1. A gentleman's heart is too small, but his magnanimity is beneficial all his life. -Qing jinying. A gentleman's ambition to be a man is pure. He only wants to be a man and for all the people in the world, but he wants to do things for the people and the world. He does not have selfish interests and is arrogant.
2. In a gentleman's trip, it is quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugality to cultivate one's morality, no ambition without staying in the park, and no distance without tranquility. -Three Kingdoms Zhuge Liang. As a gentleman, we should cultivate ourselves without being influenced by the outside world and cultivate our moral character with thrift. If we don't take a weak attitude towards fame and fortune, we can't make our ambitions innocent, and we can't make progress to achieve our lofty goals without excluding external interference.
3, if a gentleman takes far, he must be treated; If you are big, you will be patient. -Song Su Shi. If a gentleman wants to achieve a long-term goal, he must wait for the opportunity; If you want to achieve great achievements, you must be patient.
4, if a gentleman is not heavy, he will not be arrogant. -"The Analects of Confucius". If a gentleman's manners and attitudes are not solemn, he will have no prestige.