1. Nothing is repeated, everything is unique. ——"Capital" by the French Goncourt brothers

The difference between wise men and mediocre people is that wise men never compare with others, they believe that they are always unique; while mediocre people are always addicted to the comparison game In the process, they lose themselves in comparison and become full of resentment. In the end, they become mediocre people.

2. Everyone has his hidden essence, which is different from anyone else’s essence. It gives people their own scent. ——Romain Rolland

Everyone dreams of becoming the best. In fact, we can really become that person. No one can predict that you won't succeed. Since there is no way to deny this fact, why not give it a try? On the contrary, if you are in life,

3. It is difficult to find two leaves on a tree with exactly the same shape, and it is also difficult to find two people among a thousand people who are completely coordinated in their thoughts and emotions. ——Goethe's "Human Nature"

Comparatively, if you don't believe in yourself, gradually ignore yourself, and lose yourself, perhaps you will accomplish nothing in the future, and you will spend the rest of your life in trouble and complaining. God tells us: Everyone is a treasure, with unlimited potential and abilities deep in our hearts. Don’t compare, but dig out your own treasure through unremitting efforts. In fact, you are unique.

4. I am unique, I know myself and others, I am born different; I dare to say that I am not like anyone else in the world. If I am not better than others, then I am at least the same as others. Nature molded me and then shattered the mold. ——Rousseau's "The Great Revolution"

We are the unique "treasure". The root of comparison is lack of confidence. Because of lack of confidence, we want to find confidence through comparison. However, most people are in the process of comparison. Not only did I fail to regain my confidence, but I became inferior to myself.

5. Remember, you are unique in the world. ——Carnegie "Human Weakness"

For each of us, fate is fair. Everyone has his or her own value. This is beyond doubt. All we need to do is appreciate it. Self, recognize your own value.