1. Sad parting

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"All good things must come to an end" and no one can fail to experience parting. Parting is synonymous with sentimentality, marked by tears and characterized by reluctance. From ancient times to the present, which parting ended in laughter?

Li Bai's sadness and loneliness when he watched his best friend Meng Haoran go away by boat at the Yellow Crane Tower were all manifested in "The lonely sail is far away and the blue sky is exhausted, only the Yangtze River flows in the sky". The Yangtze River, which flows eastward, is his endless sadness and yearning, and his parting from his best friend makes the bright sunshine in March dim. What a sadness and helplessness this is!

"People were gone in the past, but the water is still cold today". Although this poem does not specify the person to bid farewell to, nor does it directly rub his parting feelings, it is precisely because of this that this poem has become a famous sentence in Chinese and foreign parting poems. Remembering the ancients is a portrayal of reality. Luo Binwang knew that his friend's trip might be a replica of "Jing Ke stabbed Qin Wang", but he turned his sadness into a cold river. What indignation and tragic!

Ancient people used poems to express their inner sorrow and sadness, while modern people's feelings of parting and sadness are expressed more directly. Friends shouted "goodbye" to each other, waving their hands, and the one sitting on the parting train responded vigorously until the train was out of sight and turned into a black spot? .

it's human nature to be sad and leave. Perhaps, this time, it will take a long time to meet or never meet again. Perhaps, this time, it will be the end of the relationship between us. How can you not be sad and sad when you leave your loved ones and goodbye is far away? When separation is just around the corner, we will also try to walk happily and smartly, and we will also try to make the people who leave feel at ease and calm. But who can really do it without a little sadness and loss when leaving?

then when you leave, don't suppress your feelings by considering other things! This is not weakness, it's just truth, and it's more about expressing true courage. It's not hurting others, just letting friends and relatives know how much we love them. Even the great poets in ancient times expressed their feelings openly, so why should we modern people be ashamed to speak? It is human nature to be sad and leave, and it is an expression of feelings.

However, parting can only be a temporary injury, not a lifetime injury. We can't live in the shadow of parting. It is understandable to cry or even cry at the moment of parting, but it is not correct to wet the pillow with tears every night. No one can accompany you all your life. The closest relatives who leave will meet again one day. Even if they don't come back, there will be another person in your life to fill this vacancy. Although the concave hole of your crystal ball can't be completely recovered, it will be filled by other precious things, so your crystal ball is still shining and dazzling. But if you let sadness fill the hole, then the crystal ball will no longer be brilliant, but will only become empty and dim.

from ancient times to the present, there is no one who has not tasted it, and no one knows it; Sorrow is a kind of life, an experience, a scene and a mood; Sorrow is a kind of truth, a kind of courage, a kind of deformity and a kind of perfection; Parting is a stage, not a result; Parting is a growing experience and a mature process.

Don't be afraid of parting, and don't suppress your parting wound. Face the injury and parting bravely, and your life will be more colorful and more perfect.