We should live a wonderful life and not be anyone in anyone's eyes. I am who I am, and the person who can make me feel really happy and confident is the real me.
Yesterday, I chatted with a very, very powerful master, a master worth over 100 million. The host is very modest and has no airs at all. He patiently helped me solve this problem.
Recently, I have seen that almost all others are making money by doing online education. I feel a little anxious. I can't sit still. I want to make money quickly and surpass others.
I told my master that I wanted to talk about writing courses, but I was a little uncertain, because I saw that many people who talked about writing were masters, and their courses were excellent and popular, but I only wrote for more than a year, so I had no advantage over them.
Master, tell me, why are you competing with them? Although they are masters, their courses are for very powerful people. Your course can be very grounded. You can tell them to the online white who just started writing.
There are still many ordinary people in this world. At that time, you will be more popular than them.
The teacher's words reminded me of a very powerful lecturer the other day. He told me that he wanted to write, so he bought some master writing courses, because he just gave lectures and he never wrote.
When he took the master's writing class, he felt a little abstruse, which didn't help people who just started writing. This is something worth listening to, and it is a bit difficult to implement.
Suddenly feel very confident. Although I am Xiao Bai, I have my own advantages! Why should I compare with others? I just want to be myself.
The master told me not to think too much. You just need to be yourself. You have to believe in yourself. Only by believing in yourself can we do better.
After communicating with the master, I suddenly had an idea. I want to make a plan of 100 days and use 100 days to change myself.
Yesterday, my 100-day plan was completed, and I was a little excited.
I found that as long as you want to finish something, you can really finish it. I have never felt this way, and I broke through myself at once.
My request to myself is to practice every lesson many times in the future, so that I can share it when I am satisfied, and stop talking if I am not satisfied.
I want to make my courses the same as my articles, and do my best in every class.
I want to live as myself, and no longer envy others.
Adjust the mentality, growth is more important than success.
I would like to live to be true to myself: I have various customs, and I live in peace with the world!
You have to believe in yourself, like yourself, believe in yourself and recognize yourself.
Instead of others believing in themselves, others recognizing themselves, others believing in themselves, that's Thaksin, not self-confidence.
We really don't need to care too much about other people's ideas without disturbing others and causing them trouble.
As long as you don't interfere with others, don't influence others, don't involve others, be abnormal as you want, and be yourself as you want, it has nothing to do with others.
Be yourself from today.
Be the best you can be.
02
Be yourself, there is no shame, others have nothing to do with you, just do what you should do.
Last night, another sister came to see me. She said that she had just started an English training class in a strange city. In order to find customers, she had to take to the streets to distribute leaflets and ask for other people's phone numbers.
She felt embarrassed. She asked me what to do.
In fact, I did the same thing last year.
Husband needs to attract customers when he works. At that time, I took my children on the construction site and pulled customers for him.
In fact, when I was soliciting customers for him, I didn't consider success or failure. I'm just introducing my business to customers. As for success or failure, that's someone else's business. I don't introduce it, that's my business.
So when I do this, I just need to be myself, regardless of other people's eyes. We live for ourselves, not for others.
Just be yourself, live high.
03
The past tense is just the past tense. We have a bright future. Only by looking forward can we have a chance to be better ourselves.
A divorced sister left me a message yesterday. She asked me if I wanted to remarry. I told her, yes! Why not?
I have a long life. I can't go alone. I need to find a partner to go with me.
But before you remarry, you must be the best you can be. Make yourself confident and happy first. Only when you are happy can you manage the happiness of this family. If you bring it into your marriage in this depressed state, your marriage will not be happy. You can only give it to yourself, others can't.
I suggest that elder sister get better quickly, make herself confident and find her own happiness.
Big sister always doesn't believe in herself, fearing that she can't find her own happiness.
She told me that she had made many mistakes in the past and she couldn't forgive herself.
I told her that the past has been turned over and we have to move on.
Again, everyone should live: I have all kinds of customs, and I don't compete with the world. As long as it doesn't affect others, you can be abnormal and be yourself.
No matter whether others like you or not, you should like yourself.
The past is the past, no matter right or wrong, it is history. History has been turned over, and there is no point in looking back. It's better to start over and be a more beautiful self.
04
As long as you put your heart into it, you can really achieve a lot of things. Only by doing things with your heart can your confidence radiate from the inside out.
In the past, when giving lectures, I only finished the task for the sake of completing the task. I just want to give lectures once a day when I see others, so I don't care too much. Since the teacher finished speaking, I prepared the course yesterday, but I was not too satisfied with it myself, so I didn't talk about it, because this course was going to be distributed to billionaires, and I certainly couldn't cope with it. I don't have to deal with every class in the future, so I have to concentrate.
Yesterday, I suddenly seemed to understand. Under the guidance of the master, I suddenly realized that only when you are satisfied with yourself can you teach this course well.
I always want to do something to help others recently, but I have never thought about myself. The people I helped thanked me and gave me a red envelope. I have never received their red envelopes. I am willing to help them and help them from the bottom of my heart. As long as they are happy, it is my greatest happiness. As long as they are happy, it is my greatest happiness.
Although my family was poor when I was a child, no one helped me when I needed help at that time, but now I want to do my little to help others.
I don't think people can live for themselves. You want the value of live high. I want to wait until I am too old to walk. At that time, I hope my article can be seen by more people, and my spirit of incense can affect more people.
I hope to publish a book in the future, so that more people can see my spirit and let them move forward with me.
When some people are confused, I am also confused for them, because I have been confused before, and I know the taste of confusion is unpleasant, so I want to help more people and help them get out of it.
The real strong man is not how many people have settled down, but how many people he can help and how many people he can help. This is a virtue and the ability to help others. Only those with virtue and ability are strong.
I am super confident, I have all kinds of customs, I don't compete with the world, I am unique, and I have a different life.