First of all, be an honest and upright person. In our society with rapid economic development, the accelerated pace of life has completely changed the way people communicate, and people seem to forget that basic honesty and integrity are the basis for a person to stand on the society. An old Jewish proverb goes like this: If you don't give your best things to others first, the wealth of your life will never turn into money. * * * Enjoying * * to win is always the cornerstone of a society. Whether getting along with people or cooperating with business partners, this is a prerequisite for success. Maybe you seem to have used your intelligence once or twice, but in fact you have lost your future. Honesty and integrity, the basic truth that most people understand in the second grade of primary school, are not understood by many young people at this stage. Few people admit this reality, but when you consider the "good choice" and "right choice" in life, please think carefully about the choices you made when similar situations happened in previous lives.

Second, be far-sighted. The essential gap of intelligence has become very small among college students in China, but why do some people have smooth sailing and others have accomplished nothing? It's the answer to get bigger if you want to. College students in China seldom make long-term plans for their careers. The pressure of real life, such as hukou and job stability, has long been the main yardstick for people to decide their future. Moreover, the hardships of the college entrance examination make the lucky ones feel that their life seems to have been successful, but they don't know that graduation into society is the real beginning of their career. Life has another choice at the moment of graduation from college.

I graduated from a school called north china university of technology. When I was growing up, I don't remember asking myself, "Can I teach in New Oriental? Can I go to Yale? Can I be the general manager of the enterprise? " Because my subconscious has always told me that I can do what others can do, maybe better.

"It is ourselves, not others, who create our own happiness and sadness." I think of a story circulating in New Oriental: two college students applied for American universities together. One of them decided to apply to Harvard, but after hard work, he finally failed. Harvard rejected him, but he was admitted to Duke University and Berkeley, California. There is also a student who is not very demanding of himself and went to a state university in the United States. Finally, he succeeded and was admitted to Utah State University. Who succeeded? This is the truth that "think big and be big".

Third, we must have a correct attitude and action. Is it possible to be big if you want to be big? Absolutely not. Readers must distinguish between "daydreaming" and reality, which requires out-and-out ability to act. How should we act, how to start from small things, how to do more and how to do better?

Finally, since you have chosen a career, you should love it as much as possible and never tell yourself that you don't like it. Nobody forced you. Why do you want to do a career you don't like? This is irresponsible to yourself and others. Yu Chang, the founder of New Oriental, often said, "Don't wait until you have the best job to start working.". Whether any job is valuable depends on your attitude and your ability to act. Don't think you are incompetent. If you are a talented person, let everyone know ~