Tang Jing said this in the TV series "My First Half Life". When she said this, I don't know why. I think she accused not only Lingling, but also herself.
A feeling of sadness oozed from my back. I sympathize with Tang Jing and have loved her for ten years. Although she is a strong woman, she looks invulnerable and invincible
But don't forget, she is a woman first and a strong woman in the workplace.
Tang Jing is a character I sympathize with most in this play. No matter in the workplace or in life, she can't see the sand in her eyes.
Outstanding in her work, as the most successful business elite in Shanghai's most luxurious and top-level office building, she has paid thousands of times more efforts than ordinary people in exchange for a carefree material life.
Her attitude towards work and love is very independent, strong and sad. Like a blade of thin ice, it gives off colorful light in the sun, but it can't detract from the reality that it will hurt itself.
Yi Shu's "Xibao" said, either you have more money or you love more.
When she was chatting with Luo Zijun, she took out this classic sentence from Yi Shu's works. This sentence is basically her attitude towards life. If there is no money, I will have a perfect love. If there is no love, I will at least be richer than others.
She is unwilling to lose. So, she is very tired.
Once a polyp grew in her stomach, which made her thoroughly understand that she should slow down the pace of life and feel more about life. Friends are important, health is important. Life, don't be too busy
But this reborn outlook on life did not form for a long time. I wanted to marry He Han, and I struggled with this person for ten years. As a matter of fact, she is very sober inside. In the absence of a better substitute, everyone will accept this "almost". She thinks it's all right now and should give the other party an explanation.
"If everything is just right, I don't know when."
She never dreamed that God is good at destroying cards. This time, it's her boyfriend and her best girlfriend.
I am an emotional person. When watching TV series, I will feel pain and joy with the characters inside, and really replace myself. Even if you don't think highly of this person, you will be happy or sad as you should be. Then, that's how I watched Tang Jing's psychological ups and downs, and I was deeply touched all the way.
Luo Zijun, as an unfortunate woman, has a history in the first half of her life and a congratulations in the second half. And Tang Jing, in this life, may only be accompanied by his own persistence.
Think of what He Han said to me: "Whenever you want to drink in the future, you need to solve the problem or stay in a daze together. As long as you call me, not to mention Hong Kong, even the Antarctic, I will fly to you immediately. "
I was very moved to hear this sentence at that time. Such feelings can't be built overnight. Like an iceberg in the Antarctic, it must have been bitter and cold for many years.
However, He Han once said: She (Tang Jing) is more like one of my works. You know, I have done countless good cases, but all of them, all of them, can't be called my most proud works. My favorite work is Tang Jing. Do you think I love her or not? There are many smart and virtuous wives, but Tang Jing has only one. I hope she can be better and more perfect!
After listening, the tide in my heart went out with a bang. These words actually explain the reason, because it was planted long ago and it will have the final fruit. She and his goal are actually "too perfect".
I know that after ten years of wandering, this feeling has become a habit, and even a deeper self-proof.
Or as Chen said, this is a ten-year responsibility. That's why I got a bright marriage proposal ring.
He Han could have signed with Kaman when he left Bianchi. In order to make Tang Jing stay in the company better, he gave up this opportunity. At that time, I was thinking, if Tang Jing can relax and stop staring at the self-righteous "an opportunity", when he finds something about He Han, he can think for the opposite person, and maybe their love will be completed earlier.
But no. A person's character will firmly encircle this person.
Tang Jing will regard He Han as the sworn enemy of his career, while Luo Zijun will give up his job for He Han's career. As spectators, we will think clearly at the same time.
What man doesn't like a woman who makes a proper compromise for himself. But He Han and Tang Jing are too much alike. One is a good teacher, and the other is out of his control.
In Luo Zijun's eyes, every word of He Han is her golden rule. Men need women to look up to them, which Tang Jing obviously can't give.
Sometimes, it will be softer. Let others go, and let yourself go.