The famous saying about "communicating with others" is as follows:

Interpersonal relationship is communication between people, which expresses the golden rule of "If you want others to do to yourself, you must do it to others first" in the Bible in a modern way.

-Dell (USA)? Carnegie

Effective communication depends on the communicator's full mastery of the topic, not the sweetness of the words.

-(USA) Grove

The most basic function of managers is to develop and maintain a smooth communication channel.

-(USA) Barnard

once heard a story: a fierce conflict broke out between the lion and the tiger, and in the end both sides lost. When the lion was about to die, he said to the tiger, "If you hadn't insisted on grabbing my territory, we wouldn't be in this situation." The tiger was dying, too. It was surprised and said, "I never wanted to rob your territory. I always thought you were going to invade me." Both the lion and the tiger misunderstood each other's meaning and acted according to their own ideas without communication. As a result, they both proved the importance of communication with their own lives.

The word "communication" originally meant to open a ditch to connect the two waters, but later it meant to dredge each other's opinions. It seems that only "ditching" can be "smooth", and only by sincerely exchanging ideas can the two sides reach an agreement. Everyone can't live in isolation, as long as there is communication with people. Good communication is a bridge to enhance understanding between people, a platform to eliminate misunderstandings, and a channel for cooperation and exchange. With sincere communication, harmonious coexistence is just around the corner.

A middle school student was confused about reviewing before the final exam, and his mother kept telling him to hurry up and study at home. One day, my mother was ready to go out and told her again, "Come on! There will be an exam tomorrow. " When he heard his mother's advice, it was like putting a spell on his head, which hurt like hell.

after his mother left home, he felt too tired to learn, so he turned on the game machine to relax a little, but he forgot the time when playing. He was having a good time when he heard "Mao" and his mother came back!

Mother frowned and asked, "Have you finished your homework?"

"I, I, I didn't!" He said slowly.

"You are too lazy, you are so unconscious! Don't you know that there will be an exam tomorrow? "

Suddenly, he felt very wronged and said, "Mom, I am so tired. I have so much homework every day, and my energy is limited. I have reviewed everything, and I also need to rest and relax."

At this moment, the mother froze, sat down, took her son's hand and said calmly, "Oh! Well, I'm sorry. I didn't know you were very tired. In the past, I only asked you to put your time and energy into your study, but never considered your entertainment needs, so I don't blame you for stealing video games, because I am also responsible. Will mom play with you now? "

after listening to his mother's words, the boy felt happy and ashamed, and said, "I was wrong today. I will definitely set up a place for study and entertainment in the future." After that, he stopped the game and went back to his room to read.

Later, the boy wrote in his diary: "Through this communication, my mother and I got to understand each other. Moreover, I studied harder and my mother gave me proper entertainment time. "

communication can eliminate misunderstandings between people in time and enhance understanding. The stronger a person's communication ability, the smoother his interpersonal relationship and the greater his chances of success. Carnegie once said: "A successful person, professional knowledge plays a role of 15%, while communication ability accounts for 85%." Indeed, the harmony of interpersonal relationship is an important factor for a person to succeed.

Take a scientist who is engaged in scientific research all day as an example. In the research of a subject, he spends 5.9% of the total time searching and reading relevant information, and the research time after the experiment accounts for 32.1%. In this 83% time, he has to constantly deal with libraries, reference rooms, laboratories, computing rooms and management departments at all levels. Without good communication, it will be difficult for him to get the understanding and support of others, and his scientific research work will be full of difficulties.

Therefore, communication ability is the embodiment of a person's viability. As parents, we should pay attention to the cultivation of children's communication skills. Good communication will make children feel that there are helping hands everywhere, not obstacles.

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