Many things are like this. This is "the authorities are confused, but the bystanders are clear". Because I always don’t like to face reality and always think that I am the most perfect. The most important reason is: the reason why you ask this question must be because you care too much about what others say and lose yourself. The most terrifying thing about a person is that he is unrepentant and cannot recognize his own mistakes, which is hopeless. A person is not stupid, but it is difficult for a person to recognize his own mistakes. Only by recognizing mistakes can he find the direction of change. In the end, success will meet you unexpectedly.

Talk about "introspection"

① The ancient Greek philosopher Epicurus has a famous saying: "Recognizing mistakes is the first step to saving yourself." The ancient Roman philosopher Seneca said Its interpretation is: If a person has not realized that he is doing something wrong, he will not have the desire to correct the mistake; before correcting the mistake, you have to discover and admit that you have made a mistake. Only in this way, with timely reflection, can we save ourselves from mistakes and failures. Zengzi, an ancient Chinese thinker, also said, "I examine myself three times every day." It seems that these sages have already regarded self-examination as a conscious behavior. The "introspection consciousness" they advocate has been benefiting mankind as spiritual wealth for thousands of years.

② However, in this increasingly impetuous era, we are faced with such an embarrassment: on the one hand, there is a high degree of affluence in material life, and on the other hand, there is extreme poverty in the spiritual world - the lack of self-reflection consciousness. It is clear evidence. A. Whenever we get into trouble, do something wrong, or hurt others, the first thing we think of is not to admit the mistake proactively but how to evade responsibility; whenever we encounter difficulties such as failure in exams, obstacles in finding a job, or difficulty in fulfilling our ambitions, we The first thing that comes to mind is not the lack of one's own efforts, lack of strength, or gap in ability, but the habit of blaming the causes of one's own faults and failures on the interference of others and external factors while being sad, frustrated, melancholy, and angry. environment, but lacks the torture of one's own soul and lacks deep introspection.

Therefore, our understanding of the soul