I had a very low self-esteem when I was little, also because my family conditions were poor, and I was really poor compared to others. At that time, Xiaoke also had low self-esteem and was cowardly.
Xiao Ke was born in a rural family with many children and a family with difficulties. Xiao Ke remembers that when he was in elementary school, he often received donations from others. Xiao Ke in elementary school did not feel inferior, but because he could use I am very happy to buy new schoolbags and stationery. But Xiao Ke gradually grew up and entered junior high school. The teacher in the school asked Xiao Ke to apply for the quota for students in need. At that time, as soon as the teacher handed out some stationery gifts, Xiao Ke's name would be called, and the whole class More than 80 people watched, and it was only then that Xiao Ke understood the troubles caused by poverty.
Every time the school starts, Xiao Ke is always the child who is in arrears with his tuition fees. He is often called out by the teacher. The teacher says that Xiao Ke will not be allowed to go to school if he does not pay the tuition fees. His parents borrow money from everywhere because they have no money. But because he was poor and had many children, many times when people saw Xiaoke's father, they would deliberately go out or not open the door. At that time, Xiao Ke was also sensible, and he always told the teacher when he would pay the fees. Because Xiao Ke was indeed a sensible, obedient and hard-working child, the teacher was willing to help Xiao Ke pay for his tuition first.
Finally, Xiao Ke went to college. The school was full of new classmates wearing beautiful clothes, beautiful shoes, fashionable and beautiful, but Xiao Ke wore old clothes given by neighbors and relatives, and the shoes were also bought at the market. The cheapest one I bought online made Xiao Ke feel even more inferior, but Xiao Ke liked to disguise her inferiority with happiness and carelessness. And because Xiaoke doesn't have more living expenses, he can't go out to play often, or go shopping. So Xiaoke spent every day in the library, reading and studying. Hard work pays off, Xiaoke's grades are pretty good in his major, and he has always been ranked among the top.
Because of Xiao Ke’s hard work and because of Xiao Ke’s cheerfulness, Xiao Ke has also made a few friends. They will not look down on Xiao Ke because he is poor and wears old clothes. They always say I admire Xiao Ke very much. Later, Xiao Ke found an opportunity to work part-time on Saturdays and Sundays. He used Saturdays and Sundays to earn living expenses and support himself without relying on his parents. You can also buy some favorite clothes or supplies for yourself. Many students admire Xiao Ke and think they can't do it.
In the end, Xiao Ke graduated. Because of his part-time job, Xiao Ke had some work experience and found a job very smoothly, and Xiao Ke was also very satisfied. Xiaoke no longer has low self-esteem. Xiaoke feels that we cannot choose our parents, but our parents have not given up the opportunity to let you become a talent because of poverty, and have not given up the opportunity for you to go to school and change your own destiny. The love they give you is the same as those The parents are the same.
If you have an inferiority complex, use this inferiority complex to urge yourself, study hard, and change your destiny. Having no money is not terrible. What is terrible is that you only think about your lack of money now and that your parents have not given you good conditions for a good life, instead of thinking about making yourself a rich person through your own efforts.