1. If you are maliciously attacked by others, please remember that what they do is to gain a sense of self-importance, which usually means that you have achieved something and deserve others' attention. Many people will get some satisfaction when they scold those who are much better than them in all aspects. Please take other people's unfair criticism as another recognition for you. No one will kick a dead dog ...

2. Interpersonal relationship is the communication between people, and it is the golden rule to express in a modern way that "if you want others to do to yourself, you must do to others first" in the Bible.

3. Do you know what is the most important characteristic of human beings? It's not executive ability, great mind, kindness, courage or sense of humor, although these are all important.

4. If you are criticized, please remember that it is because criticizing you will give him a sense of importance, which also shows that you are accomplished and attractive. Many people get satisfaction by accusing people who are more accomplished than themselves.

5. If you don't agree with other people's opinions, you may want to stop them, but you'd better not. It's useless. If you want to make enemies, you are better than your friends; But if you want to get friends, let your friends get ahead of you. There is a saying in Germany: "The purest happiness is the happiness we get from the difficulties of others." Yes, some friends may get more satisfaction from your difficulties than from your victory. So don't always exaggerate your achievements to others, we should be humble, so that people will always like it. We should be humble, because you and I are nothing ...

6. Save the face of others! What an important question this is! And we seldom consider this problem. Even if others make mistakes and we are right, if we don't save face for others, we will ruin a person.

7. People suffer because they pursue the wrong things and regard simple things as complicated and serious; The reason why people are depressed is that they put a lot of impurities in their hearts. Not only do they not clean them up, but they put more and more, which makes you breathless. The reason why people are stupid is that they can't hear other people's voices and always think they are the smartest people in the world.

8. Expand the scope of communication and cultivate your curiosity: those who are not interested should also go, and both men and women should be active with interest. Only in this way can people feel your charm and happy atmosphere. Don't let personality differences get in the way: socializing and choosing friends are not exactly the same thing. In the social process, don't use the conditions of choosing friends or even intimate friends as the standard. Anyone who doesn't have the same interests and personality will be rejected. The new friends you meet in the social circle should be people who are quite different from you.