincarnation in the world.

< p>Reincarnation, in fact, I don’t really believe in ghosts and gods, but many of my personal experiences make me have to doubt that people on the “other side” can be connected with us.

The so-called connection between father and daughter, when my father passed away, I could feel the moment of his heart attack in my chest. What makes me most regretful is that due to certain hospital regulations, I couldn't hold his hand when he took his last breath.

After my father left, I prayed every day to hear his voice, and every night I hoped that he would fall asleep, but there was still no news;

For 4 months , all I heard were condolences from relatives and friends. My mother died of Alzheimer's disease 5 years ago. Having lost both my parents, even though I am over middle age, I still feel as helpless as a child.

One day, I hid in a dark and quiet room waiting for the master to come and give me a massage. A feeling of missing my father filled my chest again

and I began to doubt whether I Looking forward too eagerly to hear his voice. Suddenly, I found that my consciousness was extremely sharp and my mind was surprisingly clear. Even if I was given a long list of numbers, I could add and subtract them freely. At first, I doubted myself. I was in a dream, but I later confirmed that this feeling was 100% real. The originally chaotic thoughts in my mind were like water droplets disturbing the still lake, but now they were unusually calm. I was surprised by this change in my heart, which made

I realize : Maybe I shouldn’t be so insistent on getting information about my father.

In an instant, I saw my mother's face in the darkness - her plump and loving face before she fell ill: she still had white hair and her face was still full of love. With a smile. The image of my mother is so real and vivid, it seems that I can reach out and touch it. She looked the same as before, and I even smelled her favorite Joy perfume. She stood quietly in front of me, saying nothing. I was a little confused as to why I was thinking of my father, but my mother appeared. At the same time, I also felt a little guilty for not thinking of my mother for a long time.

I said: "Mom, the illness in your later years made you suffer."

My mother gently turned her head to the side, as if to express her understanding of my thoughts. She gave me a beautiful smile, and then she said clearly: "But love is all my memories." After that, she disappeared without a trace.

There was a sudden chill in the room, which made me shiver. At this time, I deeply felt that the most important thing is that we have cared for each other; the pain will disappear, but only true love will stay in our hearts forever.

My mother’s words awakened me. To this day, I still can’t forget the moment I met her.

Although I have never heard from my father, I firmly believe that one day, he will appear in front of me unexpectedly and say again: "I told you today how much I Love you?"

(Barbie Brostein)

True love

God! A hunchbacked woman will be a tragedy. Please give me the hunchback and leave your beauty to my bride.

Messi Mendelssohn is the grandfather of the famous German composer.

His appearance is extremely ordinary. In addition to his short stature, he is also a weird and ridiculous hunchback.

One day, he went to Hamburg to visit a businessman. The businessman had a beloved daughter named Fossey. Xi rejected him because of his deformed appearance.

When the time came to leave, Murthy mustered up all his courage and went upstairs to Fossey's room for one last chance to speak to her

. She had an angelic face, but to his great dismay, Fossey refused to look at him. After many attempts at communication, he shyly asked: "Do you believe that your marriage is destined to happen?"

She stared at the floor and answered, "I believe it." Then he asked him: "Do you believe it?"

He replied: "I heard that before every boy is born, God will tell him which girl he will marry in the future.

< p>Child. When I was born, my future bride was promised to me, and God also told me that my bride was a hunchback.

"I begged God: 'Oh God! A hunchbacked woman will be a tragedy, please give me the hunchback, and then leave your beauty to my bride. '"

At that time, Fossey looked into Mexico's eyes and was disturbed by some memories deep in her heart. She stretched out her hand to him, and then became his last Beloved wife.

(Bailey and Joice Wiesel)

Hugs Judge

Make a little difference in someone else's life, a little light is How simple!

Li Xiapuluo is a retired judge. He is very loving by nature. Throughout his life, he always takes love as the premise.

Because he understands that love is. The greatest strength. So he always hugged others. His college classmates gave him the nickname "The Hugger". Even the bumper of his car read: "Leave me alone!" hug me! "

About six years ago, he invented what he calls a "hug device." It says on the outside: "A heart for a hug." ”

It contains 30 embroidered red hearts that can be attached to the back. He often brings his “hug equipment” to the crowd and gives a

red heart in exchange for a hug.

Li became famous because of this, so many people invited him to speak at relevant conferences or conferences; he always shared

the concept of "unconditional love" with others. . Once, at a conference in Los Angeles, a local tabloid challenged him: "Of course it's easy to hug people who are attending a conference because they choose to be there, but this is what happens in real life." It doesn't make sense

. "

They asked Li if he could hug passers-by on the streets of Los Angeles. A large number of TV crews followed Li to the streets

to visit. First, Li greeted the women passing by: "Hi ! My name is Li Xiapu, and everyone calls me ‘Hug Judge’.

Can I exchange this love for a hug with you? "The woman readily agreed, but the local news commentator thought it was too simple. Li looked around and saw a female traffic policeman issuing a ticket to the owner of a BMW. Li Congrong< /p>

He walked forward without haste, all the cameras following closely, and then said: "You look like you need a hug,"

I'm the 'Hug Judge'. , you can give a free hug. "The policewoman accepted.

The TV current affairs commentator had the final problem: "Look, a bus is coming over there.

Los Angeles bus drivers are known to be the most difficult, whiny and bad-tempered. Let's see if you can get a

hug from the driver? "Li accepted the challenge.

When the bus stopped at the roadside, Li talked to the driver: "Hi! I am Judge Li, and people call me ‘Judge Hug

. Driving is a stressful job! I want to hug a few people today so they can take a load off their shoulders and get back to work.

Do you need a hug? "The 6-foot-2, 230-pound bus driver got out of his seat, stepped out of the car, and said happily: "Okay! "

Li hugged him, gave him a red heart, and said goodbye as he watched the car leave. All the interviewing staff were

speechless. In the end, The commentator had to admit that he gave in.

One day, Lee's friend Nancy Jenston came to visit him. She was a professional clown, dressed in a clown costume and painted small.

Ugly facial makeup.

She invited Li to take the "hug equipment" with her to visit her friends there.

After they arrived, they started distributing it. Balloons, hats, red hearts, and hugging the patients there. Li felt very sad because he had never hugged a dying patient, a person with severe mental retardation, or a person with quadriplegia. It was very reluctant at first, but< /p>

After a while, Nancy and Li felt much easier after being encouraged by the doctors and nurses.

A few hours later, they finally arrived at the last ward. When Li saw the 34 worst patients he had ever seen in his life, his emotions suddenly became very complicated. Their mission was to spread love and light up the disease.

The light in people's hearts, so Li and Nanxi began to spread joy. At this time, the whole room was filled with inspired medical staff.

They all had little red hearts on their collars. Wearing a cute balloon hat, Li finally came to the last patient, Leo Nader, who was wearing a white bib and drooling. When Li saw him drooling, he said to Nancy: "Let's jump over and leave him alone! "Nancy replied: "But

He is also one of us! "Then she put the funny balloon hat on Leo's head. Li posted a small red card with his heart on his bib. He took a deep breath, bent down and hugged Leo.

Suddenly, Leo started laughing, and the other patients also started to make the room jingle. Li turned around and thought about it

When he asked the medical staff what was going on, he just realized. All the doctors and nurses were crying with joy. Li had no choice but to ask the head nurse what happened.

Li will never forget her answer: "This is the first time in 23 years. Seeing Leo smiled. ”

How simple it is to make a little difference and a little light in someone else’s life!

(Jack Canfield, Mark Hansen)

I am important

Those who respect others will also be respected by others. Just like standing in front of a mirror, he will be angry when you are angry, and he will laugh when you laugh.

A teacher in New York decided to express appreciation for her students by telling them how important they were.

She decided to use a technique I advocate. That is to call the students to the podium one by one, and then tell everyone how important this classmate is to the entire class and to her, and then give each student a blue ribbon with gold letters written on it. With: "I am

important. ”

Then the teacher wanted to do a research project for the class to see what kind of impact such an action would have on a community. She gave each student 3 Ribbon pins, teach them to go out and give others the same thank you ceremony, and then observe

the results and report back to the class a week later.

A boy in the class arrives. A neighboring company went to see a young supervisor who had coached him on his life plan.

The boy pinned a blue ribbon to his shirt and gave him two more. pin, and then explained, "We

we are doing a study. We must go out and give blue ribbons to the people we appreciate and respect, and then give you extra pins,

Allow them to perform the same ritual of thanksgiving to others. Please tell me next time what the results are. ”

A few days later, the young executive went to see his boss.

In some ways, his boss was an irritable and difficult colleague, but he was extremely talented. He told his boss that he admired his creative talent, and the boss was very surprised.

The young supervisor then asked him to accept the blue ribbon and allowed him to pin it on for him. The boss, who looked surprised, readily agreed

.

The young man pinned the ribbon on the boss's coat, just above his heart, gave him the remaining pin, and then asked him: "Can you help?" My favor? Give this ribbon to the person you are thanking. It was given to me by a boy who is doing a study. We want to keep this thank you ceremony going. Let's see what kind of effect it will have on everyone."

That night, the boss returned home, sat next to his 14-year-old son, and told him: "Today. An incredible thing happened

When I was in the office, a young colleague told me that he admired my creative talent very much and gave me a blue one as a gift. Ribbons. Come to think of it, he thought my creative talents were so respectable that he put an 'I'm important' ribbon on my jacket and gave me an extra pin. , so that I can give it to the person I respect.

When I drove home tonight, I started thinking about who to give the pin to. I thought of you, you are the one I want to thank?

“These days, I haven’t spent much energy taking care of you or spending time with you when I returned home. I feel really ashamed.

Sometimes I will yell at you because your academic performance is not good enough and the room is too messy. But tonight, I just want to sit here

and let you know how much you mean to me and that, besides your mom, you are the most important person in my life. Good boy,

I love you. "

His child was very surprised when he heard this. He began to sob and sob, and finally cried uncontrollably and his body kept shaking. He

looked at his father and said with tears streaming down his face: " Dad, I originally planned to commit suicide tomorrow. I thought you didn't love me at all. Now

I think that is no longer necessary. ”

Gift

Love never grows old. What it retains is the eternal flame and immortal brilliance. The existence of the world depends on it as nourishment.

——Zola

This touching story happened on a bus, which was lurching along a remote road in the south.

There were some passengers in the car. A thin old man was holding a bouquet of flowers in his hand. When the car passed the church, a young girl got up and looked at the old man's flowers intently.

When the old man was about to get off the car. , he suddenly impulsively pushed the flowers in his hand into the girl's arms. He quickly explained: "I can see that you like this bouquet of flowers very much, and I think my wife will also be very happy. You own this bouquet. I will tell her that I gave you the flowers. "

After the girl accepted the bouquet of flowers, she watched the old man get out of the car and watched him slowly walk to the door of a small cemetery.

Brother's wish

People should put themselves in their shoes, not those who are happier than us, but only those who are more deserving of sympathy than us

- Rousseau

At Christmas, Paul's brother gave him a new car. On Christmas Day, when Paul left the office, a boy walked around the shiny new car and asked in admiration: " Sir, is this your car? "

Paul nodded: "This is a Christmas gift from my brother. The boy looked surprised and said hesitantly:

"You mean this is a gift from your brother and it didn't cost you half a cent?" I really hope to..."

Of course Paul thought he hoped to have an older brother who would give him the car, but what the boy said shocked Paul.

" I wish I could be the older brother who gives a car to his younger brother. "The boy continued.

Paul looked at the boy in astonishment and blurted out an invitation: "Do you want to take a ride in my car?"

The boy happily got into the car and drove around. After driving for a short distance, the child said with excitement in his eyes: "Sir,

Can you drive the car to my door?"

Paul smiled, thinking that The boy must have wanted to show off to his neighbors that he was riding home in a big car.

Unexpectedly, Paul guessed wrong again this time. "Can you park the car in front of those two steps?" the boy asked.

The boy ran up the stairs, and after a while Paul heard his voice coming back, but his movements seemed a little slow. It turned out that he came out with his lame brother, placed him on the steps, held him tightly, and pointed to the new car.

Just listen to the boy telling his younger brother: "Look, this is the new car I just told you upstairs. This is Paul

His brother gave it to him! I will also give you a car like this in the future, and then you can look at those beautiful Christmas ornaments hanging in the window."

Paul. He got out of the car and carried the lame boy to the front seat of the car. The big boy with shining eyes also climbed into the car and sat next to his younger brother. And so the three of them embarked on an unforgettable holiday ride.

On that Christmas Eve, Paul truly understood what Jesus said: "It is more blessed to give than to receive."

(Dan Clark)

Courage

As long as life and death can be reconciled, even pain becomes joy.

——Romain Rolland

"You think I am brave?" she asked.

"Yes, you are very courageous."

"If I have some courage, it is because I have been enlightened by several good teachers. I can give you one Listen.

Years ago, when I was working as a volunteer at Stamford Hospital, I met a little girl named Lisa who suffered from a serious illness.

The condition was very rare. The only chance to save her life is to receive a blood transfusion from her five-year-old brother, because her brother also suffered from the disease and was miraculously saved. Now his body has produced a blood transfusion that can fight the virus. Antibodies. The doctor explained the situation to the little boy and asked him if he was willing to give blood to his sister. I saw that he only hesitated for half a second and took a deep breath.

He said: 'If I can save Lisa, I will.'"

"During the blood transfusion, he lay quietly next to his sister and couldn't help but smile when he saw her sister's cheeks were rosy again.

But then he put away his smile, looked at the doctor with a pale face, and asked in a trembling voice: 'Will I die soon

'"

"It turned out that he was too young and misunderstood the doctor's meaning and thought he wanted to give all his blood to his sister."

"Yes, I learned what courage is," she added : "Because I saw a role model."

(Dan Millman)

Speak out your love

Who doesn't know how to love? You can't understand life.

——Gorky

Once I was invited to go to another place to deliver a speech on efficient management. On the night of arrival, several people from the organizer invited me to dinner and talked about who would be attending the speech tomorrow.

Ed is obviously the leader of these people. He is very big and has a very deep voice. He told me that he was the manager of a large international company. His main responsibility was to go to some branches to deal with the more difficult personnel issues within the company, and to terminate some senior executives. employment.

"Joe," he said, "I'm really looking forward to tomorrow's speech, because after these people listen to your advice, they will

know that my management style is correct. ." He smiled proudly at me.

I smiled and said nothing, because I knew that tomorrow's situation would definitely be very different from what he imagined.

The next day, Ed listened to the entire speech with a dull expression, and then left the venue without saying a word.

Three years later, I returned to deliver another management talk to the same audience, where I

discovered Ed again. Just before the speech was about to begin, he suddenly stood up and asked me at the top of his lungs: "Qiao, can I say a few words first?" I joked: "Of course, you are so tall and tall, you can say as much as you like, and I dare not stop you."

Ed then spoke: "Everyone here knows me, and some of them also know Today I want to share my personal experience with you about my recent changes. Joe, I believe my words will make you feel happy."

"Three years ago. In a speech, Joe once said that if you want to cultivate a strong will, you should first learn to say "I love you" to the people closest to you. At first, I didn't think so. What does the disgusting words have to do with perseverance? Joe said perseverance is different from hardness. Toughness is like leather, hardness is like granite, and a person with a strong will is different. People should be open-minded, unyielding, self-disciplined in behavior, and flexible in work. I agree with these words, but what does this have to do with love? "

"That night, my wife and I The two of them sat at opposite ends of the living room, still thinking about Joe's words. Suddenly I found that I couldn't muster the courage to express my love to my wife. I cleared my throat several times, but the words came. I only made some vague sounds on my lips, and swallowed the rest. My wife raised her head and asked me what I had just muttered, and I replied casually. It's okay. Suddenly, I stood up and walked towards her, nervously took the newspaper away from her hand, and said: 'Alice, I love you' her. She couldn't speak for a while, and tears welled up in her eyes. At this time, she said softly: "Ed, I love you too. This is the first time you have spoken about love in 25 years." Me. '"

"We were deeply moved and realized that love can resolve all disputes and frictions. Suddenly, I felt inspired and immediately moved. The call was to my eldest son in New York. We had not contacted him for a long time. As soon as I heard his voice, I blurted out: 'Son, maybe you think I am drunk, but I am sober now. I just wanted to call you to tell you that I love you.'"

"He was silent for a moment on the other end of the phone, and then said calmly: 'Dad, I know you love me. I'm so happy to

hear you tell me personally that I also want to tell you that I love you.'"

We started chatting and had a great time. Then I called my younger son in San Francisco and told him the same thing. As a result, father and son talked for a long time. I had never had that warm feeling before.

"That night I lay in bed and meditated, and finally realized the deeper meaning of what Joe said: If I could

truly understand the meaning of treating others with love, The meaning and practice will definitely have a positive impact on my management style."

"I started reading books on related topics and learned many people's valuable experiences, which made me understand this system better.

Philosophy can be applied to all aspects of life, whether it is family or work. ”

“Some of you know that I have completely changed the way I deal with people. I began to listen carefully to other people's ideas;

I learned to appreciate more the strengths of others and care less about their shortcomings; I also experienced the joy of helping others build confidence

. But most importantly, I now understand that the best way to respect others is to encourage them to use their abilities to achieve the goals of our collective efforts. ”

"Qiao, I would like to take this opportunity today to say thank you. By the way, I am now the deputy director of the company

and my leadership skills are well recognized.

Okay, everyone, listen to his speech attentively now! ”

(Joe Beton)

One More Praise

The more people want each other, the more they want to give each other... the more they will be... Intimate.

A few days ago, a friend and I took a taxi in New York. When we got off, my friend said to the driver: "Thank you, your ride was very comfortable." The driver was stunned for a moment, and then said, "Are you a gangster?" ”

“No, Mr. Driver, I am not looking for your happiness. I admire you for being able to keep your composure in the traffic chaos.” "

"Yes! "After the driver finished speaking, he drove away.

"Why did you say that? "I asked in confusion.

"I want to make New York more humane," he replied. "Only in this way can this city be saved." "

"How can you do it on your own? "

"I'm just taking the lead. I believe that a small compliment can make the driver feel happy all day long. If he

carried 20 passengers today, he would be kind to these 20 passengers, and these passengers were offended by the driver. The infection will also

be kind to the people around you. Calculated this way, my good intentions can be indirectly conveyed to more than 1,000 people, not bad, right? "

"But how can you hope that the taxi driver will do what you want? "

"I don't want him," the friend replied: "I know that this kind of approach is rare, so I try my best to be kind to others and praise others as much as possible. Even if the success rate in one day is only 30%, it can still affect as many as 3,000 people. "

"I admit that this theory sounds very good, but how effective is it? "

"Even if it doesn't work, I have nothing to lose! It didn't take me a few seconds to praise the driver, and he wouldn't take a few bucks less in tip. If that person is indifferent, then no problem, I can still praise another taxi driver tomorrow! "

"I think your brain is a little naive and sick. "

"It can be seen from this that you are becoming more and more indifferent. I once surveyed post office employees, and what frustrated them most was not only the meager salary

but also the lack of recognition of their work from others. ”

“But their service is really bad!” ”

“That’s because they feel no one cares about the quality of their service. Why don't we give them more encouragement? "

We were walking and chatting, passing by a construction site, where five workers were having lunch. My friend stopped and said, "This building is very well built. , your work must be very dangerous and hard, right? "The workers looked at my friend with suspicious eyes

.

"When will the project be completed? "My friend continued to ask.

"June. "A worker responded in a low voice.

"You must be very proud of such outstanding results. ”

After leaving the construction site, I said to him: “People like you can also be listed as endangered animals.” "

"These people may work more energetically because of my words. Isn't this a good thing for all people?

"

"But what's the use of relying on you alone? You are just a commoner. ”

“I often tell myself that I must not be discouraged. Making this society more compassionate is not a simple matter. If I can influence

just one, and if I can influence two, then two. ..."

"The woman who just passed by was mediocre in appearance, and you still smiled at her? "I interrupted and asked.

"Yes! I know," he replied, "if she were a teacher, I think everyone who takes her class today would be like a spring breeze.

”

(Yate Boqihua)

Last Wish

Silent pure innocence often touches people’s hearts more than words.

——Shakespeare

A 26-year-old mother stared at her dying son suffering from hemophilia. Although her heart was filled with sadness, she was also determined, just like other parents, that she wanted her son to grow up and realize all his dreams. Now

all this is impossible, because the disease will always haunt him. Even so, she still hopes that her son's dream can come true.

She held her son's hand and asked: "Baby Xi, have you ever thought about what you want to do when you grow up? What dreams do you have for your life?

"?"

"Mommy, I have always wanted to be a firefighter when I grow up."

My mother suppressed her sadness and said with a smile, "Let me see if I can." Make your wish come true." Later that day, she went to the local fire department in Phoenix, Arizona, and found firefighter Bob, who had a big heart. The mother explained to him her son's dying wish and asked if she could let him ride around the corner in a fire truck.

Bob said: "Not only that, we can do better. If you bring your son here at 7 o'clock on Wednesday morning, we will let him Be an honorary firefighter for a whole day. He can come to the fire station, eat with us, and go on duty together. By the way, if you give me his size, we can order it for him. Make a real fire helmet

and attach a real fire hat, not a toy hat, with the Phoenix Fire Department badge on it, the one we wear

Yellow waterproof jackets and rubber boots. These are made in Phoenix, so they can be obtained quickly." Three days later, firefighter Bob took Barbsy and helped him put on the firefighting clothes. uniform, escorting him from the hospital bed to the fire truck. Bobsy had to sit upright in the back of the car while Bob led him back to the fire station, and he felt like he was in heaven.

There were three fire alarms in Phoenix that day, and Babsy was on duty every time. He rides in different fire trucks, ambulances, and even the fire chief's car. He also made videos for local news shows.

Baby Xi was deeply moved by the dream come true and all the love and care given to him. He lived 3 months longer than the doctors expected

.

One night, all his vital signs began to decline sharply, and the head nurse hurriedly called his family members to come to the hospital.

Then she remembered that Babsy had been a firefighter, so she called the fire chief and asked him if he could send a

uniformed firefighter to the hospital. , stayed with Barbsy before he died. The captain replied: "We can do better. We'll be there in five minutes. Can you do me a favor? When you hear the sirens and see the lights flashing, please notify the hospital.

This is not a real fire alarm, this is just the last time the fire brigade came to see their good friend. Please open the window of his room,

Thank you.”

About 5 minutes later, a fire truck arrived at the hospital and extended the ladder to the third-floor window of Barb West. 14 firefighters and 2 female firefighters climbed up the ladder and entered Barb West. room. With his mother's permission, they hugged him, held his hands, and told him how much they loved him.

Before he took his last breath, Barbsy looked at the fire captain and said, "Captain, can I be considered a real firefighter now?"

< p> "Forget it! Barbersy." said the captain.

With those words, Barbsy smiled and closed her eyes.

(Jack Canfield, Mark Hansen)