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The shed in Song Jia tells us how parents should educate their children.
I believe that many parents want to be happy parents, and they have the desire of "hoping their children have a happy childhood" in their hearts, but they have the behavior of being children. This is the conflict between ideal and reality, and it is also a big proposition for parents of primary school students. Children's needs for happiness are different. When they were young, a pack of snacks and an animated cartoon could make them satisfied and happy, but the satisfaction of pure entertainment could not last long. The more people grow up, the more they need happiness at different levels and depths. Deep happiness grows on the reserve of advanced abilities.

Take learning the piano as an example. In the usual boring process of practicing piano, children will definitely feel unhappy. But after persisting in studying hard, she found that she built a bridge with music, and she could climb a higher level with her hard-won basic skills, which made her feel satisfied and fulfilled. However, this process is definitely not forced by death, but is bought with the daily pain of children. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to create more opportunities for their children and build a foundation. They shouldn't overgrow, give up the cultivation of good habits and neglect the training of basic abilities when children don't know anything. It is also necessary for children to "eat a little bitter" in moderation. Perhaps the child's talent and spirit of research have been nourished in this process.

Of course, in this process, we must grasp the degree. When children have a certain thinking judgment, they can analyze and discuss the scope, depth and time arrangement of the corresponding learning content with their children. Paying attention to children's happiness and feelings is not only about whether he is happy now, but also exploring deeper happiness with him and gradually establishing a more accurate pursuit of life. Higher-order happiness is a kind of flow experience. When a person is engaged in something that he is good at and challenging, his body and mind are greatly satisfied. Parents should evaluate and guide their children's learning life, help them to make a balance and choice between trying, persisting, adjusting, challenging, suffering, happiness and achievement, and don't sacrifice their children's happiness excessively, and don't escape the challenges and failures that their children will face, so as to find a real fit point and find a cost-effective way to learn.