I often use The Analects to motivate myself to be optimistic and successful.
Confucius said: I am angry and forget to eat, I am happy and forget my worries, but I don't know that my old age is coming.
In the Analects of Confucius, the sentences that motivate yourself to succeed are credible and far-reaching.
Isn't it important to think that benevolence is your responsibility?
When you are cold, you know that pine and cypress will wither.
Scholars can't help becoming Hongyi, they still have a long way to go.
Meaning:
Hongyi: "Macro" means broadness, "Yi" means forbearance, and "Hongyi" is a broad and persistent quality and attitude, which is a necessary mental state for completing studies. Scholars can't help Hony: ambitious people have to be strong. In other words, as a scholar and a gentleman, you must have broad and persevering qualities.
Expand packaging knowledge:
1, Confucius said: "Learn from time to time without speaking? Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? Ignorance and dissatisfaction are not gentlemen? "
Confucius said, "Isn't it a pleasure to learn and constantly practice and verify?" Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? I am not disgusted or angry that others don't understand my theory. Am I not a noble gentleman? "
2. Confucius said: "Clever words make color, fresh and benevolent."
Confucius said: "This kind of person who is full of rhetoric and smiles is rarely benevolent."
3. Zeng Zitao: "I saved three times a day and was unfaithful to others." Don't believe in making friends? Can't you learn? "
Ceng Zi said: "I have to reflect on myself many times every day: Is it loyalty to give advice and help others? Are friends trustworthy? Have you reviewed the knowledge taught by the teacher? "
4. Confucius said, "A gentleman doesn't want to eat enough, and he doesn't want peace. If you are sensitive and cautious, you are right and upright, which can be said to be eager to learn. "
Confucius said, "Gentleman, don't worry about not having enough to eat, don't worry about being uncomfortable, work hard and be careful in your words. He went to find someone with connections, which can be said to be studious. "
5. Confucius said, "If you don't suffer from people's ignorance, you don't know people."
Confucius said, "I'm not afraid that people don't know each other, but I'm afraid that I don't know anyone."
6. Confucius said: "I am determined to learn five out of ten, stand up at thirty, not be confused at forty, know my destiny at fifty, listen to my ears at sixty, and do what I want at seventy, without exceeding the rules."
Confucius said: "when I was fifteen, I decided to study;" 30 years old, doing things in line with etiquette; At the age of forty, I am not confused. Understand the laws of nature at the age of fifty; At the age of 60, you can understand what others say without thinking much; At the age of seventy, you can do whatever you want, and any idea will not go beyond the rules. "
7. Confucius said, "In a threesome, there must be a teacher. Choose good and follow it, but change it if it is not good. "
Confucius said, "If you count people, someone will be my teacher. Choose his strengths and learn from him, and learn from his weaknesses to correct yourself. "
Examples of success in exercising one's own ability are Lenin's willpower to climb mountains, Chairman Mao's determination to study in downtown, Kangxi's will to hunt, Lincoln's eloquence in debate (not eloquence at first, but stuttering), Jordan's investment in sports (people say he can only break through) and so on.
Express your feelings when you succeed with wind and rain. Sunshine is always after the storm ~
What can I do to make myself successful and make more friends with celebrities? Man is an emotional animal. He must always communicate emotionally. He needs friendship. On the road to success, it is not enough to rely solely on the support of faith, but also need the nourishment of friendship. Good interpersonal relationships will give you a powerful force, share and remind you when you are successful, talk and encourage you when you are frustrated, and help you have a beneficial psychological balance. There is a peasant boy named Arthur Huaka. After reading some stories of great industrialists in magazines, he really wants to know more details, hoping to get their advice to the latecomers. One day, Huaka went to new york. Whenever he started to work, he arrived at William Astor's office at seven o'clock in the morning. In the second room, Huaka immediately recognized the man with a pair of heavy eyebrows in front of him. The tall Astor began to find this boy a little unpleasant, but when he heard the boy ask him, "I want to know, how can I make millions of dollars?" His expression softened, he smiled, and he talked with the boy for an hour. Then Astor told him that he should visit other celebrities in the industry. Huaka visited first-class businessmen, editors and bankers according to Astor's instructions. In terms of making money, the advice Huaka received may not be helpful to him, but it gave him confidence in acquiring the knowledge of successful people. He began to imitate their successful practices. Two years later, the 20-year-old young man became the owner of the factory where he was an apprentice. At the age of 24, he was the general manager of an agricultural machinery factory. In less than five years, he had a fortune of one million dollars as he wished. This boy from a simple wooden house in the countryside finally became a member of the board of directors of the bank. Huaka has been active in business for 67 years, practicing the basic creed he learned when he came to new york when he was young, that is, to make more friends with helpful people and successful predecessors, so as to change his destiny. Making friends with a wide range of celebrities is of great help in handling affairs. These people are always at the forefront of the trend and have a developmental vision in considering things. By interacting with them, you can learn knowledge that you can't usually learn. The following are the experiences of successful people in making friends with celebrities: (1) Keep clear goals and make unremitting efforts; (2) Don't give up every contact object; (3) No matter where you are, you should find the right opportunity to talk to people; (4) To track the results and find out the real "top people", you may wish to record every contact for a rainy day; (5) Don't rush for success. A good relationship depends on a long-term and stable development foundation.
How can people succeed by defeating themselves through introspection? Everyone should learn to reflect. Reflection is an ability. It is a way to examine and think deeply about our behaviors and thoughts, figure out what we have done wrong in life, and then correct our mistakes. Reflection is a way to correct our life path. Through introspection, we will become more and more successful in life, career and life. So learn to reflect on yourself.
But how many people in life can really do this? Everyone is busy with life, troubled by trivial things in life, complaining that time is not enough, and wasting time at the same time, but not many people can calm down, take out paper and pencil, sum up the success and failure in life, find out the specific reasons for success and failure, and reflect on themselves. Perhaps not self-reflection is one of the reasons why many people are difficult to succeed.
In the Xia Dynasty, the treacherous warlord Hu Shi led an army to invade. Yu Xia sent his son Qi Bo against him, but Qi Bo failed. His men were unconvinced and demanded to continue the attack, but Qi Bo said, "There is no need. I had more soldiers and bigger territory than him, but he beat me. This must be the reason why my virtue is not as good as his, and my method of leading troops is not as good as his. From today, I will try my best to correct it. " From then on, Qi Bo got up early every day to work, took care of the people, appointed talents, and respected people with moral character and ability. After a year, the Hu family knew the virtue, not only did not dare to attack again, but voluntarily surrendered and never dared to attack again.
A person who knows how to reflect will constantly reflect on his own behavior, find his own shortcomings, correct his own mistakes, and straighten his mind, so as to better advance towards his own goals. People who know how to reflect will listen to others' opinions with an open mind and learn from others' criticisms, so as to make themselves more perfect and have fewer and fewer shortcomings.
A person who can reflect on himself will also see the advantages of others. People who can reflect will not be jealous of others' Excellence, but will think that others' Excellence is caused by their own advantages. Therefore, people who can reflect will treat others with an appreciation heart and learn from others in the process of appreciation.
A self-reflective person never complains that society is unfair to him, but thanks society for giving them opportunities and help. Society is the best place for a person to reflect on himself. It teaches us how to be modest, tolerant, strict with ourselves, have a peaceful mind and know how to leave enough room for others. However, we criticize ourselves mercilessly and correct our mistakes.
Self-reflection is the foundation of a person's success and one of the spirits necessary for success. Let's learn to reflect on ourselves, let's move towards success and be a person who can reflect on ourselves.
Those successful people can make continuous progress because they can constantly reflect on themselves, find their own shortcomings or deficiencies, and then correct them, so as to maintain a perfect mentality to do things, so as to achieve success after success, which is also a little secret of successful people.
Dickens, a famous novelist, is famous for his novels. But he is strict with himself, and he also has a rule that works that have not been carefully examined will never be easily read by the public. Dickens would read his written works once a day, find problems from them every day, and then revise them constantly until he was sure there were no problems before reading them to the public.
There is another story, Balzac, a novelist and French speaker. After writing the novel, he spent a long time revising it until he was satisfied, and then decided to finalize it. The process of revising manuscripts often takes months or even years. It is this attitude of constant self-reflection and self-correction that makes these two writers make great achievements.
Ceng Zi once said, "I ask myself many times every day: Have I tried my best to serve others? Is it honest to associate with friends? Is there a review of the study taught by the teacher? " Confucius believed that Ceng Zi could inherit his great career, so he paid special attention to teaching his studies and let him inherit his career.
On one occasion, Ceng Zi told Xiangzi, a student, about being brave, and directly quoted what Confucius said to his students: "Do you like being brave? I have heard Confucius say what is the greatest courage: self-reflection, justice is not on my side, even if the other person is an ordinary person, I will not intimidate them; Self-reflection, justice is on my side, even if the other side is overwhelmed, I will go forward bravely. "
Therefore, no matter what you do, everyone should have the consciousness of self-reflection, have the attitude of self-correction, and constantly pursue and realize their good wishes in order to realize their ideals. A person who is good at self-reflection can often easily find out his own advantages and disadvantages, and can foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. However, a person who is not good at or even does not accept self-reflection will make the same mistakes over and over again, unable to give full play to his abilities, and certainly unable to realize his dreams.
In life, we all have to do some ordinary things and do some ordinary work. At this time, if we just complain about others or the environment, then we have no energy to do everything well and we can't succeed. If we are willing to put ourselves in an ordinary post, regard ourselves as the key to change, always check our own shortcomings, constantly reflect on ourselves and find better ways, success will certainly be waiting for us.
However, it is difficult for us to find our own mistakes, but we can clearly see the humble little faults in others and point fingers at them. Therefore, we should not find fault with others, but look at our own problems, reflect on ourselves and find out our own shortcomings, so as to improve our virtue and character and make ourselves better on the road to success step by step.
One day, a young man borrowed a telephone from a taxi on the street corner. He covered the receiver with a handkerchief and said, "Is this Wang Mansion? I'm calling to apply for the job as a gardener. I have rich experience, and I believe I am competent and happy. " The operator said, "I'm afraid you're mistaken, sir." My master is very satisfied with the gardener he employs now. He said that gardeners are serious, enthusiastic and diligent, so there is no vacancy for gardeners here. "
The young man said politely, "I'm sorry, maybe I made a mistake." Then he hung up.
The shopkeeper listened to the young man and said, "Young man, do you want to find a job as a gardener?" My relatives are about to invite someone. Are you interested? "
The young man said, "Thank you for your kindness. Actually, I am the gardener of Wang Mansion. I just called to check myself and make sure that my performance meets the standards of the master. "
In life, only by continuous self-reflection can we be invincible.
In our life, many people will say, "After I did something wrong, I will regret it when I look back." Regret is something that most of us have, but whether we regret it or not depends on ourselves. If we reflect on yesterday's mistakes, we will only think about how we did it wrong, how we can do it well and what lessons we can learn. But if you only think about this mistake, you will definitely lose a lot. If I had known it early, I might as well not do it, just look at the wrong result and not at the wrong process. The former is self-help and the latter is self-destruction. People can be strong in self-help, struggle in strength and make progress in struggle. Correct reflection is self-help, which can make people stand on their own feet.
Perhaps today's vision has fought fiercely with yesterday's night, and this vision is discerning and keen. We should use it to recognize yesterday's mistakes, so as to recognize and correct them in time, and thus sublimate our moral quality. On the contrary, if we use it to challenge today's justice, then we will only be defeated today and then be defeated until the last moment.
If you do something wrong or say something wrong, don't forget to remind yourself: "think about it." Only when you know how to reflect can you see your mistakes; Only by seeing reflection can we see our own shortcomings; Only through reflection can we recognize ourselves; Only by learning to reflect can we make progress.
Many people make excuses when they make mistakes. Don't make excuses for your shortcomings. Criticism is a bad habit, just like a mantra. We are just used to this feeling. It keeps us busy and has something to say. Most people pay attention to other people's shortcomings or problems, and one of the main reasons is that they don't want to face their own problems. If you don't help yourself make excuses everywhere, then you can't really help others. What you know cannot be better than what you know!
A truly cultivated person will start from consciousness, and the real humor is to surpass and defeat himself, just like watching himself from high altitude. Resignation is also a dream. If you win yourself first, you can win others. To know yourself clearly, we should first pay attention to our own advantages and shortcomings. Resignation is not passive-you must constantly strive to face the reality, instead of deceiving yourself again and again, jumping from dreams to reality.
If a person refuses to reflect, he will not have the most fulfilling life. Don't attribute your problems to the environment in the future, but learn to exert his willpower and sense of responsibility again in confidence and morality. Thoughts hidden in the subconscious are more powerful than those spread in the sun.
Without your consent, who can make you feel inferior enough to climb to heaven on the ruins of failure? Finding the reason for your failure is the real success. The hardest thing in the world is to admit your mistakes. Frankly admitting mistakes is a good way to solve problems. Even if it is not the most fashionable, tailor-made clothes must be the most suitable and comfortable to wear.
If you can bravely stand up and admit that you are wrong, then you have corrected half your mistakes and will certainly benefit from them. Because admitting mistakes can not only win the respect of others, but also increase your self-esteem. Everyone is his own enemy. Only by keeping faith with yourself can we keep faith with others. If you make a mistake, you should be brave enough to admit it and correct it, and never let yourself make the same mistake again. Sometimes ignorance is not necessarily simple, but evil. People will never laugh if they keep their true colors; They only laugh when they are putting on airs. It is much more difficult to judge yourself than to judge others. If you can correctly judge your situation, you are a truly intelligent and reflective person.
Knowing yourself is actually a big step towards knowledge. Nature never deceives us; It is always ourselves who deceive us. If you want others to like you, don't put in a good word for yourself, but face everything about yourself. We should all have the ability to be alone and should not let go of the benefits of loneliness. I never sympathize with those conceited people, because they always have a way to comfort themselves. But their weakness is that they think they are the smartest. Knowing that you have made a mistake but not correcting it is the biggest mistake.
Some people are arrogant, which is a sign of incompetence. Pride is a bad habit that one should get rid of first. The hardest thing in the world is to admit that you are wrong. Life without reflection is not worth living. Although this statement is serious, it is true. Introspection is the secret of knowing yourself. We must learn to be our best friends, because we can easily become our biggest enemy. No matter how lofty your position is, you must always have the courage to say to yourself, "I will never know." Even if you can defeat thousands of troops on the battlefield, only by defeating yourself is the real winner. It is much more difficult to judge yourself than to judge others. The biggest mistake in the world is that he will never make mistakes in his life. Human pride is often their greatest weakness. We should try our best to avoid blindness in life. We can't walk far or go high in other people's shoes.
Only those who know how to reflect on themselves and accept mistakes with an open mind are winners. The more people know about themselves, the lower their evaluation of themselves. Mistakes are easier to forgive than to cover them up. Suicide is the most cowardly act lacking moral courage. Some people look confident, but they are not. They may be brave when they are in groups, but they are not brave when they encounter difficulties when they are alone. We should admit our mistakes and accept each other's correctness. He who knows how to reflect on himself is the one who knows himself. Only when we know ourselves, constantly reflect on ourselves and dare to admit our mistakes can we make continuous progress and succeed, and we should pay attention to the great role that reflection brings to us.
When you see others, you must see yourself.
Everyone makes mistakes in life, of course, many small things are not worth mentioning; Often put my foot in my mouth and unconsciously offend my boss or colleagues. Our biggest loss is to lose our chance, our love, our career and our friendship. In the end, we will suffer. Maybe you will say, as long as I am happy, I am relaxed, I don't hinder others, and it's nothing to lose these. However, if we reflect on ourselves in time and then correct ourselves, wouldn't it be better to get happiness and happiness? Is the happiness we get under unwise circumstances happiness? So we should reflect and correct our mistakes.
At night, reflect on yourself. Opportunity is not that we don't patronize us, but that we pass it proudly again and again. Looking at myself in the mirror, I am still very proud and my heart hurts unexpectedly. Now ask yourself, what is there to be proud of? Young people do not belong to this generation, and wisdom will not patronize you at all. How much do you know about new knowledge and new culture? For friends, there is no sincerity and enthusiasm in the past; Treat lover, also did not have the former patience and * * *; For the sake of their children, but also overbearing that they will always be right; Maybe they have forgotten the pain of hard times and the sweetness of smiling at each other, or maybe their hearts have flown out of their original bodies.
In others, we can see our strengths and weaknesses in all aspects, but we are too proud to show our strengths and forget that our weaknesses are eroding our lives, our souls and bodies, so we should reflect on ourselves. Maybe we will lose some romantic and * * * elements because of introspection, but we are more mature and have opportunities for happiness and success. A person who does not know how to reflect on himself is a person who does not know how to make progress. We can't always stand at the beginning of the runway and draw zeros repeatedly. Only by reflecting on ourselves can we find and correct mistakes and find more happiness. Although the process of reflection is painful and sometimes costly, we gradually understand how important reflection is to us.
If we want to keep up with the pace of society, we must constantly reflect on ourselves, which is the best way for society and families to achieve happiness and success. In introspection, we find that people can't always live in their own fantasies. We are a part of society and an indispensable part of the family.
Around us, we often see or hear some little people talking about other people's shortcomings or other people's family circumstances. I often see some colleagues making mistakes at work, complaining about others, or trying to put the blame on others. In fact, these practices are unwise. "No gold is perfect, no one is perfect", no one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings and makes mistakes. What should we do when the mistake has appeared? In fact, mistakes in life or work are inevitable, and it doesn't matter who is responsible. It is important to recognize the process of the mistake, find out the cause of the mistake and don't make it again. The ancients once said: three rescues a day. This sentence tells us that we should always reflect on ourselves and consciously check whether there are mistakes in our work or behavior, so as not to fall behind and become a wise person.
To learn to reflect on yourself is to dare to face yourself and take responsibility. Smart people don't pass the buck. Only cowards are timid, evasive and irresponsible. If you want to succeed, you must learn to be a smart person and a reasonable person. Otherwise, you will not succeed in this life, and you will regret it for the rest of your life, but things will never be redeemed.
Always reflect on yourself, you can forget the unpleasant things in your heart, you can know yourself rationally, and you have a clear judgment ability on things; You can also remind yourself to correct your mistakes, or you can tell yourself to learn from others' mistakes ... Only by fully reflecting on yourself can you truly know yourself, and only by truly knowing yourself and taking corresponding actions can you constantly correct yourself and improve yourself. Therefore, it is essential to persist in introspection. A couple was watched by the public for stealing. People are very angry. Like the waves, the voice of accusation and abuse is getting louder and louder. Some even suggested stoning the couple to death, and people agreed to do so. Just as they were about to throw stones at the couple, Jesus passed the square. Faced with this situation, he thought for a moment and said to the angry crowd, "Well, please ask those of us who have never made mistakes to throw the first stone." As a result, the masses stopped talking. "No one condemns you? Then I won't condemn you! " Jesus also said to the couple who stole.
Nowadays, many people have become accustomed to blaming others, but these people can't see their own shortcomings, so they never do self-reflection, which is more difficult for them than going to heaven. Everyone has made mistakes, but few people can reflect on themselves and correct them. Most people can't see their essence clearly because they lack the habit of self-reflection and don't know what changes they have made over the years. And a person who doesn't know his own changes can't think about his future with the eyes of the past, so he has to count the days.
If a person can always pay attention to his past changes, he can find out whether his previous views on problems are right or wrong and where they are wrong. If it is correct, you can certainly continue to see the world from this perspective in the future; If it is wrong, it should be corrected immediately. In this way, it can help you see things around you in the right way. Learn to reflect on yourself, so as to forgive and abandon resentment. People with resentment in their hearts are emotionally unstable, either complaining all day or regretting; Either you are hostile to people or you give up on yourself. Therefore, we should learn to abandon resentment and all bad thoughts, forgive others and forgive ourselves, so as to be free from introspection. In our real life, most people often can't see their own shortcomings and only pursue others' shortcomings, so we need to reflect on ourselves from time to time, which is a necessary factor for success.
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