In family education, letting children try and make mistakes by themselves can cultivate their independent thinking and problem-solving ability and help them form self-confidence and self-esteem. Here are some ways for children to try their own mistakes:

Give children freedom: giving children the power to make their own decisions can make them easier to try and make mistakes. Give children free space and let them decide their own things, such as choosing clothes, food and activities.

Set reasonable boundaries: Although children should be given free space, they also need to set reasonable boundaries to ensure their safety and health. For example, when children want to try new foods, they can tell them which foods are safe and which are unsafe, and supervise their trying process.

Encourage children to try: when children want to try new things, encourage them to try, even if they may make mistakes. Tell them that it is normal to try and make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes. It is important to learn from them.

Don't intervene immediately: When children encounter difficulties or make mistakes, don't intervene immediately. Let children try to solve problems by themselves and provide support only when they really need help. This will enable children to learn the ability to think and solve problems independently.

Reflection with children: When children try to make mistakes, they can reflect with them to help them analyze the reasons and find solutions to the problems. This will allow children to learn from it and avoid similar mistakes from happening again.

Letting children try and make mistakes is a process of gradual adaptation, which requires parents to give enough attention and support, and parents to set reasonable boundaries and give appropriate guidance.