"Please give me more advice for the rest of my life" is a work performed by Yang Zi and Xiao Zhan. The love story in it is touching. Both Yang Zi and Xiao Zhan performed so well. Some people say that after watching this drama, what is there to remember? There are three: one is to cherish the person in front of you; one is the appearance of love, it is different, just use your heart; and the other is to work hard to achieve yourself.
1. Cherish the people in front of you, whether they are lovers or family members
Lin Zhixiao, played by Yang Zi, and Gu Wei, played by Xiao Zhan, are both people who have been hurt in relationships. Therefore, when they get along together, they do not look back or move forward, but test each other while getting along. Just like two snails, they put out their tentacles and test carefully. If there are no obstacles, keep moving forward; if you encounter them, go back and wait and try again. Lin Zhixiao had been injured, so he naturally needed to be more cautious. The relationship between the two of them was like a roller coaster, going up and down.
The person in front of you may not be the best candidate, just like Fu Seoul said. When she was in love with Lao Liu, Lao Liu told her that she might not be happy marrying him, nor would she be happy marrying someone else, so she might as well marry him. During the relationship between Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei, he realized how good Gu Wei was, and then he gradually opened his heart and accepted each other. Some people say that if Xiao Zhan were standing next to him and just spoke, he would agree. Because Xiao Zhan is so handsome!
For some people who like good looks, Xiao Zhan is definitely the best boyfriend. But for Lin Zhixiao, if her boyfriend leaves again, the blow to her will be even greater. She needed to know whether Gu Wei's feelings for her were true. Because people who have been hurt don’t want to be hurt again. For girls, they may care about appearance when they first start dating. As time goes by, what matters most is whether two people are suitable for each other.
Cherishing the person in front of you means cherishing the present moment. No matter who you are, you need to cherish them. Some people may miss it for the rest of their lives. Fortunately, Lin Zhixiao caught it. In life, we should also cherish the people in front of us. They may be lovers or family members. Sometimes, the sudden departure of the person in front of you makes people realize that it would have been better if they had grasped it earlier. It is the norm for many people to appreciate something only after losing it. So, don't let this happen.
2. The appearance of love is all kinds of strange, don’t get stuck in one pattern
The love between Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei is different from the love between Seal and Jinshi. So, don’t get hung up on patterns. Every couple's view of love may be different. Someone once said that the other person is a scumbag, why should you be with him? However, for the person in love, what he may feel is love, not scum. People who love are blind. Sometimes the appearance is different.
Lin Zhixiao was very kind to Gu Wei, and the two finally went hand in hand. There were some twists and turns in the process, but fortunately, they persevered. Love is like this, you stretch out a hand, I stretch out a hand, and the two people become one heart. Love is a two-way journey. Maybe one person is blocked in the journey to the other person, then, you go through it. In this way, two people can come together.
Some people think that love should be vigorous and that we should be together all the time. The love at that time was in high school or college. After working, the love between two people will need to face many tests. What should I do if I am alone at home when the other person is working overtime? What should I do if the other party is on a business trip and I am alone at home? These are normal in life. These are also tests of two people's emotions.
If two people can stick to their love, as long as their hearts are together, they can come together even if they are far apart. Some people say that Chen He and his ex-wife stayed together for more than ten years, but their relationship soon broke down after they got married. Why? It's because their attitudes towards love and marriage are different. Some people think that love is like a rose, which is pleasing to the eye. Marriage is a siege, and the people inside want to get out. This is also a model, and any model is fine as long as it suits you.
3. Love is a kind of power, a positive promotion force that makes oneself a better person
Many people think that love means one party is dependent on the other, whether in life. , or mentally. Actually, this is wrong. From the love story between Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei, we can see that both people are positive. No one should bear the burden of anyone else's life, and no one should be the other person's psychiatrist.
Only by encouraging each other and two people becoming better versions of themselves is the true meaning of love.
Ask the world, what is love? Direct teaching promises life and death. Why is this happening? That's the power of love. The power of love is so powerful that it can bring two people together across thousands of mountains and rivers. As the saying goes, we are destined to meet you thousands of miles away! The love between Bai Suzhen and Xu Xian lasted for thousands of years. Although it is a story, the things in the story can be said to be true or not. So is love! Therefore, to grasp love well, you must also grasp yourself well.
Love should be like Su Wenwan in "Fortress Besieged", which can make people feel different, improve themselves, and achieve themselves. But Fang Hongjian among them, saw Su Wenwan, fell in love with Tang Xiaofu, and ended up marrying Sun Roujia. Fang Hongjian heard Sun Roujia speaking ill of him behind his back, which made him feel disheartened. This is not what love looks like, but a worldly perspective. What do you think of this? Everyone is welcome to leave a message!