Regarding the phenomenon of involution, I still have to treat it rationally. The phenomenon of involution is common among college students, which is actually a fact. Now there are all kinds of pressures in society, and your family will tell you to learn your major well and find a good job. Social reality will tell you that there are many people who are better than you. Where is it so easy to find a job? Many college students are confused about their future and watch people around them go to the postgraduate entrance examination. This is a very blind behavior. There are too many competitors around, I dare not relax, I am afraid that I will fall behind, and then I will imitate others and have nothing to do.
In fact, what we really need to do is to see our position clearly and know what we want, instead of following others and doing what others do.
At the same time, I can't attribute all the problems to involution. We should not over-interpret some things and states. For example, some children make up lessons outside school, and if they can't keep up with their studies, they will make up lessons outside school. This part of children's make-up lessons has nothing to do with the internal volume. They just want to make up lessons outside school so that they can better master their knowledge. If you say that these people are involved in the involution, then this statement is correct.
In fact, on the other hand, that amount also has certain benefits, because it is involuted, so in a team, many people, even everyone, will work hard and work hard, and everyone has certain positive energy. He made the competition in the team more intense. Everyone doesn't want to fall behind or be laughed at by others. They all want to be the best of themselves. He will work hard and continue this state of hard work. Don't want to be surpassed by others, involution also gives some people who don't work hard and don't care a chance to be lazy, so that those who think about pie falling from the sky can't get pie. When everyone is running hard, those who stand still can only wait to be eliminated.
Facing involution, we should have some corresponding methods.
First of all:
We should have a good attitude and go our own way, because most people in involution society are in a state of anxiety. In the face of anxiety, we should adjust our mentality and don't ask others to do anything. You should follow the trend, have your own goals and plans, and accept some of your limitations instead of forcing yourself to do things that you are not good at. Don't set yourself some goals and tasks that you can't accomplish at all. Keep your feet on the ground and move forward step by step. Don't hold the idea that you can only succeed in some things but not fail. Everyone will fail. As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success, and many celebrities have experienced failure. Why are you so obsessed with this matter? The most important thing is that you should recognize your own advantages and continue to cultivate your own advantages, but you can't ignore your own shortcomings. It is also important to get rid of your own shortcomings. You should adapt to the needs of society and develop your own abilities.
Second:
It is necessary to combine your own characteristics and your own actual situation, find a differentiated and personalized road, understand what kind of person you want to be, not what others want you to be, and shape yourself into a different me. In fact, everyone is different, and you are unique.
In fact, the popularity of involution behavior is not sudden. This is a gradual process and an endless spiral cycle. The involution of young people, that is, contemporary college students, is gradually enhanced, largely because they are confused about their own direction of struggle and their own future. At this time, you have just entered the society and don't know some survival rules in society. You want to try, but you can't. You feel useless. There will be a great sense of anxiety, and competitors are gradually increasing. Only when everyone improves his own ability can the threshold of competition rise continuously, and people pay more and more efforts, but the efforts and rewards are not necessarily 1: 1, which will lead to serious doubts about their own life value. Although he is not satisfied with his present situation, he lacks a kind of motivation to pursue his great ideal.
In fact, for example, in the same dormitory, as long as one student is studying, other students may say that the volume is dead. Why is it rolled up again? But in fact, this can't be called a volume. If you can really settle down to study in the dormitory, it also shows that your ability and self-control are strong enough, but if you just show it to your roommate like this, it is definitely not desirable. Or your roommate will draw a beautiful makeup for class every morning when he gets up early. At this time, some people will say strangely, why do you want to make up in the morning? It's really good. But in fact, the parties may not think so much. She just wants to go out and put on beautiful makeup to please herself, not others. Beauty is for herself, which will make her feel better and her life better. Or there is a saying, you say that others are talking, but in fact you will have an inferiority complex in it.
However, we should not be too extreme about the word involution. It's not that hard work is involution. Your efforts are a state of having your own clear goals. Try to make yourself have a better future instead of blindly making false efforts with others. For example, in high school, in order to get into a good university, you will get up early every day to recite words, turn off the lights in the online dormitory, and brush the questions with your small desk lamp. Getting into an ideal university is your effort. This is not what they call involution. The word involution is not aimed at all those who work hard. We should correctly distinguish the meaning of the word involution to us. I have seen such a sentence: there is no so-called involution, everyone just works hard for their own future, simple and pure. This sentence actually poked me. Everyone wants to have a good future. But your bright future depends on your own efforts, instead of blindly following others to make false efforts, that is, blindly involution. There are people in the university who don't participate, and that's him. I have the idea of postgraduate entrance examination, and then I will go to the library day and night to review and recite. Living a life that seems alien to others, but he is also working hard for his future. He knows what he wants and his future. If he goes like this, there will be a better way out. On the contrary, the person who looks busy but has an empty heart, like this, do you think you can learn even if you go to the library? It's no use rolling in like this.
The world today is characterized by limited resources and unlimited competition, and it seems that it can't escape this strange circle after all. The huge digital population continues to grow. Although we want to stop involution, few people will really stop it in reality. Only some of them have their own clear goals and will work hard. Most ordinary people are swinging from side to side, following this person for a while and that person for a while. They are always embarrassed in the middle zone, that is, the identity of a swingman. On the one hand, it is anxiety about involution, on the other hand, it is lying flat. Since we can't break through this strange circle, let's find what we want and don't be too obsessed with the word involution. We don't want to amplify our anxiety ourselves, just keep our hearts firm and move on.
Therefore, for contemporary college students, involution behavior is actually not so desirable. In the face of your uncertainty about the meaning of your life and your future direction, you can continue to look for it instead of blindly following others. This is very irrational behavior. Now the social rhythm is accelerating and the pressure is gradually increasing, but the pressure can't beat you. You must always believe in yourself and hope that you can believe it. Your efforts also need the support of a strong spiritual world. You should have a good attitude, not be anxious and feel that you can't do anything, do nothing, and accomplish nothing. What we can do is to cultivate our own abilities and find our own goals, instead of worrying about the present situation, finding our own future and always having a vision for the future.