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Wang Da has become a big star in our class. He was really bragging before, but now he is really awesome.

At the breakup dinner of his graduation year, most of Wang's feet were on the chair. He said: "Jack Ma is his cousin and Chen Ou is his childhood friend. He can choose whatever company he wants. Half a year after graduation, Buy a car as proof."

What a pity!

The joke he made is still ringing in his ears. Half a year later, he bought a high-end bicycle and promised to ride with celebrities. Xing's story added a new laughing stock to himself.

Everyone finally understood that Jack Ma, Chen Oufeng and other real and fake celebrities were not his real relatives. He just bombarded people with private messages on Weibo and then left with them. Entering the vast sea of ??old people, the star didn't even look at him.

In addition to the obvious flaw that Wang Da loves to blow off, he also has an obvious lack of heart.

It is said that after graduation, he found a job in a foreign company. He always tried his best to get into various circles of the company, and after flattering him, he paid the bills.

He likes to hang out in amateur groups with various interests, such as dating conferences, Internet conferences, publishing exchange conferences, and even government training conferences. He constantly welcomes and sends some people to his city. Such and such friends, eating and playing with us, paying the bills.

At the class reunion, some people would sarcastically say: Maybe, maybe, everyone is Wang Da’s relative. When mentioning someone casually, Wang Da would always say: That’s my brother, me. Sister, my sister, my friend...

Sorry, Wang Da, does your family run the world? They are all your relatives!

Of course that was a joke. The fact is that everyone consciously lined up around him and rushed to be his friend. Coupled with his chubby figure, he was really a practical and reliable first choice.

After all, warm-hearted and good people like him are too rare and too popular.

The turning point came five years after graduation. Wang Da established his own self-media alliance. He did nothing, cross-promoted various self-media, and vigorously broke out of the self-media alliance organized by individuals. In the media circle, become a new media pioneer that everyone looks up to.

At that time, Wang Da’s bragging had turned into talking nonsense, and the most painful thing was that what sounded like a joke back then now sounds so like the truth.

For example, Wang Da said: "The bullshit I brag about are all my ambitions."

He also knows that he likes to brag, but he is still a good-looking person. Ordinary people, just like the gentleman who threw the hat first, since he has boasted so much, he should force himself to give it a try.

His second job after graduation was obtained precisely because of his shamelessness. He went to the Jumei headquarters and used all the unexpected methods that you and I could think of to get in touch with the people working at Jumei. people.

The hard work paid off. Wang Damou got a job and quickly won over many people. He had no choice but to look shameless but ambitious. Soon, everyone turned to him. As a helpless Adou, he knows nothing but boasts, so he imparts his experience to him to his heart's content.

Some people teased him to his face. Chen Ou was not his friend, but his boss’s boss’s boss. He responded with a smile, and sooner or later he and Chen Ou would become close friends.

Everyone laughed, helpless, and then offered various suggestions. He secretly recorded the useful and useless ones. After five years, he also forged a bright sword.

For another example, Wang Dachang said: "I am good to others, not to flatter others, but to learn skills from others."

And learning skills from others will be useful one day. .

Once, a brother who works in self-media complained: "It's too hard to work alone. That's the bad thing about self-media people."

The speaker didn't mean it, listen. Deliberately, Wang Da accumulated five years of experience and connections, which came in handy at this time. He visited N people, investigated N possibilities, tried N methods, and finally launched the self-media alliance.

Although top celebrities and handsome guys such as Jack Ma and Chen Ou are still not his brothers, many celebrities we are familiar with have become friends with him and even helped him promote the self-media alliance.

His connections are good or bad, because they have received more or less courtesy and favors from him before, and they are full of gratitude, and they all show their special abilities. In this way, Wang Da's reputation will be improved. Yang went out.

His side was already crowded, and the students rushed to express their opinions, saying, "Da Wang, that's my roommate, that's my upper bunk, that's the boyfriend I missed, that's my buddy." Son.

He said in the classmate group that you all think that I like to brag, be snobbish, like to pay, and be heartless, but those four things are actually the same thing, which is to be good to others. ...

Wang Da has just become Mr. Wang, but he still likes to pay for food, make friends, like to be crowded and lively, and likes to do things for others with a little effort.

He said, why are you so pretentious and shy when interacting with others? Be shameless and sharp-headed and be kind to others. Be a good person within your own abilities and God will not treat you badly.

In Wang Da’s circle of friends, there are countless Internet celebrities, IT CTOs, marketing kings, and countless talented people who can give him advice. Isn’t success inevitable?

His shortcut is to first brag them as his friends, and then turn them into real friends.

Then, Wang Da succeeded.

He happily enjoys everything that is possible in the future. He still cannot reach the heights of Jack Ma and Chen Ou, but he has already left his classmates thousands of miles behind.

Chen Ou is still not his iron buddy, but Wang Da is already the "iron buddy" that many people often call him.

His famous saying became: "The so-called success starts from when you go out to find your brothers and sisters, and ends when your brothers and sisters come to you." How well said, really, we all think that we are Proud of his brothers and sisters!

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I hope someone as smart as you can see another characteristic of Wang Da that complements his bragging: a sense of giving.

What did he rely on to become so popular? He relied on his love and dedication, his warm-heartedness and never-boring enthusiasm, and he melted the hearts of nobles, big shots, and many friends.

Haha, why don’t you bother bragging? Because you know you can’t do the things you brag about.

Why don’t you dare to boast? Because on the way to success, you need to pay too many costs, including sunk costs of course, and you are not willing to part with it.

An article in Moments "To Bitch, Why Should I Help You" slapped many people in the face. Many people think that you should not reach out to your friends to ask for help, at least you should not ask for help. When helping, you should also say that it’s a small effort.

Yes, I don’t agree with the gangster logic of eating the apple you gave me, but instead comforting myself by saying, “It will rot if you don’t give it to me to eat.”

However, please believe that this kind of person is just thick-skinned, or can’t speak, and has low emotional intelligence. But if he is among your friends, I still hope that we can help each other, even if we finish helping each other, we will talk about it. One sentence: Go away, I'm not doing anything for you, it's because it's you that I'm willing to help.

Just let him understand your efforts.

I think, this year you help others, and tomorrow others will help others. In the end, someone will always help you, because the earth is round and love is conserved.

Payment is not a sunk cost, it will come back to you in circles. As the old saying goes, don't worry about the future when doing good deeds.