I like Jung’s classic language, and I also like the personal growth that Zenka consulting has brought me.

Loneliness does not come from having no one around you. The real reason for feeling lonely is because a person is unable to communicate with others about the feelings that matter most to him or her.

Understanding your own darkness is the best way to deal with the darkness of others.

Those who look outside are dreaming, but those who look inward are awake.

The wavering of thought is not a wavering between right and wrong, but a kind of wandering between rationality and irrationality.

The scariest thing is to fully accept yourself.

Instead of being a good person, I would rather be a complete person.

What you are not aware of will become your "destiny".

Don’t even think about changing others. We must learn that the sun is the same, it just emits light and heat. Everyone's reaction to receiving sunlight is different. Some people find it dazzling, others feel warm, and some even avoid the sunlight. There are no signs before the seeds break through the soil and germinate, because that time has not yet arrived. Only you are your own savior.

A person's life-long effort is to integrate the character that has been formed since childhood.

Creation does not come from intelligence, but from the instinct of play that stems from inner needs. The creative mind plays with the object of its affection.

The way we see things, not the things themselves, determines everything.

If you understand darkness, it will capture you. It comes over you like the night with blue shadows and countless twinkling stars. When you begin to understand darkness, silence and peace will come to you. Only those who do not understand darkness fear the night. By understanding the darkness, the night, the mystery within you, you become simple. You prepare to sleep like everyone else for a thousand years. You sleep in the arms of thousands of years, and your walls echo the hymns of ancient temples. Because it's simple, it always has been. As you dream those thousands of years in your grave, the silent and blue night unfolds before you.

The smarter you are, the stupider your simplicity becomes. The wisest are also the stupidest in their simplicity. If we want to save ourselves from the wisdom of the Zeitgeist, we must not increase our wisdom, but must embrace the very thing that opposes this wisdom, namely simplicity. But we cannot indulge in simplicity and deliberately make ourselves fools, but we must become smart fools. ... Intelligence conquers the world, simplicity conquers the soul. Everything is relative and there are degrees.

In life, the most insignificant but meaningful things are more valuable than the greatest but meaningless things.

The impact of parents’ lifeless lives on those around them, especially their own children, is unparalleled.

Everything that prompts us to notice others helps us better understand ourselves.

A shoe that feels good to one person may pinch another person’s foot.

The only purpose of human existence is to light a lamp in the darkness of pure freedom!

Dreams have no cover, we just don’t understand its language. What dreams show us is the unmodified natural truth. Dreams are the spontaneous and undistorted product of the unconscious mind. Dreams are enlightenment and are the subconscious mind's efforts to make the entire mind more harmonious and reasonable. Most crises have a long incubation period that is not consciously noticed. Dreams can reveal this secret.

For ordinary people, the most important lesson in life is to learn to accept themselves.

Man's task is to become aware of what is working its way up from the subconscious.

There is no life prescription that applies to everything. We refuse to admit that all better things are obtained at a greater price.

Only by putting aside the pursuit of external things can we reach the place of the soul. If he cannot find his soul, he will fall into the fear of emptiness, which will whip him into despair and blind pursuit of empty things. He will be fooled by endless longing, lose himself on the spiritual path, and never find his soul again.

Indeed, the difference between a genius's gifts and his human qualities can sometimes be so great that one has to wonder if mediocrity in talent may be a good thing.

All human achievements stem from creative fantasy. Then we have no right to despise imagination.

Your reasons do not focus on the goodness of things, but on vanity.

You are not employed by human nature, but by your own interests. You do not strive for the completion of things, but for general recognition and how to preserve your own advantages.

The word "happiness" would lose its meaning without sadness to balance it.

You want to find someone to complain to, and it is the person who has done something unfair to you, the person who does not understand you, misunderstood you, hurt your feelings, ignored you, People who don’t approve of you and have slandered you? By the way, what other bad things has he done to you? In the midst of this, don't you see your own vanity, your endless absurd vanity?

Human beings’ understanding of themselves is like walking in the dark night. To understand themselves, they need the strength of others.

Uniform rules and education force people into loneliness so that they can escape the unintentional oppression of the group. Loneliness makes people hostile and vicious. Give him popularity and let him be alone, and he will find the group and love it. Violence meets violence, contempt meets contempt, love responds to love. Give humanity tolerance and believe that life will find a better way. Divinity has one eye that cannot see, one ear that cannot hear, its order is in chaos. Therefore, be patient with the imperfections of the world and do not overestimate the beauty of perfection.

Fear and horror are hidden beneath the surface, deep in our hearts. When you encounter the deep spirit, you will feel the coldness and cry out for the pain. The deep spirit combines with steel and fire. You are right to be afraid of the deep, for it is full of fear.

My self, you are a barbarian. I'm going to live with you, so I'm going to take you through all of medieval hell until you're ready. Make life bearable with you. That litmus test is being alone with yourself. This is the way.

I am tired, my soul has wandered for too long, looking for myself outside myself.

You consume yourself in anger, you speak with your tongue, but stick out a cold sword to discuss your dream of revenge.

Our freedom is not outside of us, but within us. A person will be bound by external constraints, but because he can break the internal shackles, he can still feel free. People may be able to gain external freedom through violent actions, but internal freedom can only come from symbols. Symbols are words that come out of the mouth, not words spoken by people, but words that rise from the deepest powers and needs of the self and are unexpectedly placed on the tip of the tongue.

No one is exempt from waiting, and most people cannot bear this waiting. With greed, they turn to things, people and ideas, and become their slaves. For this will prove that the man is powerless against things, people and thoughts, which become his master, and he is a fool who is deceived, because he cannot lack these and cannot wait until the moment when the soul becomes a fruitful place, that The soul is a garden man and needs things, people and thoughts, but he is their friend, not their slave.

Desire yourself, this is the way.

We have the way, the truth, and the life within us. Disaster befalls those who live according to the example of others! Life is contrary to example.

If you live according to an example, then you live the life of the example, but if you don’t live your own life, then who should live your life? So, live your life Just yourself. The road signs have fallen and the road ahead of us is unexplored. Do not greedily devour the fruits of other people's fields. Have you ever known that you yourself are the fertile soil that can grow everything for your use?

Whoever learns to live with his powerlessness will benefit a lot.

The main purpose of psychotherapy is not to bring patients into a state of impossible happiness, but to help them establish a philosophical patience and determination in the face of suffering.

A word that has never been spoken, a light that has never shined, an unparalleled chaos, and a street that has no end.

I did not consider at the time that my soul cannot be the existence of my judgment and knowledge. To a greater extent, my judgment and knowledge are the existence of my soul. Therefore, the deep spirit forces me to treat my soul as an independent life, call it, and talk to it. I must understand that I have lost my soul.

In these days you see what is hidden in the deep spirit. You didn't believe it before, but if you were asked about your fears, you would know how to go.

No one is chasing behind me on this road, and I am not walking on anyone else's road.

I am lonely, but I fill my loneliness with life. I am enough on my own, I am a human being, a voice, a dialogue, a comfort, a help. I just wandered to the Far East, not knowing what my distant goal would be.

Piling up the paintings of the masters randomly in a museum is a disaster; putting a hundred outstanding intellectuals together will produce an idiot.

No matter who you are, if you fall, I am willing to accompany you to fall. One is bravery. If you don't enter the tiger's den, you won't get the tiger's cubs. The other is to be determined. It doesn't matter if it falls. ——"The Red Book"

When love dominates everything, power does not exist; when power dominates everything, love disappears. The two are each other's shadow.

And I even believe that without thinking, there is no so-called experience, because "experience" is a process of absorption and assimilation. Without this process, there is no understanding.

Healthy people do not torture others. It is often those who have been tortured who become torturers.

Unfortunately, the soul does not have an exquisite body. Thus medicine developed a strong aversion to anything of a psychological nature - either physical illness or no illness at all. "Psychoanalysis and Soul Healing"

Everyone has two lives. The first time is for others to see, the second time is for yourself. The second life often begins at the age of forty.

The first half of your life may belong to others and live in other people’s opinions. Then give the rest of your life back to yourself and follow your inner voice

Criticism can be very effective if the purpose is to destroy, disrupt, or weaken. But if the purpose is to build, criticism can only hurt.

God is blind in one eye and deaf in one ear, and everything is in chaos. You must be patient with this crippled world, and don't overestimate your own perfection. "The Red Book"

We refuse to admit that all better things are obtained at a greater price. "The Autobiography of Jung: Memories? Dreams? Thoughts"

Forgetting is a normal process. In this process, due to the shift of people's attention, certain ideas and concepts lose their unique energy. "Subconscious Mind and Spiritual Growth"

The thinking of this era only knows practicality and value. I also thought that was the case, and I have always understood this idea.

Overcoming the most intense conflicts gives us a stable and transcendent sense of security and tranquility. It is this explosion of intense conflict that is needed to achieve beneficial and lasting psychological safety and tranquility.

If a person is excellent in thinking, he will definitely not be outstanding in emotion. Because you can't do two things at the same time. These two things will eclipse each other. When you want to think in a truly scientific or philosophical dispassionate way, you have to get rid of all emotional value. …I have seen people who had miraculously perfect control over their emotions end up being severely disturbed by their emotions.

Gather a hundred great minds and you get one great fool.

If you don’t understand a person, you will often regard him as a fool.

People need trouble, and trouble is necessary for mental health.

Without pain, there is no awakening of consciousness.

If the subconscious mind does not enter the conscious mind, it will guide your life and become your destiny.

The inner voice is both our greatest threat and our indispensable salvation.

People will do anything - no matter how ridiculous - to avoid facing their souls.

You cannot love others if you hate yourself. This is why we feel so uneasy when faced with people who are known for their extreme nobility: they bring about an air of self-torture—a vice rather than a virtue.

Sometimes I feel that I stretch out to cover the earth and extend into everything: I feel that I live in every tree, in the waves, in the unpredictable clouds and animals, Live in the cycle of seasons.

The meeting of two souls is like the contact of two chemical substances: the slightest reaction changes them completely.

We are evil, and people must be evil because people are too good. Only domesticated animals misbehave; wild animals never misbehave. Therefore it is blasphemy when we kill the wild nature within ourselves, it is sin, it means killing our inner nature - the natural servants of God. The being you bury grows fatter as you waste away.

If you get rid of the qualities you don't like through rejection, you will become less and less aware of your own existence, the more you declare yourself non-existent, the more your demons will grow.

Compliance with customs and laws can easily become a cover-up for a lie so subtle that it cannot be detected. It enables us to escape all criticism, and it even enables us to deceive ourselves into believing that we are clearly justified. But no matter how much public opinion or moral code supports his legitimacy, deep down in his heart, below the level of ordinary people's consciousness, he still hears a low voice: "Something is not normal."

Consciousness and subconsciousness cannot be complete if one is inhibited and harmed by the other. If they must fight, at least let them have a fair fight as equals. ...which means both open conflict and open cooperation. Apparently this is what human life is like. It's the old hammer-and-anvil trick: where iron becomes steel, becomes "individual." This is broadly what I call the process of "individuation."

What induces a person to finally break out of the subconscious identification with the masses in his own way, like breaking out of a fog? Not needs, for there are many needs, and they all find refuge in routine. Nor is it a moral decision, because nine times out of ten we will choose conventional. So what is it that tips the scales so grimly in favor of the extraordinary? It is what we usually call destiny: an irrational factor that destined a person to be liberated from the people and from the familiar path of the people. True personality is always a destiny which trusts destiny as it trusts God. … And destiny is like God’s commandment, it is inescapable. ...Man must obey his own laws, which are like a guardian spirit, whispering new and wonderful ways to people. The person who enjoys destiny hears this revelation of his inner nature: from somewhere...he is called.

If this were not an empirical fact, I would have no interest in psychology, for then the soul would be nothing but a miserable mist. Yet hundreds of experiences have taught me the opposite: the soul contains much more than doctrine, and this makes the soul the eye of light. This requires an infinitely deep and wide perspective. I am accused of deifying the soul. But it is God himself who deifies the soul.