1. I don’t argue with anyone, and I don’t care to argue with anyone; I love nature, followed by art; I bake my hands with the fire of life to keep warm; when the fire dies, I am ready to leave. ——Rand's "Life and Death"

It expresses a calm, positive and optimistic attitude towards life and a tranquil and indifferent state of life washed away by all the glory.

2. Treat other people’s comments as insignificant. ——Warren Buffett, "Barron's"

Only by being able to stay calm and stay indifferent, can you have peace of mind, feel content, be optimistic and enterprising, and look at life with a smile.

3. Others laugh at me for being too crazy, but I laugh at others because they can’t see through it. There are no tombs of heroes in Wuling, and there are no flowers, no wine, and fields being cultivated. ——"Peach Blossom Temple" by Tang Yin of the Ming Dynasty

Vernacular translation: Others laugh at me for being crazy, but I laugh at others for not being able to see through the world. Don't you see, even though those heroes were once brilliant? Nowadays, the tombs no longer exist and can only be used as farming fields.

Tang Yin once won the Jieyuan Award, but was later implicated in a fraud case in the examination room, and his rank was dismissed. In the long-term training of life, he saw through the illusion of fame and wealth, and believed that fame and wealth were obtained at the expense of freedom. It couldn't last long, so he decided not to be an official, so he sold paintings to make a living, living a leisurely life with flowers as friends and wine as friends.

4. In an era when the body is not understood by clothes, who has the courage to walk naked through the street like a madman and show off his shocking scars? When a madman walks naked through the street, the wounds on his body bloom like flowers. , our invisible hands instinctively cover ourselves. ——Zhao Siyun "A Madman Walks Through the Street"

Being a man requires having your own opinion. You must not be blinded by things around you. You must learn to be yourself and not be disturbed by others.

5. Don’t be surprised by favor or disgrace, watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court; have no intention of leaving or leaving, watch the clouds roll and relax in the sky. ——Ming Dynasty Chen Jiru's "Notes on a Quiet Window"

Vernacular translation: Only when one can regard favors and disgraces as normal as flowers blooming and falling, can one not be surprised; only when one can treat one's position as changing as clouds and clouds, can one not be surprised. .

Loss is a kind of psychological imbalance, which naturally depends on the spiritual phenomenon of loss; frustration is a psychological tilt, the emotional and profound feeling of loss; loss of ambition is a kind of psychological failure, which is Complete decadence is the ultimate expression of loss and frustration. To overcome this kind of loss, frustration, and ambition, we need to remain calm and careless.