A gentleman values ??others but despises himself, putting others before himself. ——"Book of Rites"
A benevolent person must respect others - Xunzi
A gentleman should treat others with no faults, but should not seek faults with no faults. . ——Cheng Yi
Yan Zi once adopted Yue Shi’s father, but did not respect him very much. Yue Shi's father had an opinion. He said to Yanzi: "The most valuable thing for a person is to have close friends. If you disrespect me so much, why don't you take me as your subordinate."
Bernard Shaw went to Moscow, the Soviet Union, and met a man named Anna was playing with the little girl, and before parting he said: "Go back and tell your mother that the famous British writer Bernard Shaw is playing with you today." Anna imitated his tone and said: "Go back and tell your mother that the person you are playing with today is Bernard Shaw. The famous Soviet girl Anna.”
A poor orphan was adopted by a rich man. Although he had no worries about food and clothing, he was exposed all the time, which was embarrassing. He told the media just after he graduated from college and found a job: "He got what he wanted.
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